Boyfriend (17M) of almost 3 years said he lost feelings for me (17F) but still cares about me.

2021.12.07 09:49 0312throwawae Boyfriend (17M) of almost 3 years said he lost feelings for me (17F) but still cares about me.

My boyfriend (17M) and I (17F) have been dating for almost 3 years now. Throughout these 3 years we've become really close friends, made lots of good memories, loved and cared for one another and even talked about the future, especially after high school.
About 5 days ago, he took me out to have cake and after he said he wanted to talk about something serious. He said he 'doesn't feel the same way anymore' and has lost feelings but still really cares about me and doesn't want to see me upset and dwell on him. He said he has had these feelings for a few months now, and has tried to let it be a phase however still does not feel the same way. He told me he had been planning this for a few weeks now, but did not want it to interfere with our studies (quite competitive as we are looking to enter the medical field). To me this breakup was unexpected, I didn't notice any obvious signs he had lost feelings. I asked him if there was anything going on that I could help him work out, and he told me he just realised he prefers being alone.
We have decided to take a break from our relationship until after the new year, to focus on ourselves and reconnect with friends we have slightly neglected. This mostly involves spending time away from each other and no texting, however we do occasionally see each other at school. We have agreed to go on a date after the new year just to see how we are feeling.
My heart feels heavy because I'm scared of losing him. He has become my best friend, has always been there for me and has shown me nothing but love, care and affection. I genuinely miss him and his hugs and kisses so much, and it's taking me so much effort to not reach out and text him. I feel like it's hard to move on, a part of me will always miss and want him.
Is this feeling normal? What happens if after we reconnect he still does not want to continue our relationship? What should I be doing during this 'break'?
Any advice is greatly appreciated, especially if you have been in the same boat before.
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