I think I just worked out why I find the thought of sex with someone else so intimidating

2022.01.27 22:38 KerrigansLilHelper I think I just worked out why I find the thought of sex with someone else so intimidating

I'm 28 and have almost no experience due to a number of reasons. I have this weird war inside me where I really like the idea of being sexually active, which makes me think I'm not ace, but the thought of actually getting that close to someone in reality scares me.
Part of that is trauma definitely, but I just realised today, some of it is probably also the fact that sex is unscripted. I still have this idea in my head that two people are supposed to spontaneously perform basically, and know what the other person wants. I know that sex between mature adults should ideally involve communication, but that's not how it's presented in the media.
It just made me think, maybe feeling scared of an unscripted encounter like that could also partly be an ND thing. It makes me think that maybe communication could make this sort of thing easier to cope with, and I don't necessarily need months of therapy before getting close to someone.
Do any of you relate? Do you find you get anxious about sex specifically because there don't seem to be any clear rules? Have you found ways of coping with that?
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2022.01.27 22:38 RandomWWEClips Gigi Dolin has some nice new gear that matches her hair

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2022.01.27 22:38 dopthereal Giannis All-Star Starter x6

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2022.01.27 22:38 frisfern Grey loaf

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2022.01.27 22:38 THE_QUESTIONMASTER Places like Burrito King?

I’m well passed college age (early 30s), but I have yet to find a place in KC with similar cuisine to Burrito King (Lawrence, KS). Any recommendations? I truly think their food is amazing. Thanks friends!
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2022.01.27 22:38 TightUnderwear [Task] Help with Excel 365 $10

I need help with writing a complicated formula in Excel 365. Not only do I want the formula, but, I want to be taught (over teams or webex) how and why the certain formula. Some of you gurus will not think it’s complicated at all, which is great! Flat offer $10 PayPal. The formula will include across multiple sheets and across multiple criteria for different vendors. I would prefer someone state-side because Teams and Webex can cause issues internationally.
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2022.01.27 22:38 Misanthropikone Quieter controllers?

Anyone know of a quieter alternative to the Xbox controllers? It really seems like they went to special lengths to add clicking sounds.
This drives me crazy on a normal night but I’m planning a long flight soon and I’d like to use my Xbox controller with my laptop but I don’t want to drive everyone nuts.
For reference, I have two Xbox series X controllers and an Xbox One controller. They are both super clicky.
And… I don’t want to spend $200 😁
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2022.01.27 22:38 BryLinds Rebooking the NXT Championship

