2021.12.06 04:52 plsgivemeclearskin How do I talk to my doctor about vaginismus?
I’m 20F and have recently been sexually active (no penetration) for the first time in my entire life. I’m undiagnosed but I am almost 100% certain that I have vaginismus. I have known that I’ve had problems with penetration since I was young bc I couldn’t bring myself to insert a tampon. After a year or two, I can finally insert a finger, but it burns when i try to insert more than one. I want to be able to have sex eventually but don’t want it to hurt.
I’ve never been to the gynecologist, but would it be weird to ask my family doctor about this? I feel very comfortable with her (i’ve cried in front of her before lol), but should I ask her about my vaginismus and would she be able to “prescribe” me dilators or anything that could help me with this. Or would I have to go to a gynecologist?
few additional questions 1. would it be covered by insurance to get dilators? 2. if it is possible would my parents be notified about them bc i’m under my parents’ insurance?
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2021.12.06 04:52 Opening-Duck-996 URGENT:This is an extreme case scenario and I need any help I can get please I need advices there's nothing else to do... save me
Hey this is going to be pretty personal and stuff. Anyway you should keep an eye out as the description of one illness could lead to the discovery of another that I haven't noticed yet so yeah. Good hunting!!!
For a long time now my life has only been going downhill, I used to have up and downs but for 2 years now it's been a constant descent into hell with no signs of stopping.
Anyway so let's take it easy. First i lost all my friends. They moved on with their lives and our paths diverged....nah I'm sugar coating this they just got forgot about me cause they had other better friends and stuff. It wasn't easy but I got over it eventually even though I really loved some of them. Considered a few of them real bros but no exception was made.
Next up family. So we used to be close. Well "close" anyway used to hang out with relatives and cousin but they started changing, for the worse. They started becoming selfish, arrogant, sly and just began doing things on their