Intimacy is nonexistent

2021.11.29 05:51 glueball12 Intimacy is nonexistent

Me (F 21) and my partner (M 24) have been dating for 3 and a half years, and we've been living together for almost 2 years. Let's say that the past year and a half have been "dry", and by that I mean we rarely have sex, maybe once a month, if I have to go into details, kiss now and then, and even then I have to initiate it. He hugs and kisses me every morning before going to the gym, and I've noticed that's about it. That's all the intimacy. The same is when we go to sleep at the end of the day, a peck on the cheek, hand on the tit and off we drift. I know the honeymoon phase doesn't last long, and it didn't in our situation, but all this- him distancing from me has started when he started going to the gym with his cousin (M). So that's gonna be a year and a half ago. He's been so locked up on his appearance, he lost himself, not only do I not know him, we talked about it and he came to the realization that this isn't who he is or who he was. I know people change, I know he does it for his own good and also mine- when we last talked about it, he broke down and told me that he finally feels somewhat good in his own skin now and also wanted to change so I can feel more attracted to him. That broke my heart and made me think, why was I attracted to the fat version of him and not this well-built one now? We've had a ton of ups and downs, but since he started going to the gym, the distancing has started, him being irritated by every little thing started- he once sat on a buttery toast bread and didn't even notice, and now he's pissed if there's bread crumbs on the bed and also, he started deleting messages more frequently. He used to delete every message he had with another woman, it was always someone he knew or went to hs together, so, I found nothing wrong of it, and we talked about how I don't like him deleting his messages. Why would he though if it wasn't anything suspicious? And he always says "I don't like other women being in my messages, only you should be and it bothers me if I see another female name" (before you attack me for snooping, we both have eachothers passcodes) And so every talk we've had goes up in the air and is forgotten about, i forgot to mention it before but there it is. Everything we talk about gets forgotten. Everything. Simple things as "I like silver jewelry" (I also have silver piercings) and I get a gold watch. Anyway, the intimacy in our relationship has been gone for a while now as I've said before, and even when we do have sex, I don't feel much about it. I'm not really excited or anything, I guess I go for it because it's been a while? He also never "helps" me finish so that took the fun out of it as well. Another thing that broke down our relationship is that, again, the deleting messages. We've talked about it, agreed to never do it again because it's not important, a day goes by, and he's deleting one after one after one message on the chat he has with his coworker (F), back to the last messages I've seen. He has time for that but he's "soooo busy at work he can't even breathe". Ok. I forgot to mention that he gets up at 4am to go to the gym, and one day we were in a bad state again, and the firsy thing he does when the alarm goes off, he text his "lesbian" coworker and then continues to talk all day with her, and basically replies to my messages with one liners, and then their chat was all bubbly and fun and full of emojis. Maybe I'm analyzing too much, but I didn't feel good about it. I also asked him why did he feel the need to do that? And he said to get his mind off of things and just mingle with coworkers, and then I asked him or if he just needed attention from someone new, and he thought about it and said I guess. So, that one didn't feel good as well, haha. He also deleted those messages later, and then kept some because we talked about it for the 15th time, and then deleted another whole chat one by one message to the last messages i've seen. Anyway, I feel like I give all my energy for nothing, I'm basically tired to talking on deaf ears and just hearing comforting words that make me feel a change is gonna happen, when in the end I know he'll continue doing things I'm bothered about. I would like to fix our relationship, I would like to get the spark back but i've lost the motivation to do so and I don't even know where or how to start. It also sucks that my male friends now look "tastier" than they did before, and I hate thinking like this. Meh. I feel like the only thing holding me back from breaking up is that fact that we've both grown into adults together. I know I've let out a lot of the story, but any advices? Maybe? Thank you in advance.
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2021.11.29 05:51 Prettywick Do voicemails work? Shall we bother leaving them?

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2021.11.29 05:51 Juan55jersy Difference between Poco f3 and Redmi note 10 pro cameras?

I I'm trying to make a decision between purchasing the Redmi note 10 pro and the Poco f3. I love the design of both( since it apparently the same), the camera of the Redmi but the processor of the Poco F3. I'm leaning toward the F3 because I read a review that said that both cameras produce the same quality photos even though the specs of the cameras are different. I don't usually play a lot of intense games but I want a phone with the option to do so if I choose to load one in the future. I also want the phone to have good performance for about 4-5 years. I don't really like changing phones. Most of my phones are changed every 5 years or so. My last phone was a Huawei mate SE and the battery, then the screen went. Which phone do you think, should last me for the next 3-5 years from now and do the cameras on both phones produce the same quality photos?
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2021.11.29 05:51 RandomStuffPoster2 Why do people ship chilli pepper and rye cookie if they are enemies?

