2021.11.28 20:05 Artyom_Valentine My(20M) ex (20F) still wants to hang out with me even though she’s in a relationship with someone else now.
This is going to be a little long, so I apologize and will put the tldr at the top. I’m also doing this on my phone, so I apologize for that as well.
TLDR: I created a monster by not cutting my ex out of my life and now I need help telling her I can’t see her or talk to her again.
5 years ago, I met a girl who turned my life upside down in more ways then you could imagine. She was the first and so far the the only person I have fallen head over heels in love with. And I messed it up. I won’t get into the details but know that after roughly a year and a half together I made a mistake, she made a bigger one, and after a year of trying to fix things, she decided it would be best if we broke up. Unfortunately, there was still time left until we graduated from high school and because of how close we’d been, she wanted to remain friends. Because I thought I could convince her to change her mind, I said yes and things got messy. For the next year we were on and off FWB. It wasn’t until early 2020 that I realized the damage I was doing to her with my selfish inability to let go. Right at the cusp of getting what I had longed for for so long, I realized that she would never truly be happy with me. So, I made myself promise that her happiness would take priority over my own. Despite how much it hurt, I forced myself to distance from her. I stopped seeing her in person and despite how badly I wanted to talk to her or share something with her, I stayed quiet. I really only talked to her if she talked to me. And long story short, it worked. She moved on. But now I have a serious problem.
Recently, she reached out and asked me if I would like to hang out with her as it’s been a long time since we really saw each other or talked. I humored her and said I would think about it, so she started telling me about what she had been thinking. As I have come to understand it, it would just be me and her hanging out together, alone. Now, another long story for another subreddit, but I owe my life to the person my ex is now dating, whether I like to admit it or not. No matter how much I hate them for it, I can not do to them what was done to me. I do not trust myself or my ex. Even though I would love nothing more then to see her again and I can tell myself all I want that nothing would happen, I know it isn’t true. So I need help telling her that I can’t see her again and that it would probably be for the best if we never spoke again either. I don’t want to, but this is the best thing for her and I need to do it.
Because I know people will likely ask me about it or bring it up, I have known she has been dating this person for about a year now. Yes, I know I’m an a-hole and created this monster by continuing to speak to her despite that fact. I know there are no good excuses for why I continued to talk to her either. Her asking to see me was just the wake up call I needed and I’m trying to make up for my mistakes by putting the both of them above myself and righting my wrongs. I’m just not strong enough to do it on my own. That’s why I’m asking for help.
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2021.11.28 20:05 Joesdad65 Well, aside from the Orthodox anyway
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2021.11.28 20:05 Cryoborn Proper amendment to a post I saw yesterday
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2021.11.28 20:05 RaiseExpert7558 JU from r/LinuxMasterRace. All hope for linux subs are list.
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2021.11.28 20:05 SilentCondition Solenopsis molesta queen ant
2021.11.28 20:05 Low-Ad-5278 bae breanna OF discord
2021.11.28 20:05 Negative_Difference4 The truth about the Royals' "deal" with the press | Royal Insight | Telegraph | Camilla Tominey
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2021.11.28 20:05 fartbukkake Need help crafting First message in this girls dm's
We matched on a dating app months ago. She stopped replying. Just recently I noticed in that tinder gold has blurred out a person who has already liked me in order to get me to pay for the service.
Despite the blurry picture, it's the same girl. I looked her up and found her Instagram. What should I say?
We have not matched yet obviously
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2021.11.28 20:05 iam_mariion Bluetooth not ready
Got a 2013 Hyundai Elantra and it says Bluetooth not ready, won’t even give me a chance to connect my phone or anything so can’t say it’s a phone problem. I have no idea how to fix it, anyone had this experience before? Thanks
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2021.11.28 20:05 FewLiterature3547 Regice on me my trainer is 7742 0538 1829
2021.11.28 20:05 genelump Registeel On me adding 10 starting in five 0406 7757 1804
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2021.11.28 20:05 immamopepro New oc! what should I name him? base by starryprinxe on DeviantArt coloring and oc by me
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2021.11.28 20:05 Divicarpe Transfering save file from Flashpoint demo version
I recently (one hour ago) bought Aground on Steam, and would like to transfer my save from demo on it, but I played it via Flashpoint, which use a local server to simulate internet, which mean I can't login to Aground Cloud from it. After searching (and asking on Flashpoint discord), the only thing I found was where HTML5 save data where in Flashpoint. Is there any way for me to transfer my save?
