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Starting to feel ignored by my big. Need advice on how to handle this.

2022.01.21 13:27 spiritual_geek106 Starting to feel ignored by my big. Need advice on how to handle this.

Okay so I rushed into a sorority last spring and my family and I were super close and did everything together. It was me, my big, gbig and twin. My big and I really clicked during the big/little date process so that's why she was one of my big preferences. We did a lot of things together after reveal and we became very close and she made me feel comfortable in the sorority. The next semester which was last semester was hard because my gbig graduated, my twin dropped due to moving out of state and my big went LOA. This semester I thought my big and I would connect again now she's back as an active and she's the one person in my family who's active besides me but I just really don't know where we stand right now.
My birthday was at the end of the same semester where I rushed the sorority so I invited her to something but she let me know she couldn't make it and I didn't mind that. It came to a point where she couldn't hangout at all that summer since she was slammed with work so I just expected to see her when school started again. During the summer to the beginning of last semester, I did reach out a couple times saying I hope she was doing well and that I missed her but she never responded. I then stopped trying to reach out because I just don't like reaching out when I don't get a response. When school started, one of our sisters that my big is very close to told me she was going LOA due to being very busy. I then told her that I reached out a couple times to see how she was but didn't get a response and then she told me how she's just bad at responding. During the semester though, even though social media doesn't matter, I noticed that she stopped liking my posts when she still likes the rest of our sisters post so I didn't know if she saw my posts or not. Then I saw her again in person at our formal and was happy to see her since it had been 5 months but she didn't really acknowledge me and treated me almost like a stranger. I kind of understood since she was LOA and we haven't seen each other in 5 months but also in shock because she kind of acted like she didn't know me at all. I have not seen her in person since that. But I still talk to my twin a lot even though she dropped and I did ask if she talked to our big and she told me she haven't talked to her since she moved and did feel like our big was not reaching out to her like she said she would and starting to feel ignored by her. However, I also just accepted from our sisters that she was just busy. I was forced to spend time with others sisters who were not in my family last semester since none of the sisters in my family were active and I wasn't able to take a little.
Now, I just don't know what to do because this week is promo week and my big shared every photo of her with the sorority on social media except for my big/little reveal for promo week where she posted her and my gbig and her and the sisters that she's best friends with and when I shared a pic of my family for promo week, my whole family responded except for her and she saw it. At this point, I'm confused about our big/little relationship.
I know that bigs and littles don't have to be best friends and it's just a bonus if they do end up becoming that and I don't expect us to be best friends but I just feel like our relationship is very one-sided right now and I think that bigs and littles do need to be in communication if they are still both in a sorority. I'm the only person putting the effort in our relationship and I don't know what to do, especially since she's the only family member of mine who's active in our sorority, I am potentially taking a little this semester and it's been 8 months of this. Based on this info that I shared, I really am starting to feel like she's ignoring me or if I've done something wrong but I don't know if I'm overreacting. I know I will see her again in several days and I thought about talking to her about how I feel but I also just don't want to be clingy or make her feel pressured to do anything with me. Should I talk to her about how I feel about what I shared? If yes, how can I not come across as a clingy little? Or should I just blow all of this off and try my best to rekindle our connection or let it go?
TLDR; Big and I were close during my new member semester but feeling like our friendship is one-sided and I'm the only one putting in the effort ever since I became an active. Not sure if I should talk to her about this or let it be. Need advice.
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2022.01.21 13:27 kaleis007 Bitcoin Loses $40k, Ethereum Below $3k: This Red Week’s Crypto Recap

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2022.01.21 13:27 Shoddy-Team-7199 Brilliantt

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2022.01.21 13:27 HorseFacedDipShit How do you be a white male ally when it comes to advancing equality for all?

I want to preface this post by saying I’m a tall, white, blond hair green eyes cis straight male. I’m as privileged as they come. But I’ve got family/friends that have struggles I’ll never be able to understand. I don’t want to try and be some white saviour. I also don’t want to sit by idly while others forge ahead. What can I do to advance equality, but not tell other people’s stories for them?
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2022.01.21 13:27 Green_Difference2647 Favorite female performances in film?

Just scrolling through this sub a little, I feel like discussion leans pretty heavily towards male actors and directors, so I just wanted to change things up with this question.
I would personally pick possibly my all time favorite actoactress Giulietta Masina in Nights of Cabiria, such an infectious performance and probably my favorite among both men and women.
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2022.01.21 13:27 PowerForce2021 Uncharted Legacy of Thieves Collection – Launch Trailer

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2022.01.21 13:27 heresyisokay B4B

Can anyone in the Earnin Community help me boost my Max? 🙂 https://earnin.app.link/dDw4y46c0mb
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2022.01.21 13:27 karma_virus Fear my brain muscle!

Was playing around with a PF1 character and took the trait Bruising Intellect which allows them to use their intelligence modifier instead of charisma for intimidation checks. Then picked the intimidating prowess feat to add strength bonus to the check.
So in role-playing I had to figure out how to accurately convey this and he kept giving long winded super villain monologues while flexing at key moments. The bandits we were fighting all turned to one another...
"OI! What he say? He's using them big funny words" "I dunno, but he's frigging JACKED! Let's get outta here!"
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2022.01.21 13:27 ShiningShadow_ You can smell stuff from 20 miles away, only 20 miles away and no where else

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2022.01.21 13:27 WizardofGames Not to bad for about 2 hrs of picking this morning.

