my boyfriend tells everything i tell him to his whole family

2022.01.29 03:34 ohgodnotthelamp my boyfriend tells everything i tell him to his whole family

like i could tell him personal stuff about my parent’s substance abuse or that i’m worried about money, etc and then i find out later that he relayed all this information to his entire (immediate) family. i’m a very private person and i can only open up to maybe a couple people besides my therapist so this bothers me. especially bc he doesn’t open up to me so i feel vulnerable and people knowing certain things about my life gives me anxiety.
we’ve had the conversation before but he says since he’s never opened up to another person before he doesn’t know what he’d open up about or share with me. and usually it ends with him getting upset that i expect him to open up and/or vent to me about his feelings and he doesn’t know how.
i just think it’s unfair to tell my business to everyone in the house when i don’t know his business or frankly anyones. like i don’t know what he truly thinks about his parents or his siblings. those things aren’t extremely important but i feel that if they know personal stuff about me then i should get the scoop on them as well.
ive told him it makes me uncomfortable but he hasn’t stopped. he claims that they always ask him about our relationship and me bc they care about us and he just answers their questions (granted, he also admits they’re nosy).he’s my boyfriend and i want to tell him everything but sometimes i feel like i can’t bc his family will know those things too. i wish he’d ask me sometimes if it’s okay to tell them certain things but i don’t know how to make him see it from my point of view. it’s not that i don’t want them to know anything but i’d feel safer if i was the one opening up to his family when i was ready rather than my bf just telling them as soon as he finds out.
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2022.01.29 03:34 vampiramacabre I (18f) believe my disability is getting taken advantage of by my grandparents what can I do? what should I do? what are my rights? (New York state)

I (18f) have turned 18 during summer 2021 . Ever since my grandparents have been extremely pushy about me going on SSI. (For more context I have been living with my grandparents for a few years due to a rough situation I was in.)
I had never planned on going for disability money and I have been wanting to find a job to help me through college and to become more independent. When my grandparents found out I was looking for a job a few months back they were very agitated and kept telling me to stop to focus of graduating high school. In the beginning of this process I was told that I was getting money to provide financial aid for when I start college. Soon into the process they started bringing up social security disability.
They harassed my mom into saying I was paying a larger amount of rent to get more money (which I found to be very weird and scummy for them to do to her). My mom was not on board with this and wanted me to become more independent which caused tension for some time.
I recently just found out I qualified for social security disability (anxiety, depression ,PTSD and high functioning autism) and I was told I would be getting $800 per month. Just today I found out that i’m getting $2000+ dollars every month and they are very likely keeping the rest of the money to themselves . they want the money put into their bank account and to have full access to it.
Is this legal to do to someone? if not what should I do? what rights do i have in this situation?
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2022.01.29 03:34 DemUnderground Video from inside shooter's car captures road rage incident. Shooter was released at the scene!!

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2022.01.29 03:34 Scary_Resident4982 Swing speed at a young age?

If your junior golfer doesn't have higher swing speed with driver at a young age, will they ever have it?
For example, if a junior can only swing at 70mph at age 11 while the top players in that age are swinging it over 80mph, is there a chance this junior could ever catch up? How?
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2022.01.29 03:34 TunesMedia the heirs launch the digital artwork- The Cryptonomist

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2022.01.29 03:34 KayJay_Media Cancer Zodiac 411 - Jan 29 2022 - Tarot card of the day.

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2022.01.29 03:34 HappyGlitterUnicorn For u/The-Great-Shapeshift

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2022.01.29 03:34 DemUnderground How to flip the 'Nancy Pelosi San Francisco trope' on Right-Wingers against progressive policies

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2022.01.29 03:34 IAmNotABOTomg Apple TV’s “The Afterparty” Debuts High With Critics

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2022.01.29 03:34 TunesMedia FTX.US, BinanceUS and Gemini jumped into US lobbying in recent months, yet they trail Coinbase’s $1 million quarterly spend

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2022.01.29 03:34 Ok-Law2415 Chat on Marathi actress DM me

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2022.01.29 03:34 coolotclrnc My boyfriend has strong views about vaccines and remains unvaxxed. Even if it means he won’t be able to come back in PH.

