2022.01.17 03:51 ExcitementMajestic60 Am I into him? Is he into me?
So I've (29M) been dating this guy (32M) for two months now. We've been on four dates and he's hung out at my place once. I was a bit apprehensive about him at first because he politically identifies as a centrist (🚩) and I'm very much so a leftist. He even admitted to almost voting for Trump in 2016 (🚩🚩).
On our first date he said some questionable things about trans people (🚩🚩🚩). Mainly that trans people should be upfront about their genitals when dating people and that trans women shouldn't be allowed in women's sports. I'm cis and I really don't care enough about sports to have an opinion, but if trans people want to play sports, they should be able to play sports. He also believes in there being such a thing as "good cops" (🚩🚩🚩🚩).
I'm not entirely sure why I went on a second, third, or fourth date with him, but I think I just liked the attention at first. I even told him after our third date that I was still pretty adamant about just looking for friends, but he ended up growing on me, though, and as I got to know him a bit better, his problematic, misguided viewpoints made a bit more sense given his very conservative upbringing. (For the record, I don't think this is an excuse, per se, but I've found that calling people in and educating them rather than calling them out and ostracizing them creates more allies)
We parted ways during Christmas (we traveled to different states to see family) and he came back with COVID, so we didn't actually physically see each other for almost 3 weeks. When he came back, he was telling me about how he told his family about me and their various reactions. Half his family laughed when he told them I thought he was too conservative. I apparently scored big points with his sister because I'm a scientist and I volunteer with LGBTQ youth. He even said his sister was surprised he was pursuing me because I was "morr feminine" than his usual type. I found this kind of cute, but also a little weird as the only people in my life that know about him are my two gal pals in the group chat.
TW: sexual assault (SA)
On one of our dates I got a little drunk and ended up revealing more about my past relationships than I intended to (he was asking). I told him that my first relationship was with an older man when I was a teenager and that he groomed and sexually abused me. I don't usually tell people about this so early on because, in my experience, they treat me like I'm so fragile that they're too afraid to touch me. The only men who haven't had this reaction are other SA survivors.
So now, I fear that he's walking on eggshells around me. I keep dropping hints that I'm DTF, but he hasn't tried anything. He spent 6 hours on my couch together just cuddling and playing video games. How do I convince him that he's not going to break me by making a move? I've been in this situation before and I found myself in a 6 month long sex-less relationship where we both ended up cheating on each other.
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2022.01.17 03:51 LaikaNFTs Welcome to the fabolous world of Laïka, the only siberian husky you need ! 🐺 NFTs are 100% homemade, and the collection is updated very regularly 🙂 Check it on OpenSea now !
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2022.01.17 03:51 Weg01 I suck at drawing but I wanted to share this
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2022.01.17 03:51 DefiniteOptimist Haven’t received rewards since January 6th. What’s going on?
2022.01.17 03:51 Joaquito_99 Any way to level up Rexes fast?
So I got my 19 imprinted rexes for the broodmother and I'm leveling one by one by going to kill stuff. It's boring and it takes quite a long time. It'd take me about 40/60 minutes to get one to the level I want, and that's times 19. I'd like to know what to do about this so that the game doesn't become boring
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2022.01.17 03:51 GrownUp2017 [SFX PSU] Cooler Master V850 SFX Gold Full Modular, 850W, 80+ Gold BLACK, ATX Bracket Included ($230-55=$175)
2022.01.17 03:51 thetiltedtrash WoTC adventures to first time DM
Hey all, I was planning on writing a mini campaign for my friends to play over discord, but with how busy I am I have no clue when I will get a chance to write. I was wanting a darker theme, possibly every a borderline horror campaign (if that even exists). Do you guys have any recommendations for any pre mades to try out? I'm thinking between 6-12 sessions. Thanks in advance.
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2022.01.17 03:51 sharinechlia Choose Your Dream Villager and I will Tell you The Side Effects
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2022.01.17 03:51 kuku_panda Every where I go I see his face
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2022.01.17 03:51 MR-Makko102 Got bored so I decided to customize my laptop, what you think? (the actual color is red, the lighting was just bad)
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2022.01.17 03:51 poopwater87 I am a restaurant server…AMA.
2022.01.17 03:51 osaaso_123 I need ur help
I want some handheld the can play ps2 I seen retro pockets 2+ but it doesn’t play will and it’s slow is there any new Devices the can play ps2 games ?
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2022.01.17 03:51 whitesombrero How do you find a wife telling her your are a mechanic?
2022.01.17 03:51 DrankTooMuchTequila Bitcoin cash is too big to fail, which is the reason why I’m rooting for the adoption to explode and the network value to increase.
I was here in the crypto space in 2017, and unless you were in a dedicated Cryptocurrency discussion group, you most likely wouldn’t know what Vertcoin, Ampleforth or Waltonchain was. But guess what, they were in the same ranking of market cap as in bitcoin cash is right now, but these coins failed because 1. no one found a use when there were better projects, 2. they had no institutional support, 3. they had no legacy.
Bitcoin cash is just too big to fail. It has inherited the legacy of Bitcoin core yet functions superior to it, while also having institutional support such as Grayscale holding a significant amount of holdings, centralized payment providers such as PayPal and Venmo and Cash App allowing you to purchase holdings of it (not the real coin, I really would advise you to stray away from doing this), and in the macro level, used for tips on many online services and is exchanged for real world goods.
That differentiates BCH as an undervalued coin, not a dying coin.
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2022.01.17 03:51 croco_unboxed [PIC] A close up shot of my current WIP. Still a long way to go!
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2022.01.17 03:51 JayTheXray 4 POINTS BRUH!! I WAS OFF BY 1 PERFECT+
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2022.01.17 03:51 only_blondie Natural 'F31'
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2022.01.17 03:51 beatboy1975 Your last trousers have no pockets.
2022.01.17 03:51 youzairnaym I never joined this but I’m here to stay
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2022.01.17 03:51 Lilith_The_Bored I was playing DOOM, and suddenly..
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2022.01.17 03:51 Efficient-Ad6814 14wk old dog terrified of new dogs
My 14 week old puppy Jaeger is terrified of new dogs. I bring him to our local vape bars a lot because they're animal friendly. However, he has never met any other dogs than his siblings and our dogs here, and a dog one time I brought him to our favorite shopping spot. He ended up barking at the workers dog and tried to run under the displays because he was so scared. How can I fix this? He will be getting puppy classes and doggy daycare at the end of the month for socialization. I currently don't bring him out a ton because my state has been extremely cold and with him being so young I don't want to push it. Any help would be appreciated as I am working with him right now to hopefully be my SD in the future, but I know he can't unless he gets the proper socialization he needs.
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2022.01.17 03:51 imapylet know of any good wood workers/cabinet makers>
I wanna gift my lovely wife a vanity desk. I could make it on my own but it would take a year. If anybody has somebody that will do custom work, im all ears.
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2022.01.17 03:51 fatahsbijches Safely Hero Save on 360?