My husband elbowed me multiple times on my hip, but I sort of started it.

2021.12.09 07:59 Weird-Beautiful-1990 My husband elbowed me multiple times on my hip, but I sort of started it.

I poked my husband’s butthole (Plz don’t judge and go easy on me), then he snapped and elbowed me on my hip multiple times while we were in bed last night and it hurt.
It started when we were about to go to sleep and I didn’t lock up the fence between the balcony and our bedroom for our cat the way he wanted me to. He was already in a bad mood because of a potential liver-related health issue which we will find out more from the doctor later this week, and our cat keeping acting up at night this week and we have had bad sleeps. Because of his attitude, i said, why don’t you go lock it up yourself? Then he pulled the blanket off me trying to force me to get up but I still refused.
He started to blow up out of proportion and got up himself and swore at me calling me a lazy fuck in a loud voice and said some other bad words. I’m not a person who usually likes to use swearing words but I called him an asshole.
Then he came back to bed and lied down with his back turning to me. At that point our dog who sleeps with us was pretty riled up so he kept jumping up and down on me and nibbling me, which eventually triggered me to poke my husband’s butthole because I was so annoyed at the whole thing.
I guess I poked a little hard. He sat up and elbowed me on my hips for a few times. I started to cry.
A little bit background story is, after we found out that he may have a liver issue, I pointed out that maybe it’s because he drinks a bit too much which he disagrees. So he has been unhappy with me for not showing sympathy but blaming him.
Of course I feel very hurt by him elbowing me and I haven’t spoken to him but I’m also very confused. I read my fair share of other people’s domestic violence stories in the past and now it’s happened to my marriage. Maybe I crossed a line first but his abusive reaction is uncalled for. I don’t know if I should forgive him or leave. And if I chose to leave, can I?
My husband is a sweet person but he is complicated. I think he has his demons due to his childhood experience with his parents’ failed marriage.
Thoughts? Thanks.
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2021.12.09 07:59 KoolKeedsKubbe [JC] Can one receive more than 1 edusave award?

Hi has anyone here received 2 or more edusave awards before, specifically, good progress award and merit bursary in the same year? Is it even possible?
I think the government should allow this to reward people of their achievements but it is also understandable why they dont do it because of monetary constraints and to cater a wider popularity of people receiving such awards.
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2021.12.09 07:59 MemerThoughts In the Harry Potter world, you could probably get a portrait tattooed on your body and bring it to life just like the canvas at Hogwarts

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2021.12.09 07:59 foundfootagefan Compare the Following...

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2021.12.09 07:59 JaspersJazzclub Tortellini Panna Auflauf

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2021.12.09 07:59 TheTerribleMeister Since when did Portal vehicles get Hardware Appearance added? (Battlefield 3 AH-64 APACHE)

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2021.12.09 07:59 Boundery What is the ID of this old progressive trance track?
Cut from old Global DJ Broadcast Episode 2002-11-04 part 2 @ 39:00 (found on, unfortunately I didn't find the titles (checked on cuenation, 1001 tracklist etc)...
Thank you for your help.
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2021.12.09 07:59 shalooom Visiting a gay bar for the first time

Planning to visit a gay bar for the first time, any tips? Im kinda bi curious and checking the waters...
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2021.12.09 07:59 putree At least he's good with colours (gold/silver)

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2021.12.09 07:59 NicoloGaming Can you rate my first level on how it is?

hi im new to this level making thing and I suck at it. So can you rate my level Level id 76405553
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2021.12.09 07:59 Xeon42 [Setup] Inside the Golden Fruit

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2021.12.09 07:59 Mean-Store-3714 Chick-fil-a worker AMA

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2021.12.09 07:59 PanoMano0 Cayo Perico Personal Best (9:20) What’s yours?

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2021.12.09 07:59 parsimoniously It feels like the inmates are running the asylum on Reddit at this point.

