UPDATE: My fiance cheated on me (at least that is what I think) but she and her family think it is not a big deal because she stopped before anything happened.

2021.12.04 13:33 throwRAshittime69 UPDATE: My fiance cheated on me (at least that is what I think) but she and her family think it is not a big deal because she stopped before anything happened.

If you are wondering, yes, I have free time. I'm on sick leave from my job.
Getting to the point. I did a lot of thinking last night. Even though I made a post, it was more to validate what I already did, maybe because I was scared to be breaking off a long-term relationship. After thinking about it and the events that happened afterward, I feel like I'm making the best choice for myself.
I talked to both my ex-fiance and Steph and it solidified my initial response of breaking up.
This morning when I and my ex were on the phone she was convinced that I was being unreasonable and my motive was to ruin her road trip. This tone persisted throughout the conversation. I still listen to her and she admitted she fucked up, but it was not her fault. She just got drunk too much so I can't really be mad at her. She also repeated that she stopped it even when drunk, so she's actually very faithful. When I asked her about the dude and his state, she never answered me. She also really didn't answer when I asked her what she was doing with someone who was passed out. In my mind, she being unable to answer these fact-based questions means she didn't get her story straight and think it all the way through. Last time when we spoke she told me we can talk about it in detail when she comes back which did indicate to me she was trying to fix it but when I asked her today if she was on her way back, she said she''' come back in 3 weeks and then we can talk about it and that I misunderstood her. Fuck that. This kinda sealed the deal for me. There was no mention of Steph in this conversation.
I after that talked to Stephanie. My ex and her group moved forward with the road trip without her and didn't even tell her. She found out today when she woke up that all others had left. Kinda fucked up imo. I also asked her about the incident and she told me that she made everyone aware of the hookup spot beforehand so my fiance knew what she was doing.
Right now I have many things going well for me including my career. I work for a major airline and got into a high-level management position right before coronavirus. I don't want stuff like this holding me back so cutting it off entirely seems like the way to go. Also, this is actually good for both of us, I can be in a proper relationship and she can go to hook-up spots, stalk wasted dudes and "not do anything". Looks like a Win-Win to me. The funny thing is at the very start I wanted an open relationship and she shut it down, but years later when in a monogamous relationship, she wants to pull shit like this.
I did hook Steph up with a return ticket so she can get back home comfortably and safely. In the afternoon, after her flight, she came over to talk about everything. I told her I was fine and thanked her for doing me a solid. 1.5 to 2 hrs in my sent me a message of her Snapchat location map and asked me what she was doing in our home. I told her she just came over to check if I was doing fine because to most people, infidelity is a big deal and I also corrected her that it was my home and that she would move out when she gets back.
Now I just have to focus on myself for now and wait and see if I live to regret this decision.
Also, for people in the last post asking me, yes to me that was cheating, and to 3-4 people, fuck you. You can't tell me how I'm supposed to feel my own emotions, only I decide that. A real man doesn't feel emotion, my ass.
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