Did my boyfriend [M29] lie to me [F26] about his STD results?

2021.11.28 01:49 Decent_Formal7945 Did my boyfriend [M29] lie to me [F26] about his STD results?

My boyfriend and I have been in a closed relationship for 9 months now. We met on Tinder and had gotten out of a relationship at around the same time. I had never tried tinder and he was my first date after my long 7year relationship.

When we first had any sexual contact I made sure to ask him multiple times about his sexual health. I asked him specifically if he was clean and he responded with "Yeah, I was tested recently (towards the end of his 1-year relationship) and everything came out negative". He had broken up with his ex about 1.5 months prior to meeting me.

As the relationship progressed and we began to talk more and more about different sexual encounters, and his crazy tinder stories. He has had multiple relationships and it seemed that tinder was the app that he would use to meet girls, so I assumed the stories were stories about him at a younger age or prior to his last relationship. He still claimed that he always used a condom.

Last night, I mentioned to him how I feel strange down there, I once again ask him if he is for sure clean and whether I should get tested (I had been tested right before I met him and hadn't done anything with anyone else). He still tells me he is clean because of his test with his ex before he met me and that he used protection every time he was with someone else. However, I could tell he was nervous, and I specifically ask him, well should I get tested? Have you done anything without a condom? and he says "I used a condom every time I slept with a girl before I met you. I respond to "well what about oral sex?" and he begins to tell me he had 2-3 different girls that gave him head prior to meeting me.

I was shocked and hurt, I told him he lied to me and he said he didn't. He is accusing me of calling him dirty and he is acting as if he is hurt. He won't admit that he omitted important information and is acting like I am the bad guy for accusing him of being dirty. He got offended because I told him he purposely omitted some information to which he says "he just forgot".

I am currently very confused, I feel like he is gaslighting me. I should be the one to feel hurt, he is playing the victim. I feel like he is completely lying to me. I need guidance as to what to do with this situation. I believe that he put me at risk, but I am unsure if I'm exaggerating or if I'm just reacting to him manipulating me.

TL;DR! My boyfriend did not give me full information about his sexual history, which led to me believing I was fully safe and I shouldn't worry about STDs with him. I don't know what to do about the situation.
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2021.11.28 01:49 Constantfox66 As per request I drew some more of the crew😁 Hope you guys like, I spent a lot of time on them.

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2021.11.28 01:49 Ingrown_Toenail1 What would CFP look like if

Week 14 Bama(11-1) beats Georgia(12-0) Baylor(10-2) beats Ok St(11-1) Iowa(10-2) beats Michigan(11-1) Houston(11-1) beats Cincinnati(12-0)
After Conference Championships, you’d have: Georgia (12-1) Michigan (11-2) Alabama (12-1) Cincinnati (12-1) Ok St (11-2) Ohio St (10-2) Baylor (11-2) Iowa (11-2) Houston (12-1) Oklahoma (10-2)
Given this scenario, how would you rank the Top 4 and two outside teams looking in?
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2021.11.28 01:49 Gretch_Hen Madeleine Cookie doodle :)

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2021.11.28 01:49 Imnothighonradiohead Ok so in my dream some dumbo did something in 1957 that resulted in the correct outcome, but the better and obvious solution was to use a scarf. Exactly what was never explained. The internet started to make memes about this. This is the one I made except it was a non-existent picture of Stalin.

Ok so in my dream some dumbo did something in 1957 that resulted in the correct outcome, but the better and obvious solution was to use a scarf. Exactly what was never explained. The internet started to make memes about this. This is the one I made except it was a non-existent picture of Stalin.
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2021.11.28 01:49 DribbyFit I aged 60 years in 35 minutes