(Takeover San Antonio)
Roode vs Nakamura happens like normal, but there are some changes. Shinsuke makes it a Real Deal Strong Style Match. This bewilders Bobby, but he starts to get used to it as the match goes along, and gets a confident and cocky, a too little too much so as BLAOW! KINSHAHSA OUTTA NOWHERE! SHINSUKE RETAINS!
( Shinsuke Nakamura defeats Bobby Roode to Retain The NXT Championship)
(Takeover Orlando)
In the buildup to this rematch, Roode flys out to Japan to film a few vignettes and training montages of him getting cultured and learning the Strong Style. This might be out there, but maybe get him some New Japan Matches. (Yes I know he had a couple of matches in NJPW already, but they were all Tag Matches, and never one on one) He loses a few matches, but eventually wins one! Now Cultured and Ready, Bobby returns to the states just in time for the Go Home Show for Takeover. He cuts a promo and Formally Introduces himself as BOBBY ROODE, MASTER OF ALL WRESTLING. (even though he only had like one match in AAA) He Talks a Big Game, getting Cocky in his promo and then BLAOW! KINSHASA FROM BEHIND! The show closes with Shinsuke Nakamura holding his NXT Championship over an unconscious Roode, muttering ‘Same old Bobby’. At Takeover, we get that REAL DEAL STRONG STYLE MATCH FROM THE GET GO! Because Shinsuke didn’t get enough of those during his time in NXT, and I remember Adam from PFK Praising The Takeover Dallas Match in his Nakamura booking, and If Sami is capable, Bobby is too . Anyway, Nakamura is kinda impressed, but Bobby gets all cocky again, or so we think, Shinsuke thinks that too, and sets up the Kinshasa, But IT’S REVERSED! GLORIOUS DDT! BOBBY ROODE, MASTER OF ALL WRESTLING IS YOUR NEWWWWWW NXT CHAMPION!
(Bobby Roode, Master of All Wrestling defeats Shinsuke Nakamura to win the NXT Championship)
(Takeover Chicago)
So the Roode-Itami Match still happens as planned, but under a different story, as Bobby Roode, Master of All Wrestling declares that “ Hey, Strong Style is Pretty Fun! Is there any other Masters of Strong Style not Named Shinsuke Nakamura that I can put this title up against?” And Sure enough, Hideo Comes out. REAL DEAL STRONG STYLE Ensues in Chicago and Roode Retains! But then, CLAYMORE OUTTA NOWHERE BY A MASKED FIGURE! The figure reveals himself as DREW MCINTYRE!
(Bobby Roode, Master of All Wrestling, defeats Hideo Itami to retain the NXT Championship)
(Takeover Brooklyn III)
Bobby Roode, Master Of All Wrestling, Didn’t take too kindly to this and Challenges McIntyre, just like in real life. McIntyre’s Promos leading up to this are on the lines of “ I’ve had just about enough flaunting around your big ego. Sure you‘ve beaten a few in Japan, Made an Impact (Wink Wink Nudge Nudge) elsewhere, you’ve beaten Nakamura and Itami, but I’ve traveled the world, like you. And I’ve accomplished more than you. Here, and out there.” Roode, Master of all Wrestling’s promo goes like “ You? accomplish more than me? You’ve never even been to Japan, You should try it sometime, the culture is astounding- not the point. But you? Accomplish more than me? You were on a YouTube Wrestling Company! I made an Impact! (Wink Wink) and while I was doing that, I looked over at WWE, most of the competition does, and what did I see? A lanky ass hairless you, faking guitar playing with a couple of bozos ( He Hinders the Jinder) and an unmemorable Intercontinental and Tag Team Championship Reign with Cody Rhodes. You were always that loser, and more hair and muscle isn’t exactly gonna change what got you future endeavored.“ The Match at Brooklyn ain’t a Real Deal Strong Style match, sorry guys, as Bobby still busts out some of those moves from time to time but it Doesn’t work as Bobby Roode, Master Of All Wrestling gets caught in a FUTURESHOCK DDT! DREW MCINTYRE IS YOUR N- wait hold on a minute that doesn’t work. The Crowd is stunned, Drew is stunned as Bobby kicks out. Drew is confused as heck, as GLORIOUS DDT! BOBBY ROODE, MASTER OF ALL WRESTLING RETAINS!
(Bobby Roode, Master of All Wrestling, defeats Drew McIntyre to retain the NXT Championship)
(Takeover WARGAMES)
For weeks, Drew goes on a Soul-Searching Tour in a few Vignettes, as Bobby Roode , Master of All Wrestling gleefully taunts that It’s the same old Drew, Mocks his old 3MB Entrance , Mocks his accent, and becomes insufferable. The go home show has Bobby coming out to Broken Dreams But Gets AMBUSHED by McIntyre, enough so for Regal to call security declares that both men can’t be in the Arena until it’s Time for their Match at WARGAMES! Bobby Tries to Protest, saying that Drew doesn’t deserve it, but Regal Made his Mind up. The match is great, like the last, but when Bobby Kicks out of the Futureshock, Drew isn’t even fazed and NAILS HIM WITH THE CLAYMORE! DREW MCINTYRE IS YOUR NEW NXT CHAMPION! THE MASTER OF ALL WRESTLING IS A MASTER NO MORE!( Also Drew comes out to Broken Dreams because Fan Service)

( Drew Mcintyre Defeats Bobby Roode, Master of All Wrestling to win the NXT Championship)
And that’s it for 2017! We hold off on Andrade for a little bit, but I think it’ll be worth it. What do y’all think?
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2022.01.27 22:38 tehsophz Progress: I'm finally finding new ways to reward myself!

I've had a very hectic week at work, we all know the ones. I used to cope with these by working myself to the bone, and then rewarding myself with purchases, either online or on my way home (pre-covid).
Instead of falling into the overwork-overspend-guilt cycle, I'm rewarding myself tomorrow with what I actually need - a day off and away from the constant "dings" from my laptop. I know that I'm speaking from a place of privilege, as not all workplaces are flexible with PTO, but I highly recommend it if it's an option. If not, maybe you can treat yourself to an evening of Netflix with your phone off, taking a walk by yourself, hiring a babysitter, or some other way of giving yourself the gift of time. You may appreciate it more than whatever you would have bought.
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2022.01.27 22:38 legbeard_roller Ŝ͔̿o͒̕͟u̞ͬ́ṙ̋c͚͗͘ě̗͜ F̡͈̿o͛ͪ͝r̼͗͜ C̡̫͢å̼̗m̡̗̕u̧̘̚s͕ͬ͘ Q͖̰̌ű͝o͔͢͞t̥̹̀ĕ̶̞: Ḭ̛̈́ť͖̱ Ì̮͉s͂̓̕ N̵̠ͬe̪̚͝c̅ͤͅë̮̑s̳̈́̕s̲͒͘á̟r̶͊̏y̷̭͞ T̝̈́͢ȏ̜͕ U̥̽́n͈͊͘d̞ͦ͟e̼͖͡r̆͟͜sͪ̋͡t̰́͢ä̭́ͤn̷͌̃d̯͇͢ M̵͚̅o͈ͬͅŗ̖̄a̫̱͆l̷͍̃i̶̼͞t͈̀̑yͬ͌͘ A̡̦͚n̢ͅd͖͌͟ G̏̄͜o͎ͣo͑͆͡d̎ͨ̐?

