2021.11.28 07:38 bullseyethewomprat “Our True Love..”
Falling In Love the 1st Time: The Love that Looks Right
It’s been said that we really only fall in love with three people in our lifetime. Yet, it’s also believed that we need each of these loves for a different reason. Often our first is when we are young, in high school even. It’s the idealistic love—the one that seems like the fairy tales we read as children. This is the love that appeals to what we should be doing for society’s sake—and probably our families. We enter into it with the belief that this will be our only love and it doesn’t matter if it doesn’t feel quite right, or if we find ourselves having to swallow down our personal truths to make it work because deep down we believe that this is what love is supposed to be. Because in this type of love, how others view us is more important than how we actually feel. It’s a love that looks right.
Falling In Love the 2nd Time: The Hard Love
The second is supposed to be our hard love—the one that teaches us lessons about who we are and how we often want or need to be loved. This is the kind of love that hurts, whether through lies, pain or manipulation. We think we are making different choices than our first, but in reality we are still making choices out of the need to learn lessons—but we hang on. Our second love can become a cycle, oftentimes one we keep repeating because we think that somehow the ending will be different than before. Yet, each time we try, it somehow ends worse than before. Sometimes it’s unhealthy, unbalanced or narcissistic even. There may be emotional, mental or even physical abuse or manipulation—most likely there will be high levels of drama. This is exactly what keeps us addicted to this storyline, because it’s the emotional roller coaster of extreme highs and lows and like a junkie trying to get a fix, we stick through the lows with the expectation of the high. With this kind of love, trying to make it work becomes more important than whether it actually should. It’s the love that we wished was right.
Falling In Love the 3rd Time: The Love that Lasts
And the third is the love we never see coming. The one that usually looks all wrong for us and that destroys any lingering ideals we clung to about what love is supposed to be. This is the love that comes so easy it doesn’t seem possible. It’s the kind where the connection can’t be explained and knocks us off our feet because we never planned for it. This is the love where we come together with someone and it just fits—there aren’t any ideal expectations about how each person should be acting, nor is there pressure to become someone other than we are. We are just simply accepted for who we are already—and it shakes to our core. It isn’t what we envisioned our love would look like, nor does it abide by the rules that we had hoped to play it safe by. But still it shatters our preconceived notions and shows us that love doesn’t have to be how we thought in order to be true. This is the love that keeps knocking on our door regardless of how long it takes us to answer. It’s the love that just feels right. Maybe we don’t all experience these loves in this lifetime, but perhaps that’s just because we aren’t ready to. Maybe the reality is we need to truly learn what love isn’t before we can grasp what it is. Possibly we need a whole lifetime to learn each lesson, or maybe, if we’re lucky, it only takes a few years. Perhaps it’s not about if we are ever ready for love, but if love is ready for us. And then there may be those people who fall in love once and find it passionately lasts until their last breath. Those faded and worn pictures of our grandparents who seemed just as in love as they walked hand-in-hand at age 80 as they did in their wedding picture—the kind that leaves us wondering if we really know how to love at all. Someone once told me they are the lucky ones, and perhaps they are. But I kinda think that those who make it to their third love are really the lucky ones. They are the ones who are tired of having to try and whose broken hearts lay beating in front of them wondering if there is just something inherently wrong with how they love. But there’s not; it’s just a matter of if their partner loves in the same way they do or not. Just because it has never worked out before doesn’t mean that it won’t work out now. What it really comes down to is if we are limited by how we love, or instead love without limits. We can all choose to stay with our first love, the one that looks good and will make everyone else happy. We can choose to stay with our second under the belief that if we don’t have to fight for it, then it’s not worth having—or we can make the choice to believe in the third love. The one that feels like home without any rationale; the love that isn’t like a storm—but rather the quiet peace of the night after. And maybe there’s something special about our first love, and something heartbreakingly unique about our second…but there’s also just something pretty amazing about our third. The one we never see coming. The one that actually lasts. The one that shows us why it never worked out before. And it’s that possibility that makes trying again always worthwhile, because the truth is you never know when you’ll stumble into love.
“You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.” ~ Unknown
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2021.11.28 07:38 Bean_man628 Bruv this event has jojo reference
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2021.11.28 07:38 bouafirbadr hello do you know when withdrawal of casper will work again in Mexc ?
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2021.11.28 07:38 SGScoutAU Sometime roblox player just thinks different
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2021.11.28 07:38 FaviFake Seriously, Microsoft? I uninstalled it for a reason
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2021.11.28 07:38 Koranoa ACH
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2021.11.28 07:38 Kage-The-Echidna Is there a timer/reminder plugin
2021.11.28 07:38 Jamzooki [FH5] Has anyone managed to get manual gears set up on controller?
2021.11.28 07:38 Icke_777 Ertugrul no Guinness como serie mais assistida da história. Faz sucesso entre homens jovens conservadores da europa, enquanto aumentam entre eles as conversões ao islam. Acho que estão querendo ter filhos com conservadoras. Nacional/global socialismos não conseguem eliminar as tradições Abraâmicas.
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2021.11.28 07:38 engineer-engifar R5 5600H & RTX3050 vs i511400H & RTX3050Ti
I'm pending between two Dell G15 Gaming-Laptops. Laptop 1 got an R5 5600H with RTX3050 GPU (996$), Laptop 2 has an i5-11400H with RTX3050Ti (1097$). Both have 16GB RAM (3200MHz). As far as i could see some Benchmarks, the R5 is slightly better than the i5 while the 3050 is (slightly) worse than the 3050Ti. The probable Usage will be mainly office work but also some Gaming but no "AAA"-Games. Any recommendations, which constellation is more likely to prefer?
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2021.11.28 07:38 spooki_boogey Anyone else struggling with the controller mapping?
I don't use Anna or Forza Link and this is the first time in Forza I've just completely turned off the radio (Other than the Porter track everything isn't to my taste). However Forza won't let you save a controller preset unless you select a binding for Anna, Link, the Map (which is already two buttons away) and the radio even if you have all of them disabled. So that leaves 4 buttons on your controller that cannot be used.
You can switch Anna to Telemetry but now I cannot map my convertible button because there are literally not enough buttons on my controller.
I don't know if I'm the only one struggling with this but this is the first time in all my years of playing games where I've seen devs not account for enough buttons on a controller and it's really frustrating.
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2021.11.28 07:38 hellokitty2469 WKB Kobe 6 Italian Camo on GMK’s site
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2021.11.28 07:38 IMGAEP essence reaver?
Why isnt this bought more on assassin reksai? I build it on rengar all the time in fact its part of the meta build and even with losing the mana passive the 40% bonus AD being added to your combo is just too good to pass up
Seeing as how reksai has a very similar all-in to rengar and can proc it several times in a combo as well as apply the crit on her Q it doesn't seem out of place yet nobody builds it
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2021.11.28 07:38 wldmr Wie heißt der passiv aggressive Besserwisser des kleinen gallischen Dorfes, der immer andere unterbricht, und sich dann aber nicht traut, seine Meinung zu sagen?
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2021.11.28 07:38 fitzbro AoE4 - Is Double Mosque Better than Single Mosque? (Szalami vs Hut)
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2021.11.28 07:38 Nohan07 Le ministre des Outre-mer Sébastien Lecornu en route pour la Guadeloupe et la Martinique - Outre-mer la 1ère
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2021.11.28 07:38 Infamous_Ad_6771 How to see hidden files on Windows Terminal ?
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