2022.01.18 01:41 lin-ziiii Hate it here
2022.01.18 01:41 medium_nice_ Since when are tips mandatory?
I read it here all the time but I still don’t get it. How can you guys insist on tips?
Sure, tips are nice and cool, nothing against some free extra money. But no guest has to give a tip. It’s completely voluntarily. There’s no law to tell a guest to give a tip.
So why all the hate when someone doesn’t tip? Just move on with your work.
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2022.01.18 01:41 GamingWithMB MENCS 2019 paint schemes won't load. I can see them on the opponents page but they won't load into a race and I can't drive them. what am I doing worng?!
2022.01.18 01:41 DISANews Volkswagen Group China's component factory in Tianjin resumes some shifts
2022.01.18 01:41 ArtsJayc Drawing Tom Holland Spider-Man Symbiote Suit Timelapse | Jaycarts
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2022.01.18 01:41 hllyglghtly I'm a sex worker (22F) and my partner is non-binary (29M). Looking for advice on your alternative relationships.
Hi everyone <3 warning, this one is going to be a read! I'm coming here to gather some insight and advice on being in an unconventional relationship. It's hard to relate to most people about relationships and even talk about some of these things because my partner is very private about their gender identity and has only shared with with me, his ex, and the people he's slept with.
He uses he/him and they/them pronouns interchangeably, but prefers he/him most of the time so that's what I'll use. He was assigned male and birth, but a few months ago, he opened up to me about how he has been confused about his gender for many years and sometimes dresses up "like a girl".
His last relationship became toxic after he shared this, which is why he took so long to tell me. He has a lot of trauma surrounding his sexuality and gender identity, but they decided to explore this together. She would help him get dressed up and they would go out together and hook up with both trans and cis folk with the intention of growing closer in their sexual exploration. She eventually became jealous and began abusing him, and they broke up.
Flash forward a few years, and we meet at a party. We began dating and I had no indication whatsoever that he was anything other than a cis-het man. We would rarely argue, but once we had a pretty bad argument and in the aftermath of making up he opened up to me about how he is attracted to men. Later on, he shared that he cross-dresses and prefers sleeping with trans women.
I wasn't upset that he took so long to tell me (over half a year into our relationship). In fact, I completely understand. At one point in my life, I went through something similar, and I was very androgynous. I identify as pan so I wasn't upset (or worse) that he wasn't who I thought he was at first. He was clearly scared and I felt honored and proud of him for telling me.
Since then, I have dressed up with him, done his hair and makeup, and it was a lovely experience. He cried and I held him when I saw him like that for the first time.
After 7 months of being together, I finally told him that I, too have a secret. Before we started dating, I was a sugar baby (but quite honestly, more of an escort). I occasionally met with other people in the beginning of our relationship, but stopped because I felt so guilty about not being fully committed to him. I was always under the impression that he wanted to be monogamous, and it ate me alive to think about how I had this double life while being with him.
We have never put a label on our relationship, so I wouldn't necessarily label it as cheating. At the time, it felt like it, but now even after we've been very transparent, I am more confused than ever. I was fighting for monogamy, but unfortunately I had to continue the sex work for financial means. I have done everything I can to not have to put myself through that anymore (it has been rough for me at times) but I will soon be starting again soon. I know how messed up this sounds, but I don't want to tell him. I am very safe but I'm just scared that he's going to leave if I start again.
He has asked that he gets the space to sleep with other people. He said he only wants to sleep with cis-men and trans-women, and I tell him it's okay because 1. we don't have a title so it feels weird to tell him what he can and cannot do and 2. I want him to explore and be happy.
He has been seeing other people, and all I've asked is that he uses protection, doesn't do it at his place (I'm over a lot so I would be kinda sad if I slept in the same bed he had sex with someone else in), and to let me know afterwards. He has been respectful of these boundaries. We're pretty serious for not being in a clear-cut relationship, but now I'm just super unsure of how we can maintain a healthy connection and grow together with all of these blurred lines.
I have asked him if this is a temporary thing, and he says he doesn't know. I am expecting this to be what our relationship is gonna be: non-monogamous with no titles. I know I am not going to be doing the whole sugar baby thing for more than a few months, and if he wanted to be monogamous, I would do it in a heartbeat.
We want to have a future together, move in someday, and even have dreams of starting a family. Things are already pretty serious, and we spend a lot of time together. I have been in relationships in the past and this one has been the most intense, regardless of my past relationships being more exclusive and pretty traditional within the parameters of dating.
So, with all of this being said, I am left with so many questions. Is a future together possible? Can a relationship truly be healthy if we never have an end game where we actually put a label on it? Are labels necessary? Am I wrong for wanting one? Should we even be seeing each other?