[Mental Health Disclaimer: I do not recommend reading this story if you have anxiety, paranoia, or delusions, especially those relating to hallucinogenic drugs. If you have had a bad trip before, this story may be triggering. You are not tripping or hallucinating right now.]
This all started when my friend Jake started experimenting with hallucinogenic drugs. Jake was kind of a weird guy, but I was enamored with him, and so when he told me he was looking into psychedelics, I wanted to know everything about his 'research'. He told me he did a lot of reading online, and he theorized that if he found the perfect combination of drugs, he could create a trip that felt like virtual reality. He wanted to create a fully immersive psychedelic experience.
DMT alone got him pretty close, but he said there was something that was still kind of off about his DMT trips. There was something that always ruined the immersion with DMT. One thing he enjoyed about DMT though was the time dilation. He liked that a 5 minute trip could feel like it was actually hours long.
Well one day, he thought he had figured it out. He realized that, by combining a minuscule amount synthetic LSD (called 25I-NBOMe) and a heroic dose of DMT, he might be able to make the hallucinations more intense and last longer.
There was something so exciting about this idea to me. I had tried a few psychedelics before, but I had never even heard of 25I-NBOMe. From what Jake described, it was like a super powerful version of acid. I had heard about DMT before, and I always wanted to try it, but I didn't know anything about dosage or side effects (and more importantly, had no idea where to buy it).
I volunteered to be Jake's guinea pig. At first he thought it was a bad idea, because I'd never tried DMT before, and because he wouldn't get to experience the effects firsthand. But I argued that, since I don't know anything about the drugs and their effects, I would be a perfect impartial observer. Additionally, he could watch me go through the experience, and witness any behavior I might have during it. He agreed, and thought it might be the more "scientific" way of testing it out, but he also warned me profusely that he had no idea what would happen to me.
It took him about a week to find a good dealer on the dark web, and another week for shipping. The DMT came packaged in a little powdered incense container, and the 25-NBOMe was on blotter paper and was sandwiched between two pieces of cardstock (which were sealed together at the edges with glue) and disguised as a fake business card.
Jake and I were obviously really excited and wanted to experiment with them right away, but he said it would be better if we picked a time when his parents were away for a long time, so there'd be less risk of us getting discovered. Three weeks later, my parents went down to Florida to scout out possible retirement locations (they're in their late fifties; they had me pretty late in life). It was time to test out Jake's theory.
Jake came over, and he said it would be a good idea to reduce the amount of external stimuli in the room, he thought this would make it more 'scientific'. He gave me some noise canceling headphones, and turned the lights off. This was done at 10pm at night (on a school night btw, not sure why we thought that was a good idea) so the room was pretty much pitch black except for a little orange streetlight seeping in through the curtains from outside.
He started out by giving me the 25-NBOMe. A teeny tiny piece of paper I put on my tongue. He wanted to wait until it started to kick-in before he gave me the DMT, because the DMT trip apparently only lasts like max 30 minutes and it kicks in pretty much immediately after you smoke it. Then he handed me what appeared to be a crack pipe, and I smoked a nice bowl of DMT. I have no idea how much it was, but Jake described it, very scientifically, as "a fuckton".
I laid on my bed and closed my eyes. I started to feel incredibly heavy, like I might fall through the bottom of the earth. I started to heat up, then cool down. I started to see colors. The colors had heartbeats, and after a while they started to speak. They weren't speaking english, but I perfectly understood what they were saying. I realized that I was actually thinking multiple things at the same time, like two different narrators in my head. At first this freaked me the fuck out, but after another few minutes I felt really peaceful. Then, the talking colors turned into shapes, and the shapes turned into objects, and the objects turned into an entire universe. I was in another world.
I apologize in advance if this next part sounds slightly incoherent, I'm still trying to gather my thoughts about what I felt.
There is too much to tell about the experience to do it in one post, but the main thing you should know is that the experience was indiscernible from reality. I felt the heat of the sun on my skin, I coughed, I laughed, I skinned my knees. People took a human form but their skin felt different, it reminds me now of silicone.
It was like Earth but just slightly off. People were nicer. There was still some conflict, but most people were reasonable about it. Psychopaths and sociopaths didn't exist, which meant there weren't as many violent crimes. Systemic inequality still present, but was less intense.
I had no memories of my 'real' life. From the beginning to the end of my trip, I was someone else. I was born, I was married, I was widowed, I got sued. There was really cringy portion of my life where I got really into this hobby called 'gherkinyn' which involved training yourself to throw small rocks at the ground hard enough that they would crack open. I also got addicted to a drug called 'skack' which sounds like crack but is NOT similar at all.
One day, I was walking to the grocery store, and I just keeled over. That was it. The trip was over. I slowly came out of it. You know how I said my thought processes split in two? Well the other one came back, and eventually they merged back together. Jake was pacing around the room holding his notebook when I opened my eyes. He looked so relieved. He said that while I was tripping I was breathing so hard it almost sounded like screaming or groaning, and he was going to call 911 in a few minutes if I didn't come out of it. I'm still trying to get my shit back together, but I think I might have been forever altered by this experience. I like who I am now, I like myself a LOT better, but I have no idea how I'm going to hide the fact that I'm suddenly a completely different person from my parents.
I wanted to type this up and share it with you guys because I was hoping someone else has had a similar experience and can help me out. I'm going to have to see my parents in a couple days when they come back from Florida. I'm so worried they're going to figure out that something happened. Please help.
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2021.11.28 01:49 keylimepie879 My Fiance (22M) Randomly Starts Fight With Me (23F)

So basically for the past several months my fiance and I have been getting into a ridiculous amount of avoidable fights. They seem to be over the strangest of subjects but he will usually start them off by disagreeing with me or telling me I'm doing something wrong. At first I would usually get defensive and argue back but I've made a active effort to just let them win the fight or agree to disagree but no matter how I respond they seem equally upset and will extend it out until I leave the room. The strangest part to me is after every time it happens they see me acting indifferently and going about my day after the arguement and they get extremely distraught and start crying and panicking in what looks like mini emotional breakdowns and they start begging me to tell them that everythings going to be okay and that I won't break up with them. After I console them (or attempt to) they seem to go on with their day as if nothing happened and get frustrated when I won't do the same. I tried bringing this up with our couple's counselor but efforts to stop this from happening don't ever seem to work but it leaves me emotionally drained and since it happens multiple times a week it puts a strain on our relationship.
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2021.11.28 01:49 goingtocalifornia__ What’s the difference between a wire transfer and, say, a common debit charge?

