2021.11.29 20:54 WhitePolarBear98 How hard is RAGE ultra nightmare difficulty?
2021.11.29 20:54 Dynavap-DynaVerse is this a good price? i'm not trying to get ripped off. If anyone uses gaia and has a nutrient schedule id love some advice
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2021.11.29 20:54 Huracan360 A comment I posted about GTA 6
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2021.11.29 20:54 NutmegOnEverything It's national tuxedo cat day, this is smudge
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2021.11.29 20:54 AdventurousNail3853 Looking for a ber rune. Ps5
2021.11.29 20:54 OldAccountsGotBanned No more shitty trunk lighting!
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2021.11.29 20:54 Yeetm3ister911 Terrakion 1506 8694 3404
2021.11.29 20:54 Rsdq Am I shadow banned
2021.11.29 20:54 watan592 التميمي: اقتحام هرتسوغ للحرم الابراهيمي تحد خطير للقرارات الدولية
2021.11.29 20:54 Pokemon0099 New pokemon clay sculptures me and my little brother made.
2021.11.29 20:54 razberries_on_mars @sthelens: Print and complete the form and return it to City Hall, Attn: Kathy Payne, 265 Strand Street, St. Helens, OR 97051. If you have any questions or would like an application mailed/emailed to you, please contact Kathy Payne, City Recorder at email@example.com
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2021.11.29 20:54 ErikTheDread My brand new Vivobook 14 won't detect headphone (has 3.5 mm jack)
I got a brand new Vivobook 14 (X413) and wanted to use my headphones with it. It has a 3.5 mm jack, so I figured any would do. Apparently not. Turns out the laptop won't detect the heaphones and instead directs all sound to the speakers. Anyone else have this issue and if so, does it persist with various headphones? Any brands or types that seem to work better?
My Vivobook 14 has an i7 CPU in case that matters.
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2021.11.29 20:54 Faulksie We got out main character guys! What other characters could be in the cast?
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2021.11.29 20:54 doslicious Winter troubles: art by me
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2021.11.29 20:54 Estinyday Stimulant medication for ADHD
36 f no other health issues Thank you for taking the time to entertain my question.
I'm newly diagnosed and early on meds and I have no idea what to be watching for. I have been journalling my days since starting 3 weeks ago and of those 21 days, 3 of them have ended with me feeling self-actualized (productive, interested, somewhat able to organize and prioritize). This isn't far from my baseline normal of maybe one decent day a week that I feel self-propelled. The first day, I felt a subtle sense of calm for about 4 hours but even that seemed like me just trying really hard to feel something that wasn't there?
Strangely the best thing since starting meds is I have been having virtually no ectopic heartbeats or rhythms/palpitations, physical symptoms of anxiety, which is something I've struggled with most days for years (PVCs, hypotension, NSVT). It's been amazing and I don't understand it but am glad for it.
Otherwise, I'm still driving past my turn, forgetting things, losing things, feeling starved of novelty and seeking instant gratification instead of task completion, despite wanting to and trying to use my CBT strategies.
Is it more likely that 20mg biphentin is too low, or that I should try a different class of medication? My next appt with my psych isn't until feb, but I've put in a request to have him call if he can make time so I can discuss a potential change. Even if he can find time to call, I am sure it will be short as he is very busy, and I just don't want to waste his time rambling about the trivialities of my experience, I want to know if what I have experienced so far is pretty standard or if there is an obvious indication for a med increase or change?
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2021.11.29 20:54 ImaginaryWatch4 What is something everyone pretends to hate but secretly loves?
2021.11.29 20:54 Too_Old_For_This10 Need advice, I'm way too old for this stuff
I'm female, 45. Divorced from a gender fluid now-friend. Living with a man I love who I think loves me, whatever that means. Small dog, 2 cats. Just a few close friends. I don't talk to my mom, and I don't know how to start. I kinda don't want to, but at the same time I miss her. I'm trying to work through that and hoped that Reddit might help, as it has helped for so many life issues in the past.
