2022.01.29 01:12 sensitise Day 3 has been a success!
Day 3 has gone smoothly.
My husband has committed to ditching alcohol with me this attempt, which has made a huge difference in the vibe and morale. It’s like we’re fighting this monster as a team. I’m so proud of him.
We moved to his home state where I didn’t know anybody 3 years ago so it’s been difficult to stop drinking without much in the way of friends or family to support me in this. There’s a strong drinking culture here and in his workplace so we are really swimming against the current.
My therapist helped me figure out that I go on substance binges on days I don’t have plans or are alone all day. Stress, rumination on the past, and isolation are all triggers. So I’ve filled my planner with options of things to do, and contacted my friends to set up regular video chats. Everybody has been so encouraging.
Once I reach 30 days I plan to reach out to my kid sister that I’ve been neglecting. I’ve been ignoring her existence due to family trauma and my substance abuse issues, which I don’t want to expose her to. So I have that to motivate me.
I really feel like this is the attempt that will become a lifestyle. I turn 30 soon and if I stay on track I will turn 30 so proud of myself. If I want to, I can go through my 30s without having a drink. Just gotta take it one minute, one hour, one day, one decision at a time.
Thank you for reading. I want the same optimism and strength I feel for all of you. And the people here who have been sober for a while — y’all are my role models. You show me it can be done. Thanks.
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2022.01.29 01:12 Sharkloch Look what I found today!
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2022.01.29 01:12 NoSandbox Suicide hotline shares data with for-profit spinoff, raising ethical questions
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2022.01.29 01:12 sumandono magical time, waiting for the sunset.
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2022.01.29 01:12 flawdreality Gasparilla '22 Collection Promo Clip
Long time supporter and lurker of sub, props to everyone hustling and grinding have learned a lot from this sub over the years and continue to. Put together this promo clip for my upcoming Gasparilla inspired release.
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2022.01.29 01:12 cafe_soleil gf took this in the bathroom 🥵
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2022.01.29 01:12 NoSandbox ‘Fix My Computer’ Cry Echos on Social Media; Air Force CIO Responds
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2022.01.29 01:12 mosaladmosideboobs Cursed thought
2022.01.29 01:12 Pogo_2002 How this broken water pipe flows
2022.01.29 01:12 Alara1992 [WTS/WTT] G MK4 13.5” DDC rail, Reptilia Torch 18650 BLK RS, Mod button Lite BLK (CA)
Dibs is king,
PayPal Pref, F&F, Venmo same, Cash app works too
Both are in great condition, seen some rounds, only about 300 each
MK4 13.5” DDC really light shade, last photo, got a 13” so no longer NEED it and don’t want another project, plus I already have a MK8, $230 shipped
BLK Reptillia torch M-lok right side 18650, BLK Mod button Lite both used lightly. Want to go a different route
75 for torch, 55 Modbutton lite, take both for $120
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2022.01.29 01:12 lilscorpiobabii Post-wash loving my texture & fluffiness 🖤
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2022.01.29 01:12 Responsible_Dog4551 The way he screamed lol
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2022.01.29 01:12 Lintrovert15 Ling Ling in 🇲🇾
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2022.01.29 01:12 Hyla_Brook Car Alarm Blaring near 2nd and Jefferson
I live in an apartment building across from the Boys and Girls Club/ HOLA School near 2nd and Jefferson. There is a white sedan who’s car alarm blares 3-5 times (sometimes more) and then stops for 30 seconds and starts up again. This happened a week ago, all night. Then again last night, and now again tonight! Is there anything I can do? It’s right outside my window, I can hear it through my closed window and fan on! If you park a white sedan in that area, please go check your car 😭
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2022.01.29 01:12 aardvarkyardwork Found this guy on my car in Queensland, Australia. Any ideas, please?
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2022.01.29 01:12 Hiya_Synth Hello! I just felt spurred to leave a little offering for Demeter!
