How to deal with an emotionally unintelligent partner when you are VERY emotional?

2021.12.05 16:50 umamixmami How to deal with an emotionally unintelligent partner when you are VERY emotional?

25/F here. I have been in multiple serious relationships - my longest one being 4 years. That was almost 2 years ago and since then I haven’t had anything long term or too serious. My relationships seem to be lasting on average about 3 months. Everything is great in the beginning but I always end up breaking up with them because I feel like something is missing. I suffer from depression and although it’s very high functioning, sometime I relapse. When I am experiencing a depressive episode, I grow distant and quiet so to prevent me from taking my emotions out on them. And I am communicative about when I feel sad or anxious. But they seem to lack the emotional intelligence to be there for me the way I need them to be. Yes, I know your partner isn’t going to make you happy or fix you. But I want to be with someone who can make me feel safe when I feel sad or anxious. Someone who asks questions and isn’t scared to see the darker side of me. I know people can’t read my mind - but i feel like there’s a difference between someone who just speaks your language and someone who really doesn’t know how to deal with you. What do I do in a situation like this? It is a reoccurring hiccup in my relationships as I get older. I want to know how to communicate my needs but I am turned off slightly by the idea of teaching a man how to gain emotional intelligence. I’m just at a loss of what to do. Any advice or tips or brutal honestly helps. Thank you.
TL;DR: How do you communicate to your partner that they aren’t fulfilling your emotional needs as someone with depression? I know it isn’t their job to make me happy or fix me. But there really is something that feels so safe when someone speaks your own language and knows what to say or do. Do you leave them because it’s not your job to teach them empathy? Or do you stay and communicate?
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2021.12.05 16:50 Velojacks [Recruiting] TheVengeance | Th9+ | Clan level 1 | Social/War |

TheVengeance (#2QLUG2UPY) is looking for active players with experience to bring this new clan to life!
We would love to find some people of any age, who have an urge or strange desire to take out their daily frustration and anger through clash of clans. School gotcha down? Wife (or husband we don't discriminate) kicked you out of the house? In-laws driving you nuts? TheVengeance is the perfect place to unwind.

We looking for:
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- Ok with being in Discord to help with communication
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2021.12.05 16:50 squigeypops Is Liverpool a disability friendly city?

I asked about this in AskUK because I want to move for uni. I'm in the Dublin area and Dublin is honestly terrible for accessibility so I'm looking for something better.
My specific points of concern are Tourette's, sensory processing disorder (which my psychologist and school believe is actually autism), PTSD symptoms & dissociation, pes planus (which is something way worse but yay HSE) and fatigue induced by PCOS.
As such, I want to ask, are there neon/vastly different coloured/bright lights outside of Christmas (I anticipate it will be bright during xmas no matter how friendly the city/town), and are there flashing lights in general? Are there rivers/canals in Liverpool and if so, are the bridges opaque (eg made of cement) or transparent?
Is Liverpool flat or hilly? Are streets cobbled or smooth/tiled, and if cobbled are there alternative routes? How is the public transport system? Can I rely on trams/trains? Do the buses have more than one step at the entrance? Are particular areas very loud or is it quiet outside of rush hour?
Is it navigable with a service dog? Do people err on the side of leaving service dogs alone? Do buildings have (steep) steps at the entrance, and if so, are there ramps available?
Thanks in advance for any responses.
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2021.12.05 16:50 gooberdooger Post MOASS Philantropy

Not sure if this has been covered yet, but it seems appropriate considering the market and everything else.
First off my plan MOASS is to keep my mouth shut for about a year where I can. I suspect people will be displeased with people who made money while everyone else lost everything and I don't plan on broadcasting how I made money.
Second, I plan to hire a fiduciary CPA to help make sure my taxes are covered.
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You can "gift" an individual up to $16K a year to a life time cap of $1M without having to pay taxes on that gift.
It is also possible to pay off mortgages anonymously (in case you are trying to keep low key).

These are just a couple of things I've looked into that I thought all apes should know. Anyone else have any insight to philanthropic endeavors? Or things to consider?
After market collapse there will be a lot of people caught in the crossfire, not knowing what happened. Let the guilty live with there mistakes but look out for those bystanders.
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2021.12.05 16:50 The_Good_Craig As a tavern owner, your goal is to give comfort to travelers, give them quests, offer performances, all of the mandatory needs stated in tavern creed. On a slow day, a dragon comes about, but there is something off. The dragon comes with spectacles and in draconian it asks,”May I join tavern guild?”

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2021.12.05 16:50 Wooden-Alternative46 Watch People Die Inside - Episode #20 - Laugh Daily Meme

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2021.12.05 16:50 virtualaddiction Dead by Daylight codes which can be redeemed in in-game store. Enjoy!

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2021.12.05 16:50 Careless_Possible_3 Wanna Buy Gaming PC . Thank you.

Hello everyone, hope you are all well and healthy and Merry Christmas. This is the first time I am writing on reddit and a new user in general. I come from Cyprus and I am looking to buy a gaming computer in a decent price, New is always better than the old one, but something that can keep me for at least 5 years in a very good shape(work, gaming, etc...) . Maybe some information that I would need to know and some suggestions to what it's actually good and what I should be looking for it will be highly appreciated <3. If anyone have a good deal for me that would be nice as well. Some websites that I can look through that can deliveship/buy to/in Cyprus asap. Thank you in advance everyone and I wish to every one to have a healthy and joyful life. Live Love Laugh :). Better days are coming =D.
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2021.12.05 16:50 TuPersonaAyudadora Una chica liga con mi amigo y conmigo a la vez.

Hay una chica que está ligando con un amigo y conmigo.
Yo soy el 2º plato (al que menos le habla) y mi amigo el 1º, la cosa es que mi amigo la bloqueó y se fue a mí a lloriquear y ahora no para de hablarme.
Al principio solo me tiraba a mí, hasta que encontré una chica que realmente amé y sigo amando, y salgo con ella.
1 mes después de eso le empezó a ligar a mi mejor amigo, pero no se porqué me sigue ligando a mí.
La verdad me sienta algo mal ser la 2ª oportunidad, no me gusta serlo, pero no me importa tanto porque ya tengo pareja y quiero a esta última.
Siento que debería de pasar de ella para siempre. ¿Que hago?
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2021.12.05 16:50 ImportanceSilver3251 Corinthians 0-[1] Gremio | 39' Diego Souza

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2021.12.05 16:50 DontRideMyNick $400 CAD SEALED PS Vita PCH1001 with sealed games and memory cards

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2021.12.05 16:50 NightmareChameleon NOOT once again proves their organ sculpting capabilities by making art entirely out of viscera.

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2021.12.05 16:50 TheElectriking What are your favorite savory recipes that include apples?

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