So my mom told my older brother and me when we were kids that my dad was abusive, a drug user, untrustworthy with my older brother who had asthma and severe peanut/nut allergies. She supposedly left him because of it, and cut off contact to protect us. We never sought to have a relationship with him or his family because we felt it would be both dangerous and unloyal. We all lived with my grandparents. My mom went back to school, became a lawyer, we moved out the 3 of us when I was in 9th grade, my brother in 11th. I use the term older brother but he was my only brother for most of my life, I didn't know I had others though I suspected there were other siblings because my mom once told me my dad showed up at her work with three kids in tow and asked for money.
My brother died of an asthma attack when I was 17, he was 19. My mom and I had seemed very close before that, but got VERY close after. Did a lot of things together. I was probably co-dependant with her, and she had a very permissive parenting style. But I got good grades, never partied (never wanted to), I was an introvert and had a plan for life (vet school). I graduated high school and went to college, did well, mom paid for it (I had a full ride to a state school, but she wanted me closer so agreed to pay the tuition on the Christian college she had also attended that was closer to our house). I'm no longer Christian. My mom always seemed happy-ish, we seemed like a happy family, she was often dating but never married until I moved to another state for grad school. I felt mostly close to my grandparents, we seemed to love each other. And to my mom's sister, my aunt. Anyway, my mom started dating this guy who had money when I was graduating college, I even met his late wife before she died because they all knew each other because they were on the same charitable organizations board, with the guy running the state org as the CEO. Anyway, she died, my mom married the dude within 2 years, I didn't like him but was happy my mom was happy and would be taken care of. I didn't like him because he was cold, not nice, rude sometimes to my family, but nothing major. Just....didn't get along but never fought or had words. I don't think he ever asked me any personal questions, never showed any interest in getting to know me, always made sure the attention was on him. But nothing super pathological really, just seemed a bit of a narcissist. I've heard of worse. I think he just wanted to pretend I wasn't there taking my mom's attention or something.
But I never had a private conversation with her after they got married. He always seemed to be in the background. When I visited, I never got away from him, we didn't do anything just the 2 of us again. I think ever. Until I had a back blow out and she came to help me for a week. But that was after things were really bad. Anyway....
My mom at one point begged me to quit grad school (I should have been medicated for anxiety and depression, but didn't trust therapists because they always seemed to make it about my mom--did she ever abuse me? etc, so I stopped seeing therapists because it couldn't be that....lol, more on that later), we talked finances, how much it took for me to live each month, she said she'd support me for 6 months while I figured out what was next. We talked about this several times over 6 months. My grandparents had done similar things for her and my aunt, I just assumed she was telling me the truth. But then when I quit with a masters 3 weeks after our last talk (I was supposed to get a PhD lol), she asked me how was I going to support myself. WHAT?! So I got into some major debt that took over 10 years to fix. I sold a lot of great stock at a low price to deal with the debt. That stock, which most of my former colleagues still have, is worth over $80K today. So that was the first big let down. I talked to her many many times over the next 10 years, she always said things would change, they never did. Once I was supposed to fly to her house and she and my aunt and I were going to have a girls' weekend to try and start to repair our relationships when my step dad was on vacation in india....He ends up "throwing out his back," spends the weekend at the house having my mom wait on him, then 2 days later flys out right after I flew back home. She just....stopped paying attention to me. She would never talk about him, or say his name, or discuss the issues as anything other than her fault for not blending the family well. She once said she wanted to make amends, but it turns out she was just apologizing, and didn't want to actually make amends. She sent me a dinner once when I was stressed....and said that should have been enough and the fact that it didn't change much meant nothing she did would ever change things so she wasn't going to try.
But then I started to learn some other truths. When I told her why I'd stopped seeing a therapist, because they always thought it was because my mom had abused me and I thought gee, it's always about the mom and they must be crazy.....My mom got really quiet. Admitted to abusing me as a very young toddler, said the last time she hit me I "flew bodily against the back of the crib and she left that day." So that was crazy. Then my little brother's wife (didn't really know for sure I had a little brother until she called me) called me, wanted to get in contact, and I found out the other side of the story. Dad was a decent guy. Really good dad. But he was dead, so I never got to know him. But my mom lied about him like she had about so many other things to make her life easier (she didn't want to upset or disappoint her parents, who are religious, so lied about A LOT of stuff to keep them on her side).
