2022.01.20 06:05 CammieBay Just want to share my story, hope this helps someone
So I was born as a baby boy, during my childhood I always felt a bit alienated, I had progressive parents so I was able to play with what's considered boys and girls toys. Always liked to be able to do stuff considered for boys, and for girls, also at my time society were trying to sell the "everyone is equal" so I really think too much about my gender.
During puberty it got worse, basically I hated all the changed, and was always envious of the girls, I really wanted to have a feminine body, couldn't care less about men bodies. Still I loved sports, getting fit, but it was difficult to be constant since I could never reach gratification: my body always looked meh because it wasn't what I want.
So I started "crossdressing", and it was fun for a while, but I realized that's not what I wanted. Started going into reddit, reading and asking... and ended up transitioning.
I had HRT, SRS, and in each step I felt a lot better about me. My self esteem was greatly improved.
Then, after 5/6 years, I stopped trying to hide all masculine features, being so self aware of my body "issues", trying to "pass", all that crap. And realized how toxic that was.
So nowadays I felt a bit angry at society, because I don't really have the desire to tell or force others into calling me a woman, female, biological female, or hiding that I'm a male/man. But at the same time our society is not ready for that kind of talk, for people who really want to live beyond the genders, the labels.
So I'm in that point in the life in which I love what I did, I like my body, I don't consider the surgery or HRT a failure or a wrong decision, what I don't like is this asinine discussion about trans people being assimilated into cis people, because being outed can mean losing your job, friends, sometimes being killed.
I fell bad having "to lie" to people and tell them either that I'm a woman, or a trans woman, just to fit into society. Because if I tell them "I'm just a guy who likes what's considered feminine body, but I'm also what's considered a tomboy" they will think I'm crazy oand not know what to do with me.
Even while writing this, I'm not sure if I really fit the desisted/detrans labels either. I don't hate the path that I chose, I'm glad of being able to physically transition, I just wish I could be 100% honest with people, stop trying to shoehorn trans woman with cis woman just a way of fitting into society, etc...
It makes me angry that in the end, the greatest lie of all is that this is not about being true to yourself, but finding the closest label you can fit so others can label you easily without having to do the extra work of really understanding you.
And that's why I hate this "transition" sh*t.
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2022.01.20 06:05 tkddn1041 Could I have a piece of advice for a Psychology major who wants to break into the HR/People or BI analyst role?
I am currently working as a recruitment coordinator at an amazing company. However, while the work environment has been fantastic, I realized I really don’t see myself as a recruiter after working for a few months.
I have always been interested in analytical roles, such as HPeople analyst, Business Intelligence Analyst, etc. So I have been wondering if I should go back to school full-time and get a student loan of 70k (45k tuition + 25k living expenses) for a Master's program (1-year program) in business/management analytics so I can switch my career as an entry-level analyst. I would appreciate your advice/insights!
Here is my background:
- Located in eastern Canada
- Current student loan from undergrad: 14k
- Finished my undergraduate in Psychology last year. I have taken some coding and statistics classes as electives and loved them.
- Currently working as a recruitment coordinator (less than 1 year of experience)
I am not sure the work experience as a recruitment coordinator will necessarily count as experience when entering an entry position in HPeople Analytics if I stay in the current role. Or Business analyst / Business intelligence route. So, I feel like I might be wasting my time in a role that might not lead anywhere else, especially since it does not seem like I will have an opportunity to take on an analytical project in my current company. I thought about working full-time while pursuing a Master's part-time but the Master's program I am interested in does not offer a part-time opportunity. Also, I am really not sure whether it is worth staying in a current role if I have to start from scratch eventually once I switch into an analytical career...
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2022.01.20 06:05 ScarHydreigon87 Get ratio’d you indecisive mollusk
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2022.01.20 06:05 Scrugulus Frage an Finanzexperten: nach welchen Kriterien werden die Prämien für das Pokal-Finale geregelt?
Ich habe es bei Wikipedia versucht, und einem DFB-Link, aber die einzige durchgängie Aussage zu den Prämien ist: "Das Finale wird gesondert abgerechnet."
Warum? Ist es evtl. so, daß die TV-Rechte kurzfristig international vermarktet werden? So daß ein Finale Bayern gegen Dortmund wesentlich mehr Geld einbringt als Hannover gegen Rostock? Eine andere Erklärung fällt mir nicht ein.
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2022.01.20 06:05 end-of-forever Fuck.
I dumped my partner via text because he raped me twice.
I don't think he fully realized he was doing it. He was VERY drunk. We both were drunk. Both times it happened, two separate times, he was intoxicated.
I knew he had an alcohol problem going into the relationship. But he was so kind to me and everything just felt so right. And then he raped me. I thought I could continue seeing him because he was so good to me the rest of the time. I could see us living together or even getting married later on in life.