I don’t think it’s very traditional but I feel as if she may like it. It is simply some spices commonly used in modern day Greece commonly. Those being Oregano, Basil, onion powder, garlic powder, and sea salt mixed together in a small bowl. I know it’s not much, but it’s what I could do on short notice! I just felt drawn to leave her something as I’ve felt drawn to her and her roman counterpart Ceres for a long time. I hope that this offering is sufficient! I know that she is closely related to foods, especially grains. Though I didn’t have any grains on hand… I just thought I’d leave her something at least. I hope to work with her more closely in the future as well!
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2022.01.29 01:12 djt1017 Was this a scam? Strange impound lot caller
Got a call at 10:30 PM. Lady said she was from my city’s (Philly) impound lot and said my car had been towed and I needed to pick it up. Correctly described the color of my car and my last name.
I am parked on the street and looked outside and my car hadn’t been moved. Said as much and this woman just said “oh sorry wrong Mr. (last name)”.
I thought it was so strange and definitely some scam but I couldn’t tell what the motive was or what they were trying to get. Couldn’t find anything on this anywhere else.
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2022.01.29 01:12 InfliktedSaint Had my third 300 tonight. Crazy to think I've had 3 over the past month and a half. Shot with the Motiv Trident Odyssey.
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2022.01.29 01:12 Shadow-Doyler EASY Level 100! How To Level Up Fast EXP in Pokemon Legends Arceus
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2022.01.29 01:12 MossyStone48 Would anyone want this?
TL:DR; A mod that keeps track of how many members of a specific gang you've neutralized and then reduces their spawn rates.
A quick 'about me': I love cyberpunk as a genre. I wish I could get in on a TTRPG version but, you know, corona. Anyphuck... I played Deus Ex HR and MD on the hardest setting. Loved it that way. But once I took out, say, every cop on the map.. they stayed gone. I liked that too. I owned the zone. And I'd do it as a pacifist - No one had to die. They just needed to be neutralized.
Here's my thing: Would anyone want and would it even be possible to make a mod where the player could reduce any given gang's numbers to the point where they are effectively no longer spawning? At least until enough time has past for them to rebuild their numbers. Cuz I see most gangs doing jerk-work and I lay into 'em. Knock every one of them out and dunk their butts into the nearest bin. Not dead - also no longer my problem <3 but they don't STAY GONE. Basically I want to wipe certain gangs off the map. Because I do play as a pacifist most of the time. Trick is I will walk back through and ventilate skulls of scavs, wraiths or anyone I have dead-to-rights evidence they are just pure evil. Ala Judge Dredd. I want to be able to walk through Pacifica and have Voodoo Boys offering me pats on the back and Animals giving out high fives for cleaning out all the terrible ppl ripping parts out of other ppl. My question stands tho; Does anyone else want this? Cuz... doesn't it feel like this should have been part of the core game? V could just be another Afterlife merc who accidently gets on a lot of ppl's good side or a friggin one wo/man army -john wick as batman- vigilante. TBH I just want to be able to sit around on the beach without seeing so god d!mn many ghouls like the scavs just ambling about.
Anyone got any constructive feedback on this idea? Maybe someplace to start when it comes to making this a reality? Or is this already in the game and I'm just to headthicc to notice?
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2022.01.29 01:12 ChinBosma Stuck on low FPS
My game is stuck at 21fps. When alt-tabbed it runs perfectly at ~140. Then after a few seconds of playing it goes back down to 21. I'm on all low settings, fps capped at 144. When it does run normally it's flawless but 90% of the time it's stuck at 21fps. I'm playing on an rtx 2060 and i7-9700k. This has been happening since launch and gotten worse. Any suggestions?
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2022.01.29 01:12 rootsti evilwm
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2022.01.29 01:12 The_Real_Abraxis Black League Hackers Decrypt Location of Elohim Leadership
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2022.01.29 01:12 PeachThePitbull Peach be droppin dis hot album.
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2022.01.29 01:12 PoisonMind Tarja Turunen - You Would Have Loved This
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