And I don't know how to talk to her anymore. I stopped talking to her 5 years ago, and even thinking about her can send me into a bad spiral. I'm medicated now for depression and anxiety, so it's not terrible like it used to be, but I end up feeling worthless and hating her. There isn't much to say because I don't believe a word she says anymore, and she won't take responsibility for the past.
What should I do? I miss her so much....but the mom I used to have is gone, I know that. The person she is.....would be terribly de-stabling for me I feel like. I don't talk to anyone in my family anymore.
What would you do? Therapy won't help me since it's really about accepting and getting past what she did, and I don't feel like I can do that. How do you do that? I understand why she did all those things. But she still totally lied to me, screwed me over, betrayed me..... How do you forgive that? We've had the conversation where she apologizes and says things will change, and it's just all lies I see at this point. She just says whatever she has to to get me to stop blaming her, but she doesn't come through and nothing changes. And please believe me, I've read almost everything on the internet about letting go, and seeing things from her perspective, etc etc. It doesn't seem to help. I don't know how to stop expecting my mom to be my mom, I mean, why would I want a relationship with some woman who's not the mother who raised me? Cuz this woman really isn't anything like the woman who raised me.
But it still hurts me. What should I do, reddit?
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2021.11.29 20:54 Shar13 The Lumineers- BRIGHTSIDE (Sunbleached Vinyl)
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2021.11.29 20:54 Artistic-Web-1223 game freezing
why does it freeze when people get close and it only happens randomly like sometimes it does and doesn't other times is it a glitch or just bad game?
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2021.11.29 20:54 DemonreachDaycare Settle an argument about a cap on investment property
Having a discussion at work on the rental situation in Melbourne as its a shitfight atm, and discussing the pros and cons of putting a cap on investment property.
Bit fucked for young couples trying to buy their first home having to compete with some asshat who owns 20 investment properties and can out-bid them at every turn.
So what are the pros and cons of putting a cap on how many properties a person can own?
Say for the sake of argument you capped it at 3 houses you can have under your name.
To me that's enough so you can still set up your investment for retirement, or buy a property to build for yourself or your kids in the future.
Personally I'm arguing we don't have a housing shortage we have 50,000+ empty homes in Vic and 30,000 homeless people.
So sounds to me we have an "available" housing shortage as I've heard to many stories of properties being left empty to inflate prices, or houses that need repairs nobody wants to pay for.
I can see my mates side with it being hard to regulate as that means government oversight but he's mainly arguing you should be able to own what you can afford.
But IMO if we can limit how many dunny tickets a person can buy in a shortage then the same rules should apply to real estate.
But happy to hear peoples opinions on the matter.
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2021.11.29 20:54 KrytenKoro Looking for title of a cynical fairy tale meta anthology
There was this book, sometime from the mid-90s to mid-2000s, probably an advanced readers copy, that was like the cynical anthology of fairy tales. Not getting into depraved stuff like rape or other kinds of egregious violence, but more just general cynicism and depression. I think one of them was sleeping beauty where the prince was too late so everyone was already dead but someone still had to come in and break the curse--the main focus on it was the protagonist trying to get through the thorns, to the exclusion of pretty much the rest of the story. The main gist of the anthology itself was that the the prince and princess in each story were basically the same character archetype, almost like they were actors in the show, and then it gets to this meta level where the author writing the stories is in love with the princess or something and the princess trying to rescue her from the author but since he's the author he has control over their reality. A distinctly remember him using a word processor to modify their stories.
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2021.11.29 20:54 ngoni The Cynical and Dangerous Weaponization of the "White Supremacist" Label
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2021.11.29 20:54 Dancing_Dragonade Theory: Sabal, Amita, Noore, Mohan, and Ishwari would have never be the people they are if Pagan didn’t usurp the thrown which is unlikely. Pagan created them into monsters only to be like “Here Ajay you keep it”
2021.11.29 20:54 watan592 البيت الفلسطيني في كندا يحيي اليوم العالمي للتضامن مع الشعب الفلسطيني بحفل حاشد في ميسيساغا
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2021.11.29 20:54 Competitive_Crew_521 Played a game with USA and this happened for the aftermath tell me your thoughts.
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