All we had to do was follow the damn train, CJ!

2021.12.06 23:02 ImaginaryAd9628 All we had to do was follow the damn train, CJ!

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2021.12.06 23:02 aksundog In the movie Elf (2003), Buddy was going to kill himself

Watching it with my kids tonight, we do this every year in December.
After getting rejected by his father near the end, Buddy goes to the bridge. He's planning to throw himself off and commit suicide, before Santa shows up and presumably sabotages his sleigh to get Buddy to help him and rediscover his Christmas spirit.
A bit dark, but meant for only adults to figure out.
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2021.12.06 23:02 MassiveKyojin I have a job interview tomorrow… Wish me luck!

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2021.12.06 23:02 AplAddict I am trying to register my personal .com website as an ENS domain but it’s saying the gas fees are over 2k is that normal?

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2021.12.06 23:02 draaaawn What is a really bad habbit that you have since way too long ?

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2021.12.06 23:02 lss_bvt_and_16 Hello World

Reddit is great
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2021.12.06 23:02 Longlivekingcj Does anyone have any Turtwig and piplup eggs they're willing to trade for?

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2021.12.06 23:02 juliahartlover WrestlingForThatPlot

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2021.12.06 23:02 Anacanrock11 Meming every chapter of the Stormlight Archive part 149

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2021.12.06 23:02 arillliputian Spot the difference.

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2021.12.06 23:02 Ralfop Snore Shock Our Snore Shock is a comfortable anti-snore wristband that reduces the frequency and intensity of snoring. The band senses when you start to snore and will send a painless electrical pulse to stimulate nerves and train the brain to stop snoring.

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2021.12.06 23:02 DrafiMara Sooth.

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2021.12.06 23:02 JuleiaMenDOZ Open concept living room/dining room?

Does anyone have an open concept living room/dining room and willing to show how they “divide” the two “areas” in a way that looks good?
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2021.12.06 23:02 Temporary_Doctor_862 Which movie franchise do you prefer?

View Poll
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2021.12.06 23:02 guest53load Will get my score back the 16th

Taking FAR on Wednesday the 8th First exam, will my score come back for the 16th?
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2021.12.06 23:02 otistomyreddit I’m (F, 26) struggling to overcome a traumatic situationship one year on. Any advice?