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2021.11.29 05:51 isecretlylove50cent What's the fakest thing you've seen on the internet?

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2021.11.29 05:51 nickward24 12 games into the season, the New England Patriots have surpassed last seasons total in wins, passing touchdowns and are 40 yards away from eclipsing passing yards.

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2021.11.29 05:51 LiquidCringe2 Most underrated NES game?

What do you guys think is the most underrated NES game?? For me it's either Castlevania 2 or Monster Party. Monster Party because it's actually really fun and I feel like not enough people know about it. Castlevania 2 because it's kind of the black sheep of the franchise. It's the one game everyone seems to dislike, and 1 and 3 get way more love than 2. And 2 is really great in my opinion, even if it's too cryptic.
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2021.11.29 05:51 Some_Development5002 What is the difference between the original manufacturer's warranty and the apple care?

Apple care doesn't replace everything for free, but I can't find the information about what all of the fees are for ex. replacing the battery, which parts don't carry an additional fee, etc.
Some credit cards extend the original warranty for a total of 3 years (maybe it was 2, I don't remember exactly, this also depends on the CC. In my case, I thought that the Costco Citi Visa had the best additional coverage). What counts as manufacturers defects? If the screws are falling off and now the internals are sliding around, is this considered "normal wear and tear?" and covered under the OMW?
What type of damage would make getting the apple care worth it?
- Apple care costs $179 through the education store, but the deductible for screen damage is $99 and $299 for other damage.. how much does replacing the battery cost with or without apple care?
I'm sure that in some cases the $179 + the deductible is less than the repair outright, but which repairs are these? And are these repairs considered covered under the OMW?
If the only damages expected are battery related or OS issues.. what are the costs for these repairs like with or without apple care vs having the OMW extended through the CC?
If I'm using my computer almost non-stop, like 10+ hours a day, is the motherboard likely to fail within 3 years from all that heat? (I've only had experience with a hand me down mac and it died within 3 years due to motherboard) If I have hardware issues, like the left speaker is 6db lower in volume than the right and we need to replace the speaker.. is this considered part of OMW? (I've had this happen with a DELL laptop.. )

" Every Mac comes with one year of hardware repair coverage through its limited warranty and up to 90 days of complimentary technical support. AppleCare+ for Mac extends your coverage from your AppleCare+ purchase date and adds up to two incidents of accidental damage protection every 12 months, each subject to a service fee of $99 for screen damage or external enclosure damage, or $299 for other damage, plus applicable tax.1 In addition, you’ll get 24/7 priority access to Apple experts by chat or phone.2 "
No one is actually talking about the warranty details in this thread from yesterday
Can we actually talk about the details of the insurance plan vs other options than what is going on in this thread from yesterday?
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2021.11.29 05:51 jforrest1980 Finally Climbed my Sorry Ass Outta Bronze After 157 Games OTP'ing Vladimir.
*** My match history in the 2nd Pic. Constructive criticism welcome ***
Yeah, I know. It's pathetic that I can barely get out of Bronze...
Getting out of Bronze 1 was autrocious. As soon as you hit Bronze 1, like clockwork, all the trolls and Smurfs come out, and the smurfs are never on your team.
Note to Self --- Don't go multiple seasons and barely play ranked. At least get to where you belong before quitting.
I was getting 15LP a win, and 16LP a loss. Every time I would hit Bronze 1 I would lose 2 in a row and get demoted. This happened like 10 times. I kept winning 3 in a row, promote to B1, then lose 2 in a row and get demoted. I had a 54% Win Rate and could not climb. Then there would be times I only needed 16 LP to hit Silver promos, and think since I got 17 LP the last win that I was about to be up. Nope... Then I would only get 15 LP for some reason. It's like the game wanted me to be in Bronze so bad. I think the system is devised to drive people insane.
So I got my mental together, and sucked it up.
You can see from the second picture my numbers are awful. I'm not hard carrying, but I'm not useless either. I tried to play extremely consistent, by not feeding, and trying to make the correct macro plays. Shoving waves, staying in lane to get farm and plates when mid roamed Bot, leaving lost fights to hold stacks. It seems to have worked., but I'm not sure how far it will get me.
I really think consistency is the key.
Don't Feed.
Don't Give Up Ever.
Don't Tilt.
**** USELESS INFO ****
I started in season 8. First 4 months playing LOL I got Silver. That was playing Yorick Top and not having a flipping clue about the game. Literally knew next to nothing, and AFK'd Top and fed to get Silver 5.
It just surprises me that in S11 I am literally 10,000 times better than I was in Season 8, and that I was stuck Bronze.
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