2022.01.20 17:17 Adorable_Mushroom474 My 71 year old father wants to divorce my step mom
I partially need to vent but I am also looking for advice. I'm 28 located in BC Canada, and it has become apparent that my dad wants to divorce my step mom. It's a highly toxic environment for both of them, the love is clearly gone on both ends, he is extremely paranoid that she snoops on his phone and computer, to the point where he literally thinks they are both bugged. So he has asked me for help getting things ready for the divorce ( contacting bank for financial records, contacting lawyer for will changes and to start the process, etc.) because he is worried that if she found out he is planning to do so that she would "burn any evidence" that he has financially contributed to the place they are living. He even half jokingly said that she would poison him before he could get the chance to leave if she found out. He put everything he had left into her house and is currently paying the mortgage.... anyway.... the part that kills me is that I am not currently in a place where I could take him in, my finace and I are renting a basement, trying to save up for a house, but not sure if we could afford one with a suite for my dad. My dad is extremely opposed to any kind of assisted living situation, has recovered from substance abuse problems and frankly i don't think he would do well in a place like that, he's said on multiple occasions he would prefer to put a bullet in his head....
What I am looking for advice on is 1. Is there any advice around helping an elderly parent through the divorce process. Is there any financial help available for legal fees for low income seniors. Any resources at all. It feels like it's going to cause drama having me be involved at all, but he clearly needs help so ofcourse I am going to do it. If I could have someone else in my corner to assist it would be so so helpful.
2022.01.20 17:17 BaddaBingB Refused Visitor Visa: what shall we do next?
I am the boyfriend of user Purplewood_. I know you must have lots of messages from people on here asking for advice, but I hope you may be able to help a bit. We recently had a standard Visitor Visa refused on a few grounds.
Official reason ":I am not satisfied that you intend to leave the UK at the end of the period of visit as stated by you as required by paragraph 4.2 (a) and (c) of Appendix V of the Immigration Rules relating to Visitors."
Lack of bank statements for her (She has only just opened an account) which they said was ambiguous as to where her salary was going (I'd uploaded her payslips from her job but she was being paid in person). As I was her Sponser I uploaded my payslips and bank statements for the past 6 months, and earn over the £18600 threshold, but they seemed more interested in her lack of a bank account. The other points of refusal were a lack of ties to her country, as in assets or family. She is a citizen of her country with both parents stated. Would a rent agreement etc. have helped?
Basically, from what I can tell they thought that she was at risk of not going home. What would have helped change that? We both wanted to spend time together and to show her around my country (which was stated in the Sponser letter), before getting engaged and then married in her country, then applying for a spouse visa after the wedding. However, we are now devastated and want to work out what stages to take next.
It seems a Fiance visa would make sense, and to get married in UK would be part of that, before applying for a spouse visa. All these visas are very expensive, and we want to make sure we tick all the boxes and have no more refusals as financially it would be tough. What evidence would be required? We've met in person twice for 2 weeks each time (that will be 3 times after April) since meeting online last May, each time outside UK. I will soon be living in a rented property and so am curious how to prove she can stay with me:? And also, financially would I have to prove she earns £18600 equivalent also, or am I able to just prove what I earn is over that.
Also, what proof of engagement is needed? A ring, photos etc. Or do we only need to prove we will get married in the UK with bookings etc?
Loads of questions I know, I hope you can advise if possible. Being in love and kept apart like this hurts us both so much, and I need a way of getting us together for good.
Thanks in advance
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2022.01.20 17:17 A_Zesty_Carrot Lemme see what it says, Reddit...
2022.01.20 17:17 mf_jones76 nft game
hi yall, just found a really awesome nft project that is going to launch this year. it is champion ascension. it is a mix between mortal combat and world of warcraft and i really liked it. there are still spots on the whitelist so if anyone wants to know more or wants an invite to the discord just hmu
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2022.01.20 17:17 LiL0u About embedded tweets and youtube videos
I'm currently using Firefox + uBlock, and I of course block google/youtube/twittefacebook domains.
I know about Nitter and Invidious redirect extensions. Invidious kind of works with embedded videos (depends on the instance..) although I have to unblock youtube domain and I dont know if that's ok for my privacy or not. Nitter doesnt even work with embedded tweets.