They’re presumably both just numbers on a ledger changing; one party being debited and another being credited. What’s the actual, real life difference?
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2021.11.28 01:49 ggamarbold it is possible to update iphone 6 to ios 14 using iphone 6s ios 14 ipsw?

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2021.11.28 01:49 angey-gorl anxiety in regards to self-pleasure LDR (this title sucks, please just ready) {18f 24m}

TLDR: am i wrong for feeling anxious that my boyfriend doesn't want to sext with me as often as before (we almost never do now) and doesn't seem to enjoy my nudes? should i communicate this, or am i just being silly?
I am bisexual and told my boyfriend this a long time ago, back when we first started dating. i said to him that if there are women he finds attractive that he can say so, chances are I will agree.
sometimes i feel a little weird when he mentions that "this girl is hot" after i send him a picture of lingerie that i like, but i do brush these small things off because everyone has feelings and by no means would i tell him he's not allowed to voice that, hell he isn't wrong.
something i have noticed that makes me more anxious though: he is rarely (and by rarely i mean not even once a month) in the mood, meaning he doesn't really want to fool around over text. if i send him pictures of myself, he compliments me and thanks me but says he's just not in the mood.
i obviously respect this, but what makes me anxious is that he uses sites like reddit to find other things to use to pleasure himself, and i feel as though i'm not doing enough for him. this is extremely odd as i am very confident in myself and i know it's normal for him to not use my material all the time. i also know he doesn't love me any less. but for some reason, him telling me he's not in the mood lately and then saying that "even the reddit stuff barely does anything" makes me feel like my material doesn't do anything.
tonight: he asked if i had anything to share and that if i didn't it was no problem at all. i jumped at the chance, hoping he would want us to enjoy together, but after sending him something nice he thanked me and said goodnight followed by our usual i love yous, etc. this then made me feel better in terms of i wasn't worried he wasn't attracted to me, but now i'm feeling anxious that he just doesn't want to enjoy with me anymore, as he never asks if i've enjoyed myself, if i need anything etc. like i ask him every once once in a while.
i am aware everyone has fantasies and that maybe he just wants to enjoy by himself, but this has only started happening the last 2 months. before this we would enjoy together multiple times a week.
am i wrong for feeling anxious about this, and is this something i should communicate or does it seem silly? for the record, im sure if i brought this up to him he would be very understanding, but i also do not want to start something that isn't actually there. i just need some outside perspective
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2021.11.28 01:49 BloxForDays16 HELP! Lug nut problems!

I literally just got a flat tire, but luckily I was still in the parking lot at work. I thought no big deal, I already practiced using my jack after I bought my 1999 Ford Ranger this summer, I'll be fine right? Dead wrong. Turns out one out of the 5 lug nuts on each wheel is this weird headless SOB that I can't get a tire iron around. It's got some kind of recessed star-ish pattern on the inside, and the outside is threaded for some reason? Or at least it looks that way. I didn't catch it when I practiced because I had no reason to assume the lug nuts would be any different than normal, and I already have practice changing tires. I just needed to know how to use my jack.
I don't have any pictures because it was dark and freezing, so I called my dad to pick me up and take me home. But my truck is still stuck in the parking lot, and I still need to figure out how to get that dumb (probably proprietary) lug nut off.
It's not just the one wheel, either. Every. Single. Wheel. Has this weird thing. What is it and why the heck did Ford do this and not even give you a tool to remove it?
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2021.11.28 01:49 jessicawesson found this in my camera roll lol.

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2021.11.28 01:48 MyHoeDespawned Wtf am I supposed to do with sulfur?

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2021.11.28 01:48 Sunflower-Spirals I’m sorry, but Zoya and Obie are so selfish and hurtful, and Julien is a saint.

Julien has handled everything between her ex-boyfriend and sister so well. Couldn’t be me.
Zoya and Obie are so incredibly cruel and selfish, especially Zoya when she keeps getting mad at Julien. Girl, you stole her boyfriend! Please don’t act surprised when she’s having a hard time about that.
This post brought to you by 1.5 bottles of wine.
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2021.11.28 01:48 highflyer001 Recommendation for Vinyl Repair Plz? Thx!

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