2021.12.02 03:35 serpentinequeen My [37F] husband [35M] wants to cuss out his family for their horrible treatment of his grandmother [85F]. Should I talk him out of it?
Note: I'm posting this on my sisters behalf. She asked for help and wanted to get advice from reddit.
My husband is very frustrated with his families lack of competence when it comes to his grandmas care. He loves her dearly because she essentially raised him.
My husbands grandmother had a stroke earlier this year and has been in a nursing home since. She lost mobility on the left side of her body but is gradually improving. Unfortunately she’s been immobile and unable to walk, get out of bed or eat adult portions of food.
Because of this, her physical and mental health is declining. The family has very little interest in visiting and following up on care needs for his grandma. For example, grandma doesn’t like the current nursing home and has been begging to move to a different home and everyone keeps brushing her off. My FIL (m54) is POA and is not very involved.
The nursing home is supposed to call him with any updates, in which they don’t, and he won’t initiate the phone calls. Grandma has been complaining about pain and discomfort in her behind, NP chalked it up to hemorrhoids. But in one of our visits we found she had developed bedsores by the tailbone.
According to my FIL, the nursing home had not informed him of this so I asked when was the last time they called him with a health update? To which he said he’s not sure maybe 2 weeks to a month ago. I don’t know about you but if I wasn’t getting weekly phone calls with updates about my own mother's health, I would pick up the phone and ask for them.
My family and I don’t really agree with taking someone into a nursing home. It’s not a common thing in our culture, to my family it’s a big form of disrespect. I offered to take his grandma in our home and work with his family on coverage. His family of course declined and preferred the nursing home route.
My husbands grandmas family that’s in the area are; daughter (f60’s), son(m60’s), son (m54) which is my FIL, son (m52). Daughter (f60’s) has been through this with her in laws and I know she used to visit them 2-3x’s weekly, but her mother she visits once every 10 days if she’s not on vacation. Her son (m60’s) visits once a week with the push of his wife. Son (m54) visits 1-2x’s a month, and that a generous estimate. Son (m52) has only visited 3x’s since she had the stroke, someone has to invite him to tag along with their visit, won’t initiate a visit.
Grandchildren besides my husband are, (m28), (f24), (m24), (m20). And only visit if parents invite to tag along with their visit.
For thanksgiving my husband and I were the only ones that signed up to visit while everyone celebrated thanksgiving at his grandmas house. Nursing home is about 10 min ride from her house. It’s getting to the point where my unrelated family & friends are visiting his grandma to fill the void of loneliness.
My husband is getting to the point where he’s going to verbally snap on his family for the lack of care they’re showing towards his grandma. I’m trying to decide if I should let him cuss them out or talk him out of it. I don’t know if this is a cultural difference on why they’ve detached themselves from her, or if it's a coping mechanism? I don't want my husband to burn bridges with his family.
TLDR: My husband's family has been very detached and uninvolved with the care of his elderly grandmother. He wants to sit them down and cuss them out after they all had Thanksgiving dinner in her own home without visiting her in person. Should I allow him to or should I try to talk him out of it?
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2021.12.02 03:35 lwalk222 Has anyone studied abroad in Copenhagen for sport management? Any tips, notes, or info would be greatly appreciated
2021.12.02 03:35 shiny-new Step-momming it for Christmas?
I’m not technically a stepmom, so let’s get that out of the way. In every way that counts, though, I’m a stepmom.
Their mother is mixed nuts on a cracker. I buy them the exact same brand and size of clothes, but anything that comes from our house is evil. She legit tossed $50 football gloves because she didn’t like them.
I don’t know how to buy or give presents when the kids are petrified of their mom (to the point they won’t wear anything outside of their lockers).
I have them 35% of the time. Still mad at their mom for depriving them of their father. Also pissed that people think that “three days a week” means I don’t spend every waking moment thinking about the kiddos.
I’ve tried to buy presents with Nutso Mom in mind— the hoverboard is meant to travel across town before she. But. She’s just awful? I don’t know. I need help. How do I deal with a mom who hates me more than she loves her kids?