I think he kind of knew what he did - he mentioned not wanting a repeat of what happened the one night, and the second night I was able to get through to him after ten minutes of telling him to stop and him not listening. After that second night, he stopped initiating sex and began to pull away from me as far as physical affection. He barely even kissed me except to kiss me goodbye. I tried to initiate but he just wasn't into it.
I felt so hurt and rejected. I wanted to rebuild the relationship back to the way it was. But maybe it was his way of punishing himself for what he did. He'd gone off his meds too so there was that issue along with it.
I felt like I couldn't tell anybody because I was so happy when I wasn't scared. It was really confusing.
I don't know if I'll ever meet anyone now. I'm old. I keep meeting people and thinking they're "the one" and then stuff like this happens. He was so good to me and I don't understand how someone can be so consistently wonderful but also have that violent side to them too. I'm confused.
My mom even told me not to stay with him if he was abusing me and I feel so shitty for lying to her and saying he wasn't and that I wouldn't put up with that. Because clearly I did. But also how much of it was actually abuse? I don't know anymore what's real and what's in my head.
I should have just let him be a guy I was attracted to and not approached him at all. I would have been fine. But then I would have missed out on the good times.
He got drunk twice and things got out of hand and I wasn't able to do anything about the situation because I wasn't strong enough. I need to work out more and probably just not date for a while, if ever. It's a pandemic anyway, dating is risky.
I'm just really confused. I used to be a strong feminist and now I feel like I just abandoned all of that.
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2022.01.20 06:05 Black_Wolfy007 Is "Terraria: Otherworld" gonna be released?
There is a petition from the developers of Terraria, under the terms of which it is necessary to collect 100,000 signatures. If they are collected, the developers will publish the source code of "Terraria: Otherworld".
The signature of the petition is free and takes only a couple of minutes.
There are a little less than 220 people left.
I think a lot of people wanted to play it.
Let's collect 100,000 signatures and then we can play "Terraria: Otherworld".
Here is the link to the petition:
Get Relogic to Open-Source Terraria: Otherworld
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2022.01.20 06:05 psychotic_habitation The Connell Twins
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2022.01.20 06:05 miss_horvath Do you use Unified Payments Interface (UPI) for India-Nepal transactions? #AskNepal
Hi Nepali brothers and sisters,
I believe there is a significant number of transactions sending money from India to Nepal. With the rapid increase of UPI (Unified Payments Interface) through apps like Google Pay, PhonePe, PayTM, in India making digital payments totally free and instant, I was wondering:
2022.01.20 06:05 Renata621 Training my sweet asspussy with a big dildo
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2022.01.20 06:05 niedermensch The World of Gustav Mahler: Podcast by Aaron Cohen
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2022.01.20 06:05 crytoloover Widi Soul $wso Chart, Price and Contract
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2022.01.20 06:05 fcilurzo Consulting Subscription: the holy grail
I'm doing some research on how strategy/management/innovation consultants could develop a subscription-type business model. At my firm we're exploring the idea of a low entry subscription service (I guess like everyone, right?).
Is there anyone here who has good resources/links/articles/podcasts... about this topic? It's quite difficult to find good material.
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2022.01.20 06:05 kashi19122004 And the award for longest flashback goes to........
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2022.01.20 06:05 ManMarmalade This was hurting my eyes while I was working on it and I had to stop haha. I can still barely look at it without getting a headache.
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2022.01.20 06:05 neo__j My manga collection after 6 months of collecting.
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2022.01.20 06:05 IItsWrothOcean 24 M Australia [Chat]
I’m looking for someone I can just be honest with finally. I’m not looking for advice just sort of a vent. But not just me I want the other person to be in a similar situation in terms with just wanting someone to feel you can be honest to. No judgment just listen to what each other have to say. Anything that comes to mind. I’m not looking for sympathy, just a friend I can be honest with. Long term or just tonight. I wanna see if I can make a connection.
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2022.01.20 06:05 Idontknowmuch “Armenia has no preconditions for delimitation” – Yerevan refutes Azerbaijani FM's claims
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2022.01.20 06:05 themoorofvenice ICA foils attempts to illegally import bak kwa and pork floss from Malaysia
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2022.01.20 06:05 elpad92 I buyed this margiela replica online. Are they Leggit or fake ?
2022.01.20 06:05 jhq1996 Kings Court Deck
Decided that I wanted to make a deck from the Kings Court set just as a fun deck due to the fact that the set itself isn’t very good. Are there any cards from outside sets that I should be looking for in order to make it a little bit stronger? (Other than the regular staples - eg MST, Bottomless Trap Hole, Mirror Force, etc)
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