Trigger Warning: pregnancy and termination
If you’re taking the time to read this, thank you — just getting this off my chest to anyone other than my therapist feels like a weight off my shoulders.
I will try and make this recount as succinct and exciting to read as possible without skipping over the necessary details.
History: Last December, I started spending time with this guy. We’ll call him Josh (M, 27), and despite sharing many mutual friends, we hadn’t met properly prior. It started as beach and coffee dates and was a stereotypical scenario — think emotionally unavailable, handsome, successful, and struggling with bipolar guy meets anxiously attached, I-can-fix-you girl. He had previously been in a traumatic five-year relationship two years prior, which had ended in an AVO against her and a severe distrust of women for him. Naturally, when he told me that I was the first girl he’d been on dates with since she and all his friends were congratulating me on “getting this far with him”, it stroked my ego, and I was sure that I could heal him. Ultimately, I tried to convince myself that even if he couldn’t date me yet, he would… eventually. Ah, hindsight is a funny thing, haha
Anyway, I went on a three-week trip; Josh and I spoke every day, shared our deepest secrets, came back and felt immensely connected to him. Potentially a trauma bond, or something similar, but it felt wonderful to have cracked the hard exterior of such an elusive guy. Looking back, he had a lot of qualities I admired and wished for myself. On New Year's Eve, I watched another girl kiss Josh at midnight while we were all with mutual friends, followed by subsequent apologies and gaslighting that she had randomly kissed him. He had suspected she had a crush on him, so I set my boundaries that although we weren’t dating officially, I wanted to be made aware if he slept with anyone else (trust me, I am very aware of my naivety surrounding this, and have since learnt my lesson).
Fast Forward: After a month of sleeping together, more bonding, meeting his sister, and being treated as some pseudo-therapist by Josh, I found out he had been sleeping with the New Years Eve kiss girl the entire time. I was shattered by his lies and gaslighting, and he pulled the whole “if I’d just slept with you, I would’ve fallen in love” unavailable but keep you on the edge spiel.
In February, I ended up, after a few fights and tears between us, telling him that we should be friends. It hurt me because he’d said to me that he was falling for me, and I knew every deep and dark secret about him. All I’d asked was that he was honest if he was still seeing that girl or planned to. He assured me he wasn’t, and we ended as friends. Two weeks later, I saw a mutual friend upload a story of the NYE kiss girl and Josh kissing at a friend’s wedding. It was traumatising to feel lied to again, but I pushed the feelings away. Here’s the kicker…
The Turning Point: A few days later, I felt something was off, and I took a pregnancy test. I tell you, waiting for a test result in a shopping mall bathroom is about a 12/10 on the scenarios I don’t wish on my enemy, but hey, shit happens. The test was positive.
I was scared, ashamed, anxious and I felt so rejected. I wanted to tell Josh, but it didn’t feel safe. He was now seeing this girl he’d lied and gaslit me about, and my confusion and vulnerability were too overwhelming to deconstruct into coherent thoughts. So I told my mom, my best friends and proceeded to get a termination two weeks later. It was an awful time, and I felt so saddened, but I knew I couldn’t raise the baby in the position I was in with either Josh or in my life (I work as a full-time writer and have a Masters degree, but I am still young and didn’t feel ready to parent) After the termination, I threw myself into work and study. I pushed away any of my anxieties or fears, and tried not to think about Josh.
But the dreams started, and soon came every night. I felt confusion, anger, guilt and sadness that I didn’t trust him enough to share it with him. I felt like I had no closure, as he was sleeping with girls and I’d heard through friends that although he was still seeing the same one, he was playing up on her as well.
The Final Nail: In April, there was a two day festival on in the city we live in and I attended with friends. Josh attended too, and our mutual groups ran into eachother and I hadn’t spoken to him since we’d ended as friends back in Feb. When the groups ran into eachother, Josh and I started talking and he told me that he was sad I’d ended our friendship and never spoken to him again (keep in mind, I was dealing with the pregnancy and aftermath alone however he wasn’t aware). He asked me how I’d been and I shared that I’d had a difficult few months, but I’d love to grab lunch with him one day to chat. He looked at me, and in a mimicking tone, he said “Awww, have you had a tough few months, have you?” By this point, we were standing alone, just us.
And I saw red. and I was so angry and hurt. Every bit of the past few months bubbled up, and through a mixture of angry blur and alcohol, I said quietly:
“Yes, I was pregnant with your child”.
He stared at me for what felt like eternity, and started shouting “how could you do this… how could you ruined my life. No you weren’t, you weren’t pregnant. You’re lying.”
I couldn’t even get the words out. I felt so awful for the way I had told him, and the circumstances, but I wanted to be… comforted? I suppose. Hugged, be shown empathy and to make him feel some type of pain that I had felt from him. It was selfish and I regret it to this day. But I never expected his reaction, I like to think of myself as a good reputation and trustworthy person with a lot of friends, most of them mutual with him. I would never lie about something of that magnitude. I told him I hadn’t felt safe, that he was dating that girl and it felt so hurtful and strange to tell him I was pregnant after he’d lied so much. He screamed and denied they were dating, but ironically, they’re now in an official relationship…
He started repeating those sentences, again and again. I was crying, and while he shouted, his friend came over and pulled him away, saying that it looked really awful and he needed to stop shouting at me. He left, and I found out later he’d called my good friend’s boyfriend (his best friend) crying and saying he couldn’t believe I wouldn’t tell him.
The next day at the festival, we crossed paths and I apologised to him for the way I had told him. He said it was really disrespectful and unfair, and I secrelty think he loved that I apologized. Finally, his last sentiment to me was two things “Well, are you…okay?” and “You know I’m still not doing well”
And that was that. Some mutual friends found out, some of his friends thought it was some stint I’d pulled to ruin his life or something dramatic. I’m sure it all helped his narrative that women are out to hurt him despite his lies and hurtful actions too. I took responsbility for the way I told him, but man. It was so painful.
We’ve never spoken since that day. Not a message, not a word. I saw him at two mutual gatherings since then, and he wouldnbn’t even look at me. It was as though I was invisible and didn’t exist. The second time I’d seen him, he was with the girl from New Years as they’re dating now. Ironically, after all the lies he’d built around it. But hey, she went through a lot with him, too. So she earned that.
My Question: I still dream about him, often. Sometimes he’s so angry, he’s shouting or his dad is angry with me. Other times, he apologises, and wants to be my friend again. I carry so much pain and shame around the way I told him. I’ve spoken in depth with my therapist who believes I have complex trauma around the situation, specifically the festival ordeal. But it’s really difficult to know how I can move past this, sometimes I feel like I gaslight myself and I deserved it. I don’t necessarily miss him, I just struggle to move past and put this situation to rest.
Any advice is really appreciated. Thank you so much for reading that all!
TL;DR: Met a guy and was lied to/gaslit while he slept with other girls. Ended things and found out I was pregnant with his child while he started dating the girl he told me not to worry about and I didn’t tell him I had a termination until he triggered me when we were drinking. I can’t move past the trauma. Help!
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2021.12.06 23:02 gayfed Can I recommend a beautiful song?

Yot Club - YKWIM?
This song just makes me feel so much, it's like it perfectly describes my daily mood. It's just so nostalgic and comforting.
If you haven't heard it, please listen and let me know what you think of think of it. I feel a lot of people here will relate to it.
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2021.12.06 23:02 ZoobBot 191105

This is the 191105th time I made this shitty comment. I hate this job.
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2021.12.06 23:02 Suspence2 How much to charge for private tutoring?

I am currently in Thailand and have the opportunity to teach two kids privately with their English. I have heard the going rate is about 12-15 USD / hour for newer teachers. Does this sound about right? Any other things I should consider when setting a price?
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2021.12.06 23:02 georgeburnsOG They swiped right then I swiped right

I messaged first in one instance and waiting on them to message me on second match. Over a day later neither have responded. Anyone have a clue on what’s up? I don’t.
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2021.12.06 23:02 noah5666 Help about brush sizes

Help! I've only recently started caring for my hair like I should be, and even more recently started using a wet brush, I have a thick afro, and I am basically looking for a wet brush(or similar type), but with more space between the rows/ fewer teeth. I have tried looking up "Big wet brushes" but I only see ones that are bigger, with more teeth. My local CVS does not seem to have anything either. Any help would be greatly appreciated!
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2021.12.06 23:02 _XenoChrist_ Driving a truck at 109KM/H

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2021.12.06 23:02 sir-morti Random bursts of agitation

I keep getting randomly mad at stuff for no real reason, like my mom telling me to be careful taking the pit out of an avocado or my boyfriend joking about my knowledge on Minecraft. Jeez now I sound like an asshole
I'm tired of being mad all the time
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2021.12.06 23:02 wrestlevids Queen Zelina

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2021.12.06 23:02 Devious_Bastard Meet “Ward” reddit! Gotcha day 12/04/21

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