2022.01.26 07:40 vvsperr Can someone identify?
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2022.01.26 07:40 Shadowlandsalways Toxic life, toxic mum
This is going to be a long story. Let me give you a background.
I am 26 years old F, with husband and 6 month old baby. Having problems with my family.
My mother married my father very young. She is 16 years younger then him. He was absent my whole childhood. He had a lot of money, was cheating my mum and beating her up. My earliest memories were here screaming. He also had a marriage before so I have older step sister and step brother. I also have younger sister and brother. I dont remember anything bad (maybe because i was too young) with her till I was 10. She was playing with us kids and enterteining us.
Then she started drinking heavily. Like every night she would be drunk as hell and smoke cigarettes. The worse thing is that i was sleeping in bed next to her while she was smoking and drinking whole night in my small room. At the time it wasnt a big deal for me because I went into puberty and I could do whatever I wanted because she was too drunk to notice. With time I realized that she has a problem. I always told her that I dont want her to smoke where I sleep or drink because there were always some filthy marks on my table because of alcohol. She was doing it all the time. Even on my Birthdays and etc. That Made me very mad. She drinks everything. Like everything with alcohol in it. Hard liquor, wine, vodka. She doesn’t pick. We didnt had any drop of Wine or anything in house because she drinks everything.
When I was still underage, my father saw what she was doing online and with whom (I suppose) and they got into a fight that leaded one month jail for my father and Safe house for my mother. Then they got together again and Made my little brother when I was 17 years old. Their last fight was my dad holding my brother who was a month Old and they fighting in Middle of the night (I suppose she was drinking again but i dont remember) I rushed in and took my mom out and later came back home to care for my baby brother. Guess who was always taking care of my brother. Me.
Things got calmer after that. I went to college and studied so much to have master degree. But my mum was always careless after me. I was the one who would always drive everyone around, helping everyone. My younger sister always had a privilage. She was obese from young age and always took my clothes even she was much bigger then me. Mom allowed her even I said no. She borrowed money from me while I was pregnant for Food and she spent it on something else. She didnt want to respond to my calls when I wanted to Talk to her about baby. She also took my younger brother computer so she could Play games with her bf. My mum was only interested in her and her carrier (she got famous for a little bit) even my sister was horrible. She spent a lot of money on her and her courses which she failed every time and I had to beg her to pay me a year of college. Litteraly cry and beg and I was a good student. Even when I finished college and got master degree, that wasnt a big deal. Like nobody was happy for me.
Me and my husband had civil Wedding which we payed on our own and even then she caused a scene because i didnt want to call some people and she insisted on calling them. And we are living in another country cca 2000 km from my family now. I am here alone, taking care of baby and learning language. While I was giving birth she came here to help me. While i was in Hospital she got drunk in my apartment, called me on videochat and cried that she IS alone for 2 days there drunk. She broke piece of furniture also. I suppose she fell. My husband was so mad because she is horrible when drunk. She wants to argue and is rude.
She also hates my husband. She talked really Bad about him. He is really straightforward and she told her that she has a problem and she is alcoholic and that my sister is also a big problem. Because of that she caused another problem for new year, again drunk and she intentionaly caused a problem with other people and almost made a problem because she hates my husband in front of her first granddaughter who was 5 month at the time. I told her she made me a problem and that wasnt okay. She just ignored that. Nobody was asking about my little one or me.
My husband and I plan to have a Wedding in August. But guess what…. Its tradition here for parents to pay Weddings here. And I need to start planning the Wedding. I texted her and told her I would give her money to pay for the first things so she doesn’t have. But she told me she doesn’t want to have anything with it.
So I am mad. I am furious. I dont know what M to do. If i tell this to my husband he will cancel everything because he doesn’t want anything to do with her. I dont know if I should cancel everything.
Everyday when I Look at my daughter I imagined things she did and I ask myself: why? She makes me really really sad and disapointed everytime. I get hope everytime but everytime is a same story, and I dont have any patience anymore. For my mum or my sister.
TL;DR my mum toxic alcoholic and doesn’t support me or never did, while she does everything for my sister
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2022.01.26 07:40 Calum-Syers Why does The Terror have such a hold over it’s fans?
I love the first season and have re-watched it half a dozen or so times. But other than people discovering it recently (who are always welcome), why is it do you think this show has such cult appeal?
There just doesn’t seem to be a middle ground. Either you’re obsessed with The Terror and have countless re-watches under your belt or you’ve never heard of it.
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So I have this hq res. pattern image that I'd like to use as a background for a logo I have created. I opened the pattern file and the logo file (with removed background) on gimp. Now I would like to know the best method to cout out the exact shape of my logo from my pattern file (Like a cookie press). What's the best way to do so?
I already used the float selection and put my logo into place. But when I anchor it, I am left with the rest of the pattern image around it and cutting it out via crop tool always leaves me with sloppy results.(left over "cookie dough" on the edges)
Your help is appreciated (:
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Is there any tips for me to prepare myself ?
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Everyone still having issues with transfers? Been trying for about 3+ hours now and still no luck always "unexpected error" when I get to the transfer screen.
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2022.01.26 07:40 justlurkingxyz What really gets me about Kody's mUh pRoToCoLs wrt Christine
He LOVES to say "I have a child that had kidney failure!!!!" as an excuse to stay away from Christine and her kids, because Christine is "disloyal" and "not obedient"
But you would THINK that if he was actually concerned for TRUELY'S sake then we would see him genuinely distraught: please do xyz for the sake of Truely, and made a genuine plea to Christine to keep his 'rules' bc he genuinely thinks that they would keep Truely safer you know, since Christine is the one who RAISES her and is around her every day???
Probably, if she saw that he was genuinely concerned for what her household was doing out of genuine concern for the CHILDREN, then she would have been much more receptive. But no, we never see him actually concerned with the children of mothers who don't follow the rules. Just like we never see him mention that Jenelle (who wasn't "loyal" and "obedient" either) is still around Christine and her kids.
It's completely irrelevant insofar as Kody is not the primary one concerned.
Truely and the other kids with health problems are just an excuse/justification to test Christine's dedication to following Kody's whims.
That's what cemented in my mind that it's just about him wanting to prove to himself that he can tell her to jump jump, and she will say how high.
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2022.01.26 07:40 BreadTubeForever I'm used to most rich liberal celebrities using very polite, diplomatic language in dealing with this sort of thing, so I gotta admit there was something quite satisfying to me seeing Courtney Taylor-Taylor just going off at the UK Tories after they used 'Bohemian Like You' at an event.
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