I have been on reddit since 2014 but only recently started receiving permanent bans; well over a dozen in the past year or so. The referees are out of control, banning for pretty innocuous comments, and when I try to appeal, the ones that respond sound unhinged and unprincipled. The referees are not enforcing fairly based on the rules of each sub, and it's turning much of this website into a series of garbage echo chambers.
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2021.12.09 07:58 Flyfalk Frage zur Atemkontrolle beim Sport (Joggen)

Guten Morgen, ich hab in letzter Zeit mehr hinterfragt, ob meine Atem-"Technik" gesund oder vielleicht schädigend ist. Durch Sporttraining als Kind als auch Tipps von meinen Bruder habe ich folgende Angewohnheit zum Atmen: Ich habe passend zu meinen Schritten einen FESTEN Atemrhytmus, den ich nicht während des Laufens verändere. Wenn ich das Gefühl hab, das ich mehr Luft brauche, reduziere ich mein Lauftempo, um an diesem Limit zwischen Wohlgefühl der Lunge und hohem Lauftempo zu bleiben. Beim Atmen atme bei warmen Wetter durch Nase ein und Mund aus. Beim kaltem Wetter durch Nase ein und aus. Ziel meines Joggens ist hauptsächlich meine Ausdauer zu erhöhen.
Daher meine Frage: Ist das eine schädigende Technik? Sollte ich mein Tempo konstant halten und stattdessen schneller Luft holen? Oder kann ich das so weitermachen? An sich fühl ich mich nach dem Joggen wohl und wach.
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2021.12.09 07:58 OnceWasThere Can people with mental health conditions be sent to DB?

I messed up. Didn't know that such actions would be so serious. Case transferred to R&D, I guess thats the military police. I never knew the SAF was so brutal.
The thoughts of what'll happen to me, it looms everyday. My parents said they wont allow anything to happen to me. NS is NS, nth more. Words of reassurances from my family. But it doesnt help with my anxiety.
They took my statement already. Everyday I've nightmares. Being grabbed by them. The thoughts keep flashing on my mind.
I can't take a single day in camp, let alone DB. I'm just melting inside. I dont wanna reveal more info. Its just that I wanna talk to someone. MO says just gotta face it. Its life.
Life before NS was just normal, it cause mental health conditions. At home, its just pure serenity. The moment I need to return to camp, it feels like boiler. Idw talk to MO anymore. Went too many times to him. I keep getting worried about it, my parents tell me not to think abt the case.
Now what awaits my fate. Such innocent things blown out of proportion......
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2021.12.09 07:58 Laikanur During the first lockdown, I made this self portrait. It's 2021, but still with the same feel.

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2021.12.09 07:58 Just_Trippinn Ready to fly! Look at Options, FTDs, SI, Utilization, Technical formation, fundamental outlook, what’s there not to love???

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2021.12.09 07:58 Kurner This reddit since a few days

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2021.12.09 07:58 DarkStarStorm For the Magic the Gathering players out there
I just finished this after three years of looking at 98% of all Majora's Mask fanart How confident am I in that 98%? Well, considering I have paid for art that you cannot find anywhere online (thank you Lursland!), I say it with surety.
If there are any pieces that you know about that aren't represented, feel free to link it below.
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2021.12.09 07:58 kyleW_ne Do any of you run FreeBSD or Linux for stuff OpenBSD can't do, if so how safe do you feel?

I really like OpenBSD but it lacks a few creature comforts like working Chrome so Netflix will work or a Wine to run Windows applications (games office suits). FreeBSD and Linux has these things, but recently I've been turned off to FreeBSD because of how they don't enable ASLR by default and how pkg fetches data from the Internet as root, etc. And Linux turns me off for that there seems to be no direction for the project and SystemD is an 800 pound gorilla trying to serve as init.
Do most of you just live without the things OpenBSD can't provide or do your dual boot, if so what is your second favorite OS after OpenBSD and how safe do you feel in it?
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2021.12.09 07:58 No-Discussion-4910 Charging miles

New ID.4 owner here. We’re on our first longer trip and have several charges to get to our destination. Our first charge stop is going great, but at 88% it’s only at 180 miles. (Wouldn’t normally be charging that much more over 80% but we need 200 miles to get to our next stop.) Typically we have well over that when charging at home. Is this normal? Using a EA 150kw charger.
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2021.12.09 07:58 Strange-Beacons Rally Planner With Ties to G.O.P. Is Cooperating in Jan. 6 Inquiry

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2021.12.09 07:58 DumbClerk Older Deathstar Tree topper, new a new hope ornaments. Is there an Adapter for the deathstar to hook into the newer cord? Or do I need to buy the new treetopper?

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