Should I forgive him again?

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2022.01.27 23:19 staliaaa Should I forgive him again?

This might be a long post, apologies, but unfortunately it is a long story. I’ll try to keep it to the important bits. Also, I’m on mobile, so I apologize if the formatting is weird.
Basically, I have been friends with this guy (let’s call him Bob) for almost 9 years now. It’s an online friendship, but we have met IRL twice. Bob has always struggled with his mental health, as he grew up in a bad situation. He opened up to me about this pretty quickly into our friendship, and I was ready to listen to his troubles, and simply be there for him. However, about 5 years ago, our friendship came to a turning point— I noticed that whenever he messaged me, I would feel overall dread or anxious.
I talked to my mom about it, and she said that it’s not a friendship, I’m just his therapist at this point. Looking through our messages, I discovered she was right. Every conversation was him venting to me about how depressed he is, or something he feels mad about, and me just listening and talking about it or giving advice where I can. Following my moms advice, I made the difficult decision of telling him how I felt used. He got pretty mad, saying I was selfish, etc. I cut him off. I was really sad, but later on I realized a weight had been lifted off my chest.
A few years later (2 years ago) he messaged me on a new account. He apologized for his behavior and said he felt really bad, and was hoping we could start over. I believe in second chances, so I said okay. It was fun for about a year. However, I noticed the pattern starting again. He wasn’t venting as often as before, so I didn’t say anything, and just kept comforting him. However, it all got worse a few months later. Again, he was only messaging me about how he was depressed, and about how things were sad with his girlfriend. He also said some angry rants about his girlfriend that I thought were genuinely weird/worrisome. It all came to a turning point when he vented about his girlfriend living in a different city for about the 100th time. I calmly tried to say that he could simply move (he had been talking about how he’s saved up money to do so), or if it really bothers him this much, maybe reevaluate their relationship. He got extremely mad at me, so I just decided to ignore him.
A week later I got a message from our mutual friend. Apparently Bob had been crying to him about how I’m ignoring him. I was shocked. I didn’t want this friend to be forced into being our mediator, so I said just tell Bob I need some time. Bob kept bothering him and I felt really bad. But I explained the situation and they understood, and they somehow got Bob to calm down.
A few months later Bob messaged me, apologizing. I said okay, but please don’t let this happen again. You can imagine what I’m going to say next. We weren’t nearly as close this time; before we would also play online games together, but last year I decided I couldn’t handle that anymore, for my own mental health. Sometimes when he played games online he would get mad and take it out on me (and whoever else is in the group). But he still messaged me every once in a while. About 7 months ago he just sent a huge vent out of nowhere. I’ll be honest, at this point I was struggling. I was not in a place to be listening to someone vent. I didn’t want to be rude or overly nice, so I sent a short and concise reply being sympathetic, and left it at that.
Fast forward to today. He spent the last six months in and out of a mental hospital. He messaged me today apologizing for his behavior, saying he was in a bad place. I didn’t know how to reply so I just left it. An hour later, another mutual friend messaged me. “Did you hear Bob is back?”
Anyone else getting deja vu?? I’ll add, this mutual friend almost never messages me individually, so I was really curious when I saw they messaged me.
That’s everything. My question is, what am I supposed to do now? I’ll be honest, when I saw Bob messaged me, I just felt anxiety and a sense of dread. I want to ignore him but it would cause drama. Last time I ignored him he brought our friend into it, and I still feel bad about that. I don’t want to cause any drama with our mutual friends. I truly don’t know what to do.
I know Bob has apologized now, but this is the third time. I recognize a pattern. I think I’m done forgiving him over and over again. Am I being too harsh?
If anyone reads this long story, thank you, I would like to hear your thoughts.
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