Is there any good solution for embedded media that is privacy friendly?
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2022.01.20 17:17 ATinyHippo "ArchVis" Map Build Lighting Issues
2022.01.20 17:17 FINAL_BOSS5 Hugo Lloris has reached an agreement with Tottenham to extend his contract, here we go. New deal until June 2024 set to be announced - he’s staying, confirmed as expected ⚪️🤝 #THFC Antonio Conte strongly wanted Hugo to stay at Spurs. Paperworks almost ready, as per @pokeefe1.
2022.01.20 17:17 chillinchilli Is he the asshole for making his girlfriend feel guilty about cooking Indian food?
2022.01.20 17:17 Ferrari303 Any Elena fans out there ?? That actually love the character
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2022.01.20 17:17 youngcandy69 On the topic of Brandon Flowers…
In episode 274 the boys have a conversation about the killers lead singer Brandon flowers, a little piece of personal information, he bought my ex girlfriends house in Salt Lake City, Utah. So if you are reading this Nick or KB, come to Utah I’ll show you a good time and we can meet Brandon.
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2022.01.20 17:17 FruityToesxoxo a little scrunch at the top 😙
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2022.01.20 17:17 Deadbul I got a bug in a MP match where 900 of my soldiers always disband automatically. Any solutions?
2022.01.20 17:17 hopkins_notakpopper [Serious] Why is it so hard to take advice and act on it?
2022.01.20 17:17 NightButcher Sea of Thieves - Oh shit, ram that ship
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2022.01.20 17:17 Asriel_Dreemurr07 How many total rounds of Rock paper scissors do you play to decide something?
2022.01.20 17:17 luciferisthename I'm not sure what happened to my game, I was getting achievements last night and now it says I can't get any. I have all dlc and I have not done anything to my save file. What happened? Can I fix it?
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2022.01.20 17:17 Filipoida Should I eat my modly frozen pizza? Will the heat kill it?
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2022.01.20 17:17 dirrtyremixes ANTI - Bernmad [DR142]
2022.01.20 17:17 Julierich23 47[F4R] Opportunity
I’m looking to be a spouse or sugar mommy,so if you are also looking for that read on
I promise I’m as serious as this post might imply . but I’m being as forward and possible for brevity and clarity
I am a sugar mommy who is interested in, but necessarily good at ball things nerdy (gaming ,TTRPG, Puzzles, etc )I like to hike in the cooler months ,but not so much in the summer.I do enjoy stepping out of my comfort zone to try new things (rights now I’m looking at some archery stuff and looking into ballroom dancer).my favorite color green, viridian and sage to be specific . I am a little on the heavier side , but not obese .Being more active and eating better is a priority right now so weight loss will come , I’m sure I was raised in a Christian household, but I no longer practice. I celebrate Christian holidays secularly . I would describe myself as compassionate, light -hearted and adventurous.
My ideal partner: my idea partner would be between 18- 35 years old . You are stable in most aspects of your life a good communicator.
Again, I promise I’m so serious, but I do want make sure we’re in the same page
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2022.01.20 17:17 Ash171001 Qué es Cloudflare y cómo beneficia al SEO
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2022.01.20 17:17 TheseRevolution Nice spots to work from?
I want to change locations and see some new places while I am here. What are some good cafes/etc to work from?
I would need wifi, outlets, and a relatively quiet environment. Some cafes have super loud music unfortunately.
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2022.01.20 17:17 juventus_ultras85 What do you think about Italy?
2022.01.20 17:17 sensualitycop Abandoned buildings and [secret] accessible rooftops in Amsterdam
Hey Amsterdammers! I was wondering if you could suggest any [secret] rooftops to climb up or [secret] abandoned buildings to visit in Amsterdam area? Much appreciated!
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2022.01.20 17:17 very_much_afraid_ I am scared, and I don’t know what to do
Hey everyone. Today was my last exam and now I’m at home, In bed and I’m suddenly feeling very very very n*.
Idk what it is, I haven’t left my house in days (but I did go out to dinner last night) and I ate a good dinner tonight, but for some reason I just don’t feel good.
My heart is pounding and I’m so scared guys. What if I caught something? Im terrified. Please help
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2022.01.20 17:17 19MILITANT93 Name a football team more majestic than Brazil 2002-2006