Ŝ͔̿o͒̕͟u̞ͬ́ṙ̋c͚͗͘ě̗͜ F̡͈̿o͛ͪ͝r̼͗͜ C̡̫͢å̼̗m̡̗̕u̧̘̚s͕ͬ͘ Q͖̰̌ű͝o͔͢͞t̥̹̀ĕ̶̞: Ḭ̛̈́ť͖̱ Ì̮͉s͂̓̕ N̵̠ͬe̪̚͝c̅ͤͅë̮̑s̳̈́̕s̲͒͘á̟r̶͊̏y̷̭͞ T̝̈́͢ȏ̜͕ U̥̽́n͈͊͘d̞ͦ͟e̼͖͡r̆͟͜sͪ̋͡t̰́͢ä̭́ͤn̷͌̃d̯͇͢ M̵͚̅o͈ͬͅŗ̖̄a̫̱͆l̷͍̃i̶̼͞t͈̀̑yͬ͌͘ A̡̦͚n̢ͅd͖͌͟ G̏̄͜o͎ͣo͑͆͡d̎ͨ̐? submitted by legbeard_roller to subreddit_simulacrum [link] [comments]


2022.01.27 22:38 mdrxd100 Low call volume on Mi 9t after MIUI 12 Update

Ever since I updated my Mi 9T to MIUI 12, the volume for phone calls has decreased. I remember when I was on MIUI 11, if you had the phone call volume at max and pressed the volume up button again you'd see a grey text that read "Boosted speaker volume" or something among the lines of that (this was for the earpiece speaker, not the bottom one). Ever since MIUI 12 that feature doesn't show up anymore, and even at max volume I can barely hear people and have to use the normal speaker. Is there any way to fix this or bring that feature back? Thanks.
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2022.01.27 22:38 AelarTheElfRogue Walter and Ajay

Fuse and Lifeline have had a lot of lines lately about them becoming friends, but I don’t know when this happened. Was there a comic somewhere where they got close?
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2022.01.27 22:38 Otherwise-Line-4770 just a drawing

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2022.01.27 22:38 TheMaskedApe need some friends

i play on ps4 and need some players to play with, i just started the game and i play mostly commando.
i am level 7 and i am pretty decent because i have over 80 hours on xbox and have tons of experience. add me on PSN: NotTeddyBearJ
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2022.01.27 22:38 benpicko A new MythicReborn (Freakazoid, Cooper, Hate, Eric, fl0m)

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2022.01.27 22:38 OdetoPoutine Live in Brisbane's Bitter Boogie has a little bit of Cream's I'm So Glad in the bridge

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2022.01.27 22:38 Tht1guyattht1plc [XB1] W: VE50 or 250 Gatling Gun H: Fair amount of Caps or trade

Thanks for your interest. Happy trading!
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2022.01.27 22:38 Connor1854Jordan Should i make a foresting industry or a campus?

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2022.01.27 22:38 jdm1716 Mixing Valve setup in progress, missing temp gauges right now

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2022.01.27 22:38 Eatme-Im-bread They must be very proud

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2022.01.27 22:38 Piandelagotte Each year my friend and I make a compilation of songs we need each other to hear...they are also songs that you too just gotta hear. So tune in🤙🏼

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2022.01.27 22:38 pogrsboi This is my OC, Kris. I hope you like him. Sorry, I can’t draw on this, I’m bad at it, and my coloring sucks.

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2022.01.27 22:38 RickSteve-O Some say Sanibel is better than Hawaii…

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2022.01.27 22:38 NORDLAN Germany agrees to axe Nord Stream 2 if Russia invades Ukraine

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2022.01.27 22:38 OrwellWasRight69 New Emails Reveal Fauci’s Role In Shaping Paper That Established """Natural Origin""" Narrative

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