My friend of 10 years is obsessed with being mentally ill

2022.01.26 14:59 melo_n_chill My friend of 10 years is obsessed with being mentally ill

I've never been great at making friends. They've all been conditional meaning the relationship lasted as long as the condition (friends until the semester ends or friends of a partner that leave when they do, friends for the football season). I've had 1 person who remained in contact with me since middle school. I'm not sure why. We're not really compatible we're just both lonely and mentally ill and check up on each other to make sure the other is doing okay. I'd like to be better friends with her but she seems to have the same mindset that she did when we first met in 6th grade. Her personality, appearance, motivation, problems, and outlook on life has literally been the same for over a decade (we're 22 now). She self sabotages everything. For example: - Takes 4 years to get her license then crashes her car - Finds the absolute worst men to date then gets mad when they cheat or leave - Starves herself knowing it isn't healthy - Never has a job - Cashed a fake check from a stranger into her bank account now it's locked
Just decisions she knows will not benefit her but continues to do it. I've tried sending her videos and books that's helped me get out of a funk, I tried visiting her to get outta the house and do something, I tried helping her seek therapy. Nothing works. It's almost like she enjoys being mentally ill. I used to be the same way but I'm also transgender and ever since I transitioned I have been in a much better headspace which is why I try so hard to help. I know how she feels but I don't think I can help her. I don't necessarily want to drop her as a friend because if she did something stupid I somehow feel like I'm still supposed to be there because shes the only one that's stuck around with me all these years. But I'm not sure what to do anymore...
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2022.01.26 14:59 FabianDR "illegal hardware instruction" - Laravel "php artisan" on M1 Mac

My Laravel 8 project has been running great on my M1 Mac since day 1. Today I ran:

php artisan config:clear php artisan config:cache php artisan cache:clear composer dumpautoload 
Now nothing work's any more. I got an Nginx error when I tried to access my site via browser (Valet).
`php artisan` just says (XXXX = number that gets higher a few numbers every time I run the command:
[1] XXXX illegal hardware instruction php artisan 
I restarted my M1 mac, re-installed composer, deleted the vendor directory, and ran `composer install`. Still same error.
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2022.01.26 14:59 AnonAccount7254 Looking for a Budget Guitar

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2022.01.26 14:59 Kingofglass Anyone else find the “end to White poetic?

So I’ve been thinking about this for a while and don’t plan on posting to the main but I feel that Whites “death” was quite poetic. The man who was corrupted by power and was a total evil, he went on to devour people and take there souls and use them for power. In the end he wanted Baam to become the same thing he wanted, A person to be corrupted and he got what he wanted as we have seen with Baam. But what I like about his “end” is that he went from someone who devoured the weak and thought of them as trash was ultimately devoured by the same type of people he devoured. You don’t have to agree just though it was quite interesting for me. Also I still dislike the ending to the fight
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2022.01.26 14:59 julius_- But where can i get this?

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2022.01.26 14:59 Dhooy77 Andrew Brandt thinks Rodgers is traded, What do you think?

Andrew Brandt still thinks Rodgers is traded. Formed NFL executive for the Packers. I don't see Rodgers retiring. What are your thoughts?
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2022.01.26 14:59 eatASSdrinkCUM TIL: You’re not a star until you lose 90% of your star power

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2022.01.26 14:59 kinza00302 Soon start Kyccoin of IEO is 02.2022!

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2022.01.26 14:59 r2002 Is this Residential REIT trading at book value?

American Homes 4 Rent ($AMH) is in the business of acquiring, renovating, and leasing single-family homes as rental properties.

Now here's the interesting part. CFA Brent Nyitray in a recent article claims the stock is trading at near book value:
American Homes 4 Rent owned 52,873 homes at the end of 2020. It purchased them at an average price of $189,129, which means the gross purchase price was just under $10 billion. Their average home was purchased in 2014. Since mid-2014, the FHFA House Price Index has risen by 69%. This means the value of its real estate is actually closer to $17 billion.
If you add the $6.9 billion in home price appreciation to the current book value of $6.6 billion, you get a new book value of $13.5 billion. When you consider the current market cap of American Homes 4 Rent is about $13.4 billion, you see the stock is trading at just about book value. In other words, it's a lot cheaper than it initially appears.
In another article back near September, an SA author John Windelborn also covered this topic:
One of the hidden tailwinds for an equity REIT is the appreciation of the underlying real estate that has to be depreciated off of the balance sheet due to accounting rules. Based on their recent dispositions info, the average house that they sold in Q2 was for approximately $287,000. According to the Fed, the median sales price of a home has increased 16.2% in the past year.
If you hold 54,000+ homes at say $241,000, and the median sales price of a house goes up ~16.2%, then you could assume that it’s worth about $287,000 and you’re looking at an increase in value of your assets of over $2 billion. That’s for a company currently worth $15.6 billion. Like other equity REITs, AMH can engage in capital recycling, where they trim their portfolio of assets priced at a premium to buy undervalued opportunities, just to later sell those for more profit. Essentially buying low and selling high. If prices don’t appreciate meaningfully, then just engage in your primary business and hold the properties for rent.
My questions are:
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2022.01.26 14:59 Cxzador New guy struggling advice needed + [RANT]

I had the worst day at work where everything that could've went wrong did. Because I am new and a part-timer I don't know how to do a lot of things (only been payed for 4 shifts I think), I skimmed through the FiveGuys University videos because I am a Med student and have a lot to do.
I made many mistakes which caused the manager to get mad at me and its hard to communicate to her because I am really tall and she is very short with an obscure European accent (Needing to bend down a lot to hear here while we rushing). Its annoying cuz I like working there, it is way better than my previous job as a care-assistant which I didn't get trained for. However, its still a similar situation where I am stressed out because they say ''faster'' and I simply cant or they ask me for something and then I have no idea where said item or what they are asking of me. I never learn something just by watching someone do it or by them telling me what to do, ESPECIALLY First time. I need to figure it out for myself but understandably I don't have the power to do so and managers don't have the time with too many customers on the line.
Even today, my first time as a cashier, I thought I did pretty well but at the end my manager said I lost a lot of money on till which didn't make sense to me (I was almost certain I gave the right amount cash)- I mean it literally says the amount on the ticket WTH? Onetime I overheard more experienced employees gossiping, presumably about me and my performance. They joked that I was an inconvenience and said ''your fired!'', before being nice to my face then teaching me how to do the Floor. Whilst this was probably aimed at all part-timers (who work one shift a week according to her) its just discouraging man.
In short I want to get better at my job I mainly do opens and 1pm-9pm shifts, whatever they're called. This is my first real job ever and I am slow, clumsy and have massive performance anxiety which I am seeking help for. How do I get better at opens (Smashing, Balling the meat) is the videos actually helpful etc. etc.
Cheers
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2022.01.26 14:59 Luvmypups2022 When separated from your connected person do you feel uncomfortable/antsy until they are back?

I'm a demisexual/romantic and I've recently been building a connection to a new person over the last several months. My connected person (allo) recently went out of town for the weekend and I was nervous/uncomfortable while he was gone. Kind of like a stretched rubber band about to snap. I was married for 20 years and felt this way with my ex-husband but not as severe and it faded as the overall connection faded. I'm not a worrier or clingy by nature so I'm wondering of others experience this unsettled feeling when their connected person is physically away from them.
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2022.01.26 14:59 Frigo-the-Frozen The Pokemon Fandom is fucking toxic

Pokemon Fans hate Pokemon, Gamefreak and every member that does not. They also trashtalk every game since gen 5 and when a new one comes out the last becomes the best fucking game ever. Why the fuck are they doing it. I mean there is no fucking point. They literaly can just think: I do not like, I do not buy. Is it that god damn hard?
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2022.01.26 14:59 sadsherbert14 What the actual fuck was that Fox News interview?

I thought that we voted as a community not to have any of the mods go to interviews to prevent whatever just happened, and this power-hungry guy goes and fucks up an interview on Fox News of all places. Come on, stop letting the power get to your heads, this is exactly what we fight against.
EDIT: here's the link to save you a search: [https:// www.reddit.com/Cringetopia/comments/scx5c; foxnews_interview_with_mod_of_rantiwork/? utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm name=iossmf](https:// www.reddit.com/Cringetopia/comments/scx5c; foxnews_interview_with_mod_of_rantiwork/? utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm name=iossmf)
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