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2022.01.21 13:27 SmuttyBookLover Are temp agencies still a good resource? I'm not so sure anymore... What other options are there?

TL;DR Temp service isn't working for me anymore. Indeed, classifieds, networking, door-to-door, mail-ins, LinkedIn aren't cutting it. Are there other resources available? Midwest US. Admin, clerical/office, data entry, purchasing, collections background. Associates degree.
I'm 39 and have been working full-time since I was sixteen years old until the pandemic hit. In the past I've used temporary agencies with great success and decided to try again. Seems like a no-brainer. Let them do some of the work. See what's out there. This time around though it's been a completely different experience.
For those unaware - temp agencies or staffing agencies offer temporary, temp-to-perm, and contract jobs that can last a day or two all the way up to a year or more. Generally the pay is at least slightly less than what you would get if you were hired direct. Some employers simply do not do direct hires anymore so it's a good way to get your foot in the door. In my experience the employer lets you know what type of increase you would receive if you were hired permanent and sometimes it's worth taking a little less at first to get the opportunity to show your skills and see if the job is a good fit for you. There is a major positive - networking. When you you're at multiple locations you're meeting people who may know of other jobs in that field. You may also pick up new skills along the way that could help in future positions. Will you learn a completely new skill set in a two week position? Likely not. But you might find some shortcuts or new ways of doing things.
Anyone who's used temp services knows that some are there to gather your info and do not actually offer any of the jobs that are posted. Those can be easy to spot in some cases but not always. So be wary and do your research.
This attempt has been quite disappointing in both the amount of positions offered and the pay. But it's more than that. I'm quite worried about younger people who are just getting into the work-force. I was offered a job at a large corporation this morning with no interview and no screening. To some that may seem like a dream come true and it could be worth a try if you're struggling. But for someone who's worked this long it's a clear sign that the company is desperate and that no one wants the job. I've also been offered some positions that pay well and fit my skill set but the commute is completely unreasonable. If a large portion of my income is going to be spent on gas, not to mention the time lost in transit twice a day the pay is no longer competitive or reasonable.
I'm not sure where to go from here. Indeed has a lot of jobs that just don't seem legit at all. My local newspaper classifieds are no longer a good resource in the slightest. I feel that LinkedIn is a joke. I've networked like crazy, going all the way back to people I worked with over ten years ago. I've even gone door to door at businesses in my area. As you can guess all I'm told is to apply online and they'll keep my resume on my file. I've also mailed my resume to several businesses with a simple cover letting explaining that I'm aware that they may not have any positions open at the moment but to please consider me for any positions that may open in the future. This has worked for me in the past but so far no calls at all. I feel tapped out. Any suggestions?
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2022.01.21 13:27 xFreezeey Team surrendered as it completely threw the game since the beginning.

I don't even try anymore to win. I just want to play the game until it "becomes fun", the moment where you reach a decent strengt by getting your items and shit ego together. To play some nice team fights later. But I just discovered that this is impossible. My team goes with the casual "ff 15". I lane normally on bot while Idiots have a score of 1/5 and 1/7 by minute 10. The game is yet still winnable for me because many enemies just play still bad and could possible loose by the end game when we could have more items.
It happened to me 3 times in a row and it appears to happen pretty frequently rn.

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2022.01.21 13:27 spawnofcthulhu Stoney DudeBro privated his twitter

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2022.01.21 13:27 FibFrizz [Academic] Automotive opinions (All welcome)

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2022.01.21 13:27 OneContext Is now a good time to invest a lump sum in a global index?

So I’ve just opened my first global index tracker with the aim of putting 20k into the Vanguard Global All Cap (Acc) , then another 20k before the end of this year - then set and forget for 20 years.
I’m a newbie investor.
However, all the stories about rising inflation, an overvalued market and high P/E etc is making me nervous I’ll be putting a large amount in the market before a drop.
Am I worrying too much? If I’m investing over 20 years would it even matter that much if I did invest right before a big market decline, hypothetically?
Would really appreciate some opinions!
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2022.01.21 13:27 thewhitecollars Green Day - Longview [live cover, my band played this and had a blast]

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2022.01.21 13:27 bucket--bot like that. God fucking knows it.

a deep pain and drink a second drawing certain negative
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2022.01.21 13:27 Citrus_Gaming4 What is the best troop in the game?

Throughout all town halls where they are usable, otherwise Barbarians would be the best by default.
My bet's on wizards because they have a good amount of health, deal a good amount of damage, are fairly cheap, and don't take up too much space. Why would you not use them?
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2022.01.21 13:27 Signal-Ad-1327 Me being a little bitch for about a hour and a half!

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2022.01.21 13:27 Embarrassed_Ad4139 A new outfit for a ng+

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2022.01.21 13:27 StockConsultant $NVDA NVIDIA stock

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2022.01.21 13:27 abidly Zašto Bosna i Hercegovina može biti BROJ 1 destinacija na SVIJETU?

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2022.01.21 13:27 Jarnhand "Connect to the internet" error, and Marketplace errors (Bedrock, PC, Win11)

Ok, this is getting annoying.
First, several times after installing Minecraft, it said needed to update to run Marketplace.
Now, today it says I need to connect to internet to play, while being connected...
Anyone have a clue what is wrong? I reinstalled the game, didnt help. I tried the beta client, didnt help.
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2022.01.21 13:27 Opesneakpastya DEMSN grad school

Anyone know when they will send out acceptance letters for the summer 2022 program or fall 2022??
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