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2022.01.25 17:51 idspispopd Calgary Liberal MP George Chahal fined for election flyer controversy
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2022.01.25 17:51 redsusa Mondo - into the wild (black)
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2022.01.25 17:51 Vepar666 It ain't much, but it's honest Cleave
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2022.01.25 17:51 Vwolf2 This is dumb and i spent way too much time on it
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2022.01.25 17:51 eco112 My aunt is my roommate, and I need out.
Okay, the title sounds harsh and the situation might be but I need help because I want to go about this as civil as I possible can. I appreciate any help I can get!
A few months ago, I (21f) moved along with my bf (26m), my aunt’s gf (AG)(22f) to a 2 room apartment. Overall, it’s been pretty great and we all get along really well. There have never been any huge issues, and if something does come up, we’re able to talk through it as regular mature adults. My aunt does not live with us permanently, as she still lives with her mom but is paying the rent for AG due to a situation which I will refer to below - and this is key to my request for advice.
Fast forward to my situation… my aunt and AG are people who have lived with their parents their whole lives and were not required to help out with chores around the house on a daily basis. Neither of them liked to clean around the house, but did put in the effort whenever possible. They do clean after themselves (dishes etc), but never put in the hard work of deeply cleaning. In the apartment, we clean floors/surfaces/washroom every weekend, and deep clean every 2 weeks. They got tired of having to clean, so they hired a maid which we had to pay equally between 3 people. We eventually stopped asking her to come clean because she didn't do a great job and we all agreed to continue cleaning ourselves.
AG moved here from her home country to live closer to my aunt and is unable to work or study as she doesn’t have a work permit and does not have an income from which she can support herself. Due to this, my aunt takes charge if all her expenses and spends a lot of time here and sometimes stays overnight. I agreed to have AG move in with us in order to help alleviate the expenses on my aunt.
This is a total of 3 people living here permanently and an additional person who is in an out enough to be noticed around the house. If you’ve ever lived alone, you know how dirty a house can get with one person living in a space, let alone 4.
Today, while my bf and I were eating lunch, my aunt made a request to me that I take some towels out of the washing machine so AG could wash their clothes. I told her to take them out and put them aside so that I can wash them later after AG's finished (quick note: we spend about an entire day washing clothes since we have to wash and hang the clothes. we do not own a dryer). She changed her tone and told me that she couldn't set them aside as she had to clean the floors today because the house looks like a disaster - which peeved me because my bf and I cleaned the house/floors this weekend (it's Tuesday) and we kept it perfectly clean because we went out. When we got back the floors were dirty again because AG and aunt had been walking around the house in their shoes - but we didn't say anything because shit happens! It didn't bug us at the time. I told her to just put the towels on top of the washing machine in the meantime and repeated that I would get to it after AG had finished. My aunt was about to repeat herself with her tone getting progressively angrier.
At that point, my bf interrupted and asked her why she couldn't just put the towels somewhere else while she cleaned the floor and my aunt kept pushing me to put them elsewhere and also asked him not to get involved considering she wasn't even talking to him. He then got up and told her and AG that they should be pulling their weight with the house work since there's 4 of us in the house and only 2 (me and him) cleaning every weekend.
To be fair, since the maid stopped coming (over a month now) only my bf and I have been cleaning on the weekends. AG and aunt only clean up after themselves.
We have two dogs (one mine, and one theirs) and they drop a lot of hair, so we do need to broom at least once every day or else the floor gets really dirty. At first, everyone broomed, now it's only me and my bf brooming daily - which really doesn't bother me but it does bother my bf.
My bf did apologize to my aunt for being confrontational and did recognize that they clean after themselves, but mentioned that only we have been cleaning and taking the garbage out and we need help because it's an unfair situation. Aunt got progressively more upset and ended up making a huge deal of the situation and was dismissive of the things my bf had to say by saying that she was not talking to him. AG did not say anything since she doesn't like confrontation and stayed quiet, while I was trying not to say anything to agitate anyone more. I did interfere and told both of them that I understood both sides but that this wasn't the right way to go about the situation.
Bf left the dining room, and I stayed with my aunt and tried to get her to calm down but she kept complaining about bf. I told her to not take it out on me because I am not him, but that I did understand his point and that I agree with bf. She said I was biased and I would obviously side with bf.
I went back to bf and spoke with him, and he told me that he doesn't think this situation will work out and that I need to ask my aunt and AG to leave because this isn't the first time something like this has come up or caused issues. I agreed with him, but now I don't know how to approach this.
I have been thinking of asking my aunt and AG to move out so we can have the space for ourselves since we had agreed that this was going to be temporary, but it's been 6 months here and they don't seem like they're planning on leaving soon. The problem is that I don't know how to have this conversation without sounding like a bitch, or making them feel that it's personal. AG is still in a sensitive situation and my aunt has been trying to make the best of it, but that doesn't change that they're 2 people living off 1 income.
I feel like I'm partly responsible and want to help out by giving them their part of the deposit back out of my own pocket so they can start apartment hunting and using that money towards that cause.
And yes... I just need advice from people who have experienced something similar or maybe just some insight into how I can approach this. I apologize for the long post, but everything I mentioned is key context. I appreciate all help!
