Soon-to-be-ex husband's ex-wife is demanding that I pay his past/current child support.

2021.11.30 21:54 Witty_Koala Soon-to-be-ex husband's ex-wife is demanding that I pay his past/current child support.

I told her no. For the 10 years my husband and I were together, he paid $900 a month in child support to his ex-wife for his daughter with her. When my stbx abandoned me and our two young children, he apparently stopped paying child support to his ex as well. I have filed for child support but who knows when I will get it. His ex wants me to pay his back CS for the month of November and pay for the month of December too. There is no way I can do that without plunging myself deep in the hole. I am barely surviving as it is - if I were to give her $900 out of my $1300 stipend, I would be truly fucked.
She called me an asshole. Called me selfish, accused me of not caring about my step-daughter. Which is so, so untrue. She and her partner have a child and she is currently expecting again and was "really counting on this money to catch up on bills". I wished her luck. But I have less than $5 in my bank account tonight and when my stipend hits in the morning, I have my own bills to pay. I know she and her partner both work and I hate my stbx isn't paying her either but there is nothing I can do. I remember when my oldest was two weeks old, my soon-to-be-ex husband gave her 3 grand to pay her rent because she was several months behind and was about to get evicted. We would always make sure my step-daughter had a practically brand new wardrobe for school each year because her mom would "just forget" to get her new clothes or shoes. When it came to light my stbx was cheating on me with a 19 year old and started drinking again after being 4 years sober, never once did she offer a kind word or "Hey Koala, you got this, you strong ass bitch!" But now she needs me to pay money I literally do not have.
She threatened legal action to "make me pay" which is so infuriating. I have not seen my step-daughter since October and I miss the kiddo, so much, but the custody agreement was between my ex and her and I can't force her to let me or my girls see their older sister. On top of this bullshit and the struggles I'm having daily, I'm dealing with finals next week for the semester. I don't need this. I'm drowning. She knows how bad things are for me, so to pull this is just so uncalled for and feels cruel.
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After a certain amount of classes have been chosen, I want it to trigger last man standing.
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2021.11.30 21:54 subma-fuckin-rine Is kafka the right too for high volume, in sequence, exactly once processing?

Ive been using kafka for a while now doing processing that requires all messages to be in sequence. So ive been using the config "acks=all" and single partition only. It works well 98% of the time, but rarely there are cases where certain network hitches or kafka errors pop up and I've lost my data integrity (either data lost, data added, or out of order) and its difficult to recover. Once this happens the only choice is to rerun if the source topic gets corrupted or a consumer got into a bad state
Im beginning to wonder if kafka is the right tool for this job. it seems to me that a database might be better to ingest all this data and not worry about order or having to be single partition (and single thread), then a select statement could be written easily. the problem is im afraid a DB will be much slower than kafka option.. (i think a nosql db would be my choice). processing around 500-1000 million msg per day. however a DB would be much easier to dedupe and select only what i need for rerun.
anyway, my question is has anyone here been in a similar situation or have any advice, or have any recommended alternatives? I recognize a DB will come with its own problems as well but just asking questions at the moment
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My best guess is honey simple syrup 1:1, then equal parts except and extra oz or two of rose on top. What would you do? Recreating it for a friend.
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