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2021.12.02 03:35 brwpike12 Psychonaut Playlist
I’ve been struggling with my depression recently and I’ve found that Psychedelic type music even while sober minded really calms me does anyone have any favorite songs to listen too while tripping?
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2021.12.02 03:35 prasham_patel Passes are Transparent
I rendered explosion in mantra and when I tried to comp in nuke passes are showing transparent. Can anyone help me with it? What am I doing wrong while rendering passes?
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2021.12.02 03:35 renodrom1 Which dlc should I get next?
2021.12.02 03:35 ScumbagSolo The reason DD loses money.
The non tippers are losing doordash money. If you examine the subtotal of the order and figure the average fee DD charges the merchant is 20%, add in the fee the customer pays, which can be extremely low with dash pass, or other promotions, this number does not cover the average pay that must be doled out to attract a driver to take a non tipped order.
Here is some prop 22 California math for you. There is a Del Taco near my house, with at least 12 dollars spent, I reduce my fee to .50, assuming that Del Taco does not have some kind of special agreement with DD, the fee charged to the merchant is likely to be 20%. This is a total fee collected of 2.90 on this order. The location is 1.6 miles from my house. Now prop 22 math works out to be about 3.50 paid per 10 minutes of active time worked. Knowing what I know about the area and average time it would take to complete the order assuming it was ready upon arrival, I would give this order a total completion time of 12 minutes.
With prop 22 the bare minimum that DD would need to pay a dash for this order is 4.20, for a total net loss of 1.30. Dashpass, mitigates these looses, but. this is an order close by my house, and other scenarios can multiply these losses in a large congested area. This is happening hundreds of thousands of times a day, and doordash continues to post losses in excess of 300 million dollar a quarter. They even managed to lose twice as much money when their revenue tripled during peak of lock downs.
So now you know why the pay sucks sometimes, and they cant afford a robust development team to fix the app issues.
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2021.12.02 03:35 kucoin_official Scheduled Adjustment of Risk Limit Upgrade of KuCoin Trading Bot Futures Grid on December 2
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2021.12.02 03:35 RonnieW5 Goaloo Soccer Tips - 12/2/21 (Thursday)
12/1 (Wednesday) | Results:
| Southampton 2-2 Leicester City | Leicester City+0 @ 2.12 (112) ♻️
| West Ham United 1-1 Brighton Hove Albion | under 2.5 goals @ 1.80 (-125) ✅
| Sassuolo 2-0 Napoli | bts ✅
| PSG 0-0 Nice | under 3.25 goals @ 1.80 (-125) ✅
| Bologna 1-0 AS Roma | AS Roma-0.25 @ 1.96 (-104) ❌
| Genoa 0-3 AC Milan | AC Milan-0.75 @ 1.82 (-122) ✅
12/2/21 (Thursday) | Picks:
| Torino - Empoli | Torino to win @ 2.70 (170)
| AZ Alkmaar - Fortuna Sittard | over 3 goals @ 1.80 (-125)
| Tottenham Hotspur - Brentford | btts
| Lazio - Udinese | Immobile to score
| Manchester United - Arsenal | Manchester United to win @ 2.95 (195)
| Bahia - Atletico Mineiro | double chance Bahia or draw
Matches stats and tips
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2021.12.02 03:35 heinaga1989 $MC To the moon!!
2021.12.02 03:35 WallBanger77 Kronos
2021.12.02 03:35 wellnessmgz002 9 Yeast Infection Symptoms You Shouldn’t Ignore
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2021.12.02 03:35 moldedshoulders Crunched some numbers
Fry says ‘40,000 channels and only 150 of them have anything good on’.
Saying he spent exactly one second on each channel, that’s 11.11 hours
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2021.12.02 03:35 holorodurm The Story of $CNTX (250k float) VOLATILE
On Reddit I found this company touted for having 250k shares in float, fighting breast cancer, presenting at some wild conference on the 7th to share results which will be the major catalyst.
It IPO'd at $12 ish, sunk down to $5, insiders loaded up around 7$. I bought 1000 shares at $6.15, and the next day (today) saw it hit $10.85 while I was sleeping, not to mention over 70M SHARES TRADED.. the average is like 3m!!!!