TLDR; I had let my aunt's gf move in with us to help my aunt economically as AG doesn't have an income and aunt is paying for her rent/other expenses. Now, they don't want to help clean the house and bf and I have had to clean on our own. We now want to have the apartment to ourselves to keep the peace, but I don't know how to approach the situation and start a civil conversation with my aunt asking her and AG to move out.
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2022.01.25 17:51 neanderground Why we can't talk about the APY ?
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Isn't it easier to answer some question rather than cancel, if its DAO than pretend to be like that
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2022.01.25 17:51 willzterman Oz Day mince brekky
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2022.01.25 17:51 MidCentury43 Acura... anime?
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2022.01.25 17:51 AssStuffing Just do it.
Medical professionals? Who needs ‘em. It is time for you to take your health into your own hands! Don’t let them woke ass, cancel culture ass doctors with all their ridiculous narratives tell you how to be healthy! THANK YEW AARON RODGERS!!!
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2022.01.25 17:51 ComprehensiveNet9373 [Casual] Eye color and snack choice (all welcome)
I'm curious if there would be any correlation, so please fill out these four questions to find out if there is!
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2022.01.25 17:51 AmusedFlyer I saw a guy Who posted there wrap up so i will post mine
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2022.01.25 17:51 Dependent-Cow7823 What you do with your End of Life Pixel phones?
The pixel 3 security update is gone after this year. The Pixel 4 - 5 phones will essentially be done after next year. It seems these devices can still be supported but it is what it is. What can you really do or have you done with your older Pixel phones?
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2022.01.25 17:51 omega_wang Trilogy blu rays came in today from Japan via DHL with no issues! I love all the extras The One merch come with, especially the official photo books!
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2022.01.25 17:51 tem_po_rary Louis Armstrong playing for his wife Lucille in front of the Sphinx in Egypt.
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2022.01.25 17:51 icantkarmalol How to run stepper motor at maximum RPM? What motor to use? (using Arduino)
I am doing a project and I wanted to run a NEMA 17 1.5A stepper motor at full capacity? is it possible? My project includes PID control step response study on the motor's rpm, which motor is best suited? Brushed DC motor? Stepper or Servo?
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2022.01.25 17:51 PTTGossipingBot 1/25 Gossiping 板 99+ 推的文章有 58 則
2022.01.25 17:51 fan_AMA_nettu genio
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2022.01.25 17:51 NoodleNerdle POTD Sage: Void Fire works with Kardia for.... some reason.
So randomly decided to attempt a solo run of POTD with Sage for... some reason, boredom mostly.
And during one of the boss fights I used the Succubus pom and noticed that I was healing... and the realized for some odd reason Kardia works with Void Fire. Not sure why but it was interesting to say the least
Thought other people would wanna know about that, carry on.
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2022.01.25 17:51 Drexlore Miami (OH) DB Cecil Singleton has entered the transfer portal
2022.01.25 17:51 DeXxTeR77 You cannot travel in this region
2022.01.25 17:51 crytoloover How to Transfer Ethereum From Coinbase to Metamask
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2022.01.25 17:51 ashes_to_dust Pay range Senior SE
Hey so I’m looking at mostly remote but some on site senior software engineering positions. It is really difficult to find pay ranges for this level of work. When I look at glassdoor or other sites the pay range in my area for a senior position is less than I make currently as an SE in my area. What would people say the average pay range is for a remote senior level position? I don’t want to counter offer some or even interview if I can’t get what is needed for cost of living in my area.
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2022.01.25 17:51 rybavlimuzine Bodybuilding while intermitent fasting 16/8 and low calorie intake?
Hey, I (28m - 6’2”- 220lb) have always been bulky, had some muscles from bodybuilding, but also never managed to loose the fat. So I got wnough and decided to just go 10% bodyfat even if it means loosing all my muscle. The gyms have been closed in my country anyways.
I eat from 12:00 till 18:00. Sometimes 2 meals and aimetimes just one meal per day and my average calorie intake is around 1500 kcal while my maintain. So now I am loosing weight quickly but it seems like I have almost no muscles.
My question is: Will my muscle memory kick in and if so, how much muscle mass can I get while being in deep caloric deficit if I do bodybuilding again 3 times a week? To make it even worse, my protein intake is close to none. I eat mostly vegan.
It sucks, but at the moment its the best I can do, Im just tred of belly fat.
Any advices on this topic are very welcome, I am not exactly sure what to do but I wanna shed another 25lb before I start eating at maintain.
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2022.01.25 17:51 waitingforchanges84 Consumer proposal
Im in a predicament and want to work towards paying off all my debt. Any advice would be appreciated.
Credit card debt 31k with offer of 25k to pay it off. Defaulted on payments for more than 2 years due to financial struggles after marriage separation. ARO debt collections have the debt or they are the ones chasing me. Line of credit debt 30k. Paying only the interest of about $200 a month. All debt with RBC.
Until recently I was in and out of work. Now I am in a permanent full time position earning $120k.
I want to pay it off asap but not pay the full amount and to nullify interest if possible. Consumer proposal company are saying they legally have to offer 100% payment due to my income but im a single father recently moved in with my partner and her son and im the sole earner as shes in school.
Can you please provide any recommendations as to how to put forward a proposal that allows me to pay off the minimum asap.
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2022.01.25 17:51 cradavious I’m getting a 10th gen civic for my first car (I’ve been driving for a while but finally getting a car) I have a 20k budget, which style should I get for speed