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I am in not committal relationship then fell in love. We have great chemistry, enjoy each other company but we fight a lot (maybe not compatible?) so we agreed to end it soon but not now. Is there something I can do differently before our end date?

2022.01.28 05:54 groovin_holic I am in not committal relationship then fell in love. We have great chemistry, enjoy each other company but we fight a lot (maybe not compatible?) so we agreed to end it soon but not now. Is there something I can do differently before our end date?

Long post but tl;dr on the title
I (34F) have been seeing this guy (42M) for the past six months. We met through Bumble during the lockdown & when I just moved to this new country, so I didn't know anyone back then.
Since day-1 we met, we always meet every 2-3 days if we are both in town & communicate everyday. But I wasn't sure about him because of several reasons, one being that he's this type of guy who likes to flirt & get attention from girls so I feel that I could never be in a trustful relationship with him. I also earn 10x more than him so I think it would never work in the future.
So when he said "I love you" I didn't say it back, instead I say he can do whatever he wants & I can do whatever I want. And he's okay with this.
We fight almost every week which is exhausting, I was thinking of ending it several times. some topic of our fight:

In short he thinks I have this demanding attitude to be treated as princess with the sarcastic way that he doesn't like on how to communicate things. I feel that he treats other people better than he treats me.
But I sometimes feel how strongly he feels towards me. For example, after one of the fights he went to my place then gave me a long hug, where his whole body & hands were shivering. I also feel he's quite possessive/jealous towards me, like when I was on a trip with my friends he asked me to take a selfie on my bed. When I'm out with my friend & not replying to his messages, he showed up at my place at midnight to check whether I'm okay (& to check whether I brought some guy home). After each fight, he always reach out to me first. On our last fight he told me to be gentle to him when mad, because he's trying his damn hard to make me happy.
Talked this with my friend and she suggested, his treatment to me is kinda fair since I'm not actually in a relationship with him. By this time, I think I start to fall for him but I'm still unsure about him. My friends told me we can never be 100% sure with someone, that doesn't mean we cannot enjoy the moment. That opened my perspective.
With this, I told him I love him. BUT he didn't say it back to me. After a long & lengthy conversation, in short: I'm not what he's looking for & we could never work because we're not compatible because of my "attitude". So he's fine with our arrangement where we can do whatever we want.
I'm not saying I'm surprised but I'm hurt. I told him we can no longer have this arrangement because I'm gonna feel hurt when he finds another person. So we agreed on an end date which is the end of feb. This was last week as the start of my heart break.
Yesterday we had a massive fight. It started when I got back home from work on Wed, I just casually called him and he's out playing pool with his friends. He then told me he wanted to spend the night with me because I have plans on Thu & Fri so he won't be able to see me until Sat. I said I'm concerned it might be too late (in the past I told him I don't like his midnight visit because it makes me feel like a booty call) & he said he will let me know. He texted me at 11:35pm saying that he's on the way. I told him it's too late. He reads my messages when he's at the traffic light 10mins away from my place. I texted him don't come, ignoring his messages.
He ended up knocking at my door & I ended up opening the door. He was yelling at me then left. He then left a voice message saying sorry that he yelled but I'm not a booty call like what I thought. He wanted to spend some time with me & hug me because I'm gonna be busy. And he can't believe I won't even wait for 10mins while I was still up anyway while he's driving 20km all the way to my place just to see me.
The next day (Thu) I didn't hear from him the whole day. I took the situation last night and posted it on AITA reddit to know whether I'm in the wrong for not wanting him to come over because I feel like a booty call. It's clear from judgment that he's the asshole in the scenario. I screen shot it and sent it to him. He sent me another lengthy voice message saying that I framed the questions wrong.
It should be how busy he is but making the time to meet me. He declined a late night dinner offer after pool that night because he wanted to see me. On the other hand, in the past, I sometimes called him at night and he always comes whenever I ask him to come it even though it's late. He would also never say no to me anytime I want to come over, so no I'm not a booty call. He also said he just got back from the hospital then he ended the message by saying he wants to end this now, not end of feb.
I left a text message asking "are you sure" he didn't reply. At midnight I left a shitloads of goodbye messages. He replied in the morning "are you even care about the early part of my voice message".
I then called him just a couple of hours ago. Apparently he got a fever yesterday and went to the hospital, I thought he went to the hospital to visit his friend. Then we talked some more, he still wants to do this arrangement between us until the end of Feb and we actually planned a trip next week during Chinese new year holiday, he still wants to do that as well. But he's pretty adamant that we can never be something long term/serious because of my "attitude". It really hurts because I was ready to let go of my ideals & criterias for him because I enjoy his company.
I told him my "attitude" is because he never gave me the sense of security. I always feel hurt when he does something to other people and compares it to how he did it to me. I won't do that if I feel secure. He replied he's not obligated to give me a sense of security because we're not in a relationship. I asked him whether at one point he considered me to be serious with me. He said yes, but not anymore. I asked whether he was serious when he said he loves me earlier, he said yes he meant it.
Questions:
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2022.01.28 05:54 megisakay Recap 1/5/22 - 1/6/22