As the title says, my long term (33M) partner is hesitant in taking the vaccine. I live in Philippines (25F), and the country just announced opening of borders to fully vaccinated tourists and after, Feb. 16, only fully vaccinated travelers are allowed to enter.
He’s been stuck in UK for 2yrs since the pandemic and can’t go back. We have been in LDR for 2yrs. I have visited him and his family last 2020 and 2021 in UK for xmas and new years. But before I left he was supposed to be coming back with me but his visa didn’t arrive in time. But now visa is out of the question starting Feb. 10, vaccine is now the requirement.
I get that he doesn’t want the vaccine, but it is unfair because I already had mine and he did mention that we’ll do it together, but now I feel left behind because I am the only one who has it.
What should I do? He won’t do it for us to be together and I don’t want to be in LDR forever. I don’t know how to say to him to just take it for our sake.
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2022.01.29 03:34 DragoFNX Im scared of jax mains that don't use skin - Darius main

Thats it...
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2022.01.29 03:34 TastyBudget1445 Indian Oil Corporation Limited Recruitment 2022.

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2022.01.29 03:34 nirach Internal Network access issues over vPN - also known as "problem exists between keyboard and chair"

Evening folks.
I've been having trouble with L2TP on my router from Android and Linux, so I thought I'd check out Openvpn.
I've got the OpenVPN appliance on my homelab, and I can connect to it.
I thought I'd configured the thing to allow me to connect to internal IP's - But apparently not.
The option under routing;
Should VPN clients have access to private subnets (non-public networks on the server side)?
is answered as 'Yes, using Routing'
and the next option has the internal IP range entered, for arguments sake, 192.168.1.0/24
The rest of the Routing section is answered 'yes', and under DNS I've forced the use of my internal DNS servers - But I don't think that matters as I use IP not name.
I have, in the client profile, told it to use the VPN as a route for the internal IP range.
The ultimate goal is to be able to RDP to internal resources from a Debian based laptop, or from an Android phone - I know I can do both internally, but I've definitely missed or done something wrong with OpenVPN.
Is there a guide for the appliance that I can't find that might point me in the right direction?
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2022.01.29 03:34 Top_Touch_8101 "Junta is our community!" - Amhara citizen blames the FANO Vigilante group for the massacres and the rape that is happening in the Amhara region.

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2022.01.29 03:34 TunesMedia Crypto Startup Swing Secures $6 Million In Strategic Funding Round

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2022.01.29 03:34 segundacuenta_2 How to break the “small talk” barrier

Whenever I try to spark up a conversation, I find it really hard to talk for real. As in, not talk about school, or another people, but actually having a conversation about stuff that we both care about and not just meaningless stuff.
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2022.01.29 03:34 DemUnderground I recorded Tucker & Hannity to see what they had to say about fake elector's subpoenas

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2022.01.29 03:34 AWeebOnTheInternet I Feel A Little Annoyed With Zoro Rn [Chapter 1038 Spoilers]

I feel like Oda is playing up Zoro's injuries a bit too much. We all know that Oda is most definitely not going to be killing Zoro, so what is going on with the Grim Reaper showing up in this chapter? Yes, I get it. Zoro is heavily injured and very close to death and is going to find some way through willpower to continue living and become the world's greatest swordsman, however, we have already had a moment like this before back in Thriller Bark and I feel that the "nothing happened" moment was handled much better than the state of Zoro.
There are three ways that this can end with Zoro:

  1. Zoro says something snarky to the Grim Reaper and lives.
  2. The Grim Reaper says something to Zoro and leaves.
  3. Zoro dies.
We all know that 3 isn't in the logbooks, so what is the point of even having the moment? There are other ways to show this moment, yes they wouldn't be nearly as cool but they could have more plot significance or even a throwback to Thriller Bark. I like what Oda is doing in the current chapters, I just wish that this moment was handled a bit differently.
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2022.01.29 03:34 mubaz123 Impregnating Resins Market Share & Industry Forecast Report, 2020-2027

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2022.01.29 03:34 notian- had sushi for dinner

also bought toilet paper on the way home
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