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2021.11.28 20:05 iHASPROS I got this while grinding.....In desert Temple!
2021.11.28 20:05 kerollos1 caption this, wrong answers only
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2021.11.28 20:05 keepgod Why are Kanye and Virgil on this list of defendants for the G Maxwell sex trafficking trial?
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2021.11.28 20:05 Madbrad200 006: NOVEMBER 2021 (W/ BASTET & KNEEO)
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2021.11.28 20:05 LE22081988 The German Band Santiano with there new Video "Wenn die Kälte kommt" (When the cold is coming)- At first I tought that was a Frostpunk Fan Project
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2021.11.28 20:05 peaq_tv The power of Hoffman and his Tac14. (Build & Strategy Explained)
The Deck This is built around doing as much stumble dmg as possible, which is insanely helpful vs all the Tallboy variants as well as the Exploder variants. This will utilize a hipfire Tac14, which is the best stumble gun in the game within its range. The Tac14 also has insane scaling with each rarity level, so weapon scav is a must here.
The Reason we pick Hoffman for this is because he comes with a Tac14, and his extra offensive slot makes him perfect for carrying flashbangs for even more CC. His 1911 is also quite effective vs common, they usually only take 1-2 shots to kill. Another added bonus is that Hoffman is highly ammo efficient with these weapons.
2021.11.28 20:05 Remy_the_Demi Is femboy a gender or an identity?
If you asked me I’d say there are only two genders. Male and female. You can have another term for deciding but that’s really it. However recently I’ve had conversations with people about “non-binary” and “gender fluid”.
To me non-binary seems counter productive because it’s not confiding to “gender norms” But I think that’s wrong because it acknowledges that there is a gender norm when we were meant to be dismantling that idea.
Gender guild just seems like a mood. Sometime I wanna be feminine, sometimes I want to be masculine but I don’t give it a name. It’s just a mood. Idk
I acknowledge that I might be wrong in this argument. May people consider these real things. Yet I feel like making femboy a gender is too far. It’s still male, just a feminine one. Idk. I want to get peoples opinions on this and find out where femboys in general stand in this conversation.
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2021.11.28 20:05 bot_painani La democracia como la ciencia rechaza las verdades absolutas: Lorenzo Córdova
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2021.11.28 20:05 throwaway9998886664 Looking for an episode?
Truly not sure if this is from review revue, but I can hear this super clearly in geoff’s voice - was there an episode where he said “i’m making!!!” like...as in going to the bathroom but in the scene he was playing like a surprised character or something.
I have no other context lol please help I have no idea where else I could be remembering this from
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2021.11.28 20:05 6mm94 Checking bevel convexity with a laser pointer
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2021.11.28 20:05 0zone01379 How to make custom clips?
I have tons of duplicate squishville and I think it would be so cute to turn them into clips! I've seen people do it but I have no idea how. I've found the clips online but I'm not sure how to attach them to the squishville. I have zero sewing knowledge so if anyone has any tips I would appreciate it!!
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2021.11.28 20:05 Thebaxxxx I just played my last game of age of empires 4
My Xbox subscription is expiring and I'm not renewing it. I'm thankful i got to play this game for $1.
I don't mean to sound overly pessimistic but i do not beleive that the well known exploits will be fixed this year. In fact, it might be closer to February/March. It's very clear to me that a large portion of the work done on this game was contracted and possibly even outsourced. If there were team of real geeks working on this, the bugs we've seen would be fixed within hours, not months.
Aside from that, i'd like to point out the degradation of match quality. I find it totally unacceptable that in 2021 i cannot filter out games based on region. This is something I dealt with long enough in other competitive games (Where it was eventually fixed). I shouldn't have to deal with a 600ms delay to unit commands because I've been given an overseas opponent. This is also starting to cause frequent desync in team games. This will most definitely get worse and exploited as time goes on.
There are glaring balance issues which are certainly to be expected. But these issues are further amped by all these other problems, which are stacking up way too fast. The game feels more like a beta at this point.
I do not have faith in the upcoming patches, because even the small, seemingly inconsequential patch we had a couple weeks ago had totally destroyed our ability to watch replays. Just completely broke something unrelated to what the patch was for.
I have a feeling this will be a very, very rocky road for relic. See yall in a couple years. I've got other games to tend to.
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