This is a very behind and very lax recap of Ash Ketchup's day (Jan. 5 - Jan. 6 {EST}). These are just timestamps and very brief descriptions.
I accidentally deleted what I had before AshK started streaming, and I’m too lazy to go back and find it. From what I remember:

If you are interested in seeing it, I think the VODs are still up.
- Larry is played by Ripoozi
- Craig is played by Smithyfps
- Antonio is played by Vee_v
- Romeo (Roman) is played by Galactic DPN
Ash streams.
Ash ends stream.
- AshK goes in her head. She is dancing with a microwave on the wall outside UwU.
Skud_Oftr: https://www.twitch.tv/videos/1254582335?t=3h7m0s
- AshK comes out of her head. She briefly talks to Skud, then he rides off on a bike.
Lysium: https://www.twitch.tv/videos/1254590887?t=2h44m29s
- You can see AshK in the background. She is talking to people outside the cafe. All of them either had their eyes closed or the VOD Is gone. They are playing on Antonio’s car and AshK comes running over to Benji saying that her microwave broke.
- Benji runs inside, then AshK runs inside holding the fridge.
Brief VCB
Simo: https://www.twitch.tv/videos/1254576826?t=3h24m37s
- AshK comes to the group of people outside.
- AshK sees Azul and runs over to him. She comes back to the group like a minute later.
- AshK runs away and comes back to Reggie a few minutes later.
- AshK says that Mabel sounds like…(Jasper). They go on a seasoning run.
- They arrive at the cafe. KJ shoots AshK’s tire because Reggie ran him over. AshK drops off the seasoning. Police come.
MikeHorrorible: https://www.twitch.tv/videos/1254644531?t=0h34m0s
- AshK talks to Mabel.
Mari, but VOD is gone.
Simo: https://www.twitch.tv/videos/1254576826?t=3h48m57s
- Talking to Bayo.
- AshK goes to tell Lynx to train Mabel. On her way back to Reggie, she runs into a drunk guy. They make a defense circle around him.
- AshK handcuffs him and makes a citizen's arrest. She starts handcuffing and un-cuffing everyone.
Darthbobo77:https://www.twitch.tv/videos/1254655610?t=0h19m4s
- Rudi calls AshK.
Back to Reggie:
- EMS arrive.
MikeHorrorible: https://www.twitch.tv/videos/1254644531?t=0h54m43s
- AshK handcuffs Mabel.
Simo:https://www.twitch.tv/videos/1254576826?t=4h6m33s
- She pulls Reggie aside to talk about what Mabel said.
MikeHorrible: https://www.twitch.tv/videos/1254644531?t=0h56m21s
- She asks Lynx to train Mabel. She temporarily hires Mabel.
Simo: https://www.twitch.tv/videos/1254576826?t=4h8m19s
- Reggie and AshK go on an ingredient run.
- Mando is there when they get back to the cafe. Reggie goes into the cafe, while AshK talks to Mando. (Slight VCB, can be seen and heard as Reggie runs in and out of the cafe).
- AshK found a wheelchair.
Skud_Oftr: https://www.twitch.tv/videos/1254582335?t=4h12m34s
- Skud talks to AshK.
- She talks to everyone in the cafe.
Simo: https://www.twitch.tv/videos/1254576826?t=4h29m31s
- AshK yells at Reggie to be nice. She goes put the wheelchair back where she found it.
Kongfue: https://www.twitch.tv/videos/1254599650?t=3h28m40s
- AshK comes back and handcuffs KJ. Mari makes a joke.
Mari, but VOD is gone.
- Both Reggie + KJ walk away, leaving Mari, Rex, + AshK talking.
Skud_Oftr; https://www.twitch.tv/videos/1254582335?t=4h23m20s
- You can hear Mari + AshK talking. Skud joins them.
Slight VCB.
Skud_Oftr: https://www.twitch.tv/videos/1254582335?t=4h28m17s
- AshK comes outside.
Simo: https://www.twitch.tv/videos/1254576826?t=4h43m26s
- Cooking time. On the radio with Reggie.
- They talk in the office when AshK finishes cooking.
- They head to the cafe and stop at Benny’s on the way.
MikeHorrorible: https://www.twitch.tv/videos/1254644531?t=1h50m21s
- AshK is riding her bike in the cafe.
Kongfue: https://www.twitch.tv/videos/1254599650?t=3h57m52s
- KJ chases after AshK who is riding her bike up the stairs in UwU.
- Business talk.
- Reggie goes to bed and says goodnight over the radio.
- Back to business talk.
MikeHorrorible: https://www.twitch.tv/videos/1254644531?t=1h57m0s
- KJ goes to talk to Skud and Santa comes in.
- AshK is in the background of Mabel’s eyes, talking to people and training Santa.
Slight VCB when Mabel goes into the break room.
- AshK invites Mabel to go paint balling. She pays for her to go.
Kongfue: https://www.twitch.tv/videos/1254599650?t=4h22m13s
- AshK invites Mabel to go paintballing. She pays for her to go.
Ash goes to bed.
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