Sometimes it feels like there's no point. And it's very confusing because I want to have a title and actually call this person my partner, but I don't want to be possessive. I can't even talk about details with anyone because all my friends know him. We argue a lot more now and I just want to find a way for us to both be happy.
If you have any thoughts or similar experiences, I would love to hear. Thank you for reading and I hope you all are staying safe and healthy out here.
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2022.01.18 01:41 thorbutskinny Tiny criminal rides around on my shoulder like a parrot, wanted for piracy
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2022.01.18 01:41 International_Bell81 Cardinals fans got what they deserved tonight.
2022.01.18 01:41 GamopetalousSwoop [Politics Monday] I often see Catholics on social media espousing this kind of rhetoric regarding the COVID Pandemic , like Dr Taylor Marshall here. Why do a lot of American Catholics think like this?
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2022.01.18 01:41 ogfk [BDSP] Spheal CD Giveaway - HA Heavy Ball with egg moves
To celebrate spheal community day in pokémon go, I bred a box full of spheals to give away to the BDSP community.
Spheal in heavy ball Hidden Ability: Oblivious Calm nature - Powder Snow (pogo community day fast move) -Rest -Yawn -Curse
Ign Fahim, boyfriend avatar standing in the middle of the room.
No requests, eggs, or trade evos just keep retrying to get in the room if you don’t see me.
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2022.01.18 01:41 MS564 Sewanee vs Gettysburg
2022.01.18 01:41 dnlreichert Lost Beach
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2022.01.18 01:41 NoConsideration3324 alguien morbo
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2022.01.18 01:41 Mutant_Llama1 Would the correct blazon for this be, "On teal field, a roundel azure with border argent", or "On teal field, an annulet argent filled blue"?
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2022.01.18 01:41 hopelesssol [DISC] Karakai Jouzu No Takagi San - Chapter 156
2022.01.18 01:41 bohemian_luna Oh me oh my
Check out this clip! bohemian_luna League of Legends! https://clips.twitch.tv/BlindingSparklyJayBlargNaut-vyhzpR1udLM3IyVu
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2022.01.18 01:41 1337h4x20r CPE 440 (Intro. to AI) vs. CPE 695 (Applied Machine Learning)
Has anyone taken both of these classes? I'm looking to drop a class from my schedule to focus on other projects, and I'm curious if these two courses are more or less the same. The syllabi both reference the same textbook, and it looks like the material is more or less the same with CPE 695 focusing more on ML application and has a final project and CPE 440 focusing more on an overview of AI/ML.
Can anyone comment on this? Should I drop one or do they complement each other nicely?
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2022.01.18 01:41 Tdsktdsk What are some attractive features on the opposite sex (or same sex if you’re gay) that don’t seem to make sense?
2022.01.18 01:41 yyzworker COVID-19 linked to death of four-year-old girl in Quebec City
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2022.01.18 01:41 an4s_911 How does the earth rotate at a constant speed but people at different places see the sun moving in different speeds?
So, basically due to gravity differs due to mass, different places on earth experience slightly different gravitational force, and due to that they all experience time at different speeds. Right?
Ok, imagine me being in India, I can see the sun moving at a speed. Now what about someone that is in Russia, and in the same longitude as me(ie same clock)? They experience different time, so they will see the sun moving slowefaster relatively.
But the earth is moving at a constant speed, the sun couldn’t move at different speeds.
I am confused. I am pretty sure there is understanding error here
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2022.01.18 01:41 Icomiic Does anyone know if this will run minecraft?
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2022.01.18 01:41 Aryiath Two is better than one
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2022.01.18 01:41 SelfCare2022 Day 0️⃣2️⃣
Paid rent early and other bills coming due.
Recently received a nice sales commission check and while I did donate a couple grand to the casino online and at the local card room last week, I’m committed to this being the ONLY money I waste on this addiction any further. One day at a time.
I been gambling since I was 14 years old. I’m now 29, with a career and family of my own. I could/will be using this money and time for so many better things.
Middle school I learned Texas Holdem and then a group of buddies and I would bet on sports with one another.
Fast forward 15 years and the stakes only got higher and access to gambling has became greater online.
I have Allen Carrs book and also been enjoying the After Gambling Podcast.
Let’s make it a good week my friends. We can save so much cash and determine our futures/outcome.
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2022.01.18 01:41 Advanced-Cat-2562 Problem With Transaction Dropped?
So i was swapping Eth to AnySwap and everything went fine, but after it says that there is still an active trade and its been pending for 2 hours and then i check the status and it says dropped. What should I do?
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2022.01.18 01:41 RegisterComplex9491 18M 19F I think I might be clingy/needy, how do I go about dealing with it?