It settled down to a price of $8.75 shortly after, which then I offered my shares at $9.99.
It proceeded to hit $9.98... avoid my sell and sink back down to $6.30 after hours... DOH!
So now I'm back at square one. This company, like most biotechs got traction during the new variant announcement
2 other companies that mooned after this conference last year
$SLS, $4 to $19
$GLSI, $5 to $158
Think there is still gas in the tank? I do. Lets go!!!!!
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2021.12.02 03:35 Huge-Dino-Chicken How dare those liberals omit facts
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2021.12.02 03:35 Salim4Marketing Razer Arctech Pro Black Cellphone Case for iPhone12/ iPhone12 Pro/ iPhone12 Mini/ iPhone12 Pro Max|Phone Case & Covers| 49.99 $ 50% OFF|
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2021.12.02 03:35 Budskis8 Today will be a GREEN day.....trust me, I am an Aussie and we don't............
2021.12.02 03:35 ThizZuMs Kanki vs KoChou Recap/Review(Poll&Video Inside)
Now that the Kanki vs KoChou arc is over, I’m wondering what the general consensus is. Feel free to debate and discuss whether the Kanki vs KoChou arc was trash, mid or top tier. Personally I give it a 4/5, I was on the edge of my seat the entire time, even thought history spoilers told us the outcome, Hara performed a masterclass in getting there and it gave me even more hope that Hara absolutely nails the rest of the Kingdom. Also, not everyone reading Kingdom has read or wants to read the history spoilers, don’t be a dicc, mark your spoilers.
Below is a full recap of the arc in its entirety along with time stamps in the description There aren’t many arc retrospectives on YouTube so I plan on making more of these. But that doesn’t really matter.
Full Recap link here
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2021.12.02 03:35 KwurmShroomp 🔒 DogeYield 🔓 Just Fair Launched [Ownership Renounced][LPs Burned]
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2021.12.02 03:35 Difficult_Success801 Unintentionally finding YOASOBI this year was one of the best things that happened in 2021
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2021.12.02 03:35 SilentDistribution48 WHICH GIRL WOULD YOU FUCK AND WHAT WOULD YOU DO WITH HER?
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2021.12.02 03:35 Hot_Tailor_9687 A Bit More Grinding because that Wattson fight is making me nervous
Winstrate fam's down. Everyone we could fight in Routes 117 and 118 is down.
Anne Maria discovered she could increase her Powder accuracy with Sweet Scent. "Three more coats ought to do it" she says, gagging the enemy Zigzagoon with her scent spray
Shawn fought a grueling battle with the Bug Maniac's butterflies on Route 117, Shawn is beginning to hone his 'sword fighting skills' to fight the zombies he's sure we'll encounter in the tall grass east of Mauville
Duncan has been stealing Hard Stones and berries left and right
Harold is maxed out and letting the others get their "character development"
Leonard, our newest entry is a Magikarp who claims to be a master of elemental magics. We'll just have to wait and see
Shawndinja is being preserved in the Daycare Center
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2021.12.02 03:35 Imaginary-Kale-5283 When/Where/How can we buy tickets to go and watch the LPL tournament?
2021.12.02 03:35 AmbergEvk L2PAD’s Manifesto
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2021.12.02 03:35 ButterscotchMotor480 I feel like Odd get's a pass for problematic behavior where as Ulrich get's put down.
I was thinking about the Episode "Wreck Room" from Season 4 (episode 4). I remember feeling irked and irritated when Odd took Jeremy's portion of breakfast, leaving him without food. This was a very shitty thing to do. Jeremy already sacrifices his sleep and diet to help everyone, and the one time he gets to eat he can't because of Odd. It's treated as humor and he suffers no consequences for it.
Then I think about "The Chips Are Down" from Season 2 (episode 9) where Ulrich get's temporarily kicked out of the group. All because he tried to help Yumi by using the RTTP. Granted what he did was selfish, but to be kicked out for wanting to help someone he cared about was a low blow.
Overall, I think Odd is a funny character and brings a lot of light and humor to the shows dark tone. But I do fine some of his behavior very irritating and how he gets a pass most of the time for his antics. I feel it's very unfair.
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