2022.01.17 18:38 AdditionalAlps2202 Did I do the wrong thing?
I am looking for some advice in a difficult situation.
I guess its best to start with how this started and some background on the situation.
Me and my older sister have always been extremely close and have told eachother everything. Her boyfriend is an felon and has and is involved with drugs and friends with some shady people. They have been together for a long time and I love my sister while I dont approve of their relationship, I accept her for who she is. I have helped her with money (hundreds of dollars at a time), gave her a place to stay, got in touch with resources to help her situation, etc. I am only 20 and she is about to turn 30. The way she does things and her lifestyle is a bit of a mess and toxic but I care about her and want to help and be there for her because I know shes struggling. She has a daughter who is 3 (my niece) who I absolutely adore and would give the world too, and I dont want to lose her.
My sister and her boyfriend had invited me out hangout with them in a hotel down the shore for the night this past summer. I agreed thinking it would be a good time and I had a chance hangout with my niece. A friend of theirs had ended up being there as well who had made some flirty/inappropriate comments to me in the past and has a history of drugs. I had a few drinks and had the intention of going home and not staying there overnight with them. But, after having 3-4 drinks I can not remember a single thing; which is not like me what so ever. They told me I was trying to "get" with this guy and couldnt walk, talk, and was throwing up some kind of black substance. This is so completely out of character for me as I know my limits and would never be around my family or for that matter anyone in that state especially after only having a few drinks. I confided in my sister that I think this friend of theirs could have slipped me something and he made me really uncomfortable. She blew it off like it was just a freak drunk night, swept it under the rug, and continued being close friend with this man and would ask me to hangout with them after making it clear I was uncomfortable . Last night me and my family (my other sister and her husband) were hanging out, and my sisters boyfriend brought up that I accused their friend of drugging me and that I am lying in front of everyone. I just immmediately shut down and started crying. My sister then started to come at me also asking, "if i was drugged why wasnt I raped?" and overall just really cruel things. She then stated shes kept this night a big secret from my family and my boyfriend (which i told my family and boyfriend what had happened) so my reputation wouldnt be damaged and has done nothing but protect me. My other sister, who was there stuck up for me and she has now said she wants nothing to do with any of us and is done with our family and quit her job. (She is a nanny for my other sister and watches my nephews.) This has just absolutely and complety triggered me and it has been really hard for me to comphred why she treated me this way. I dont know if I am in the wrong here. Did I start this unnecessary issue? I just would like to hear some unbiased advice.
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