My boyfriend (30M) slapped my (26F) leg during a fight (relationship of 1.5 years)

2022.01.24 16:55 ThrowRA-June My boyfriend (30M) slapped my (26F) leg during a fight (relationship of 1.5 years)

Hello,
I need advice on if this was wrong or not. To keep things shorter - we got into a slightly heated argument because I help him with social media but he micromanages. I was going to move some folders around on my computer but he didn’t understand or like that. I ended up getting frustrated trying to explain why it didn’t matter and told him he micromanages, and is always trying to control things when he doesn’t have to because he’s not a part of it (it’s my computer and how I want to organize things on it).
While I was mid sentence he slapped me in the leg. For me, it was hard. It hurt, and if I was trying to tap someone to get their attention I wouldn’t do it nearly as hard. I stood up and told him very firmly that that is not how you treat me. You do not get to hit me like that. And then I told him that he needed to leave. I left the room and he packed his stuff up and left.
After a half hour I texted him and asked him if there was something he needed to say. He told me I am too hard on him. I told him that I meant more about the hitting. He told me that it was more meant to be playful and to get me to stop talking. He’s trying to say he didn’t do it that hard. I responded that I think it was harder than he thinks it was. He responded “I honestly don’t care, you have a weird vision of who I am. You judge me too hard. For you to think I would hit you in anger is retarded. I’m not even going to defend that cause it’s a waste of my time”.
He hasn’t apologized once for doing it. And like I would understand doing something and then realizing it doesn’t come across how you meant it to- but in those scenarios I would apologize. I know I’m in the wrong for getting frustrated, and I shouldn’t have. I just hate having to explain every action I take, and hearing about all the negatives of why I shouldn’t - even when it has no impact on him and he doesn’t understand.
How do I get him to see my point of view that it was too much?
TLDR: my boyfriend slapped me in the leg to stop me from talking during an argument, he thinks it was playful, but it was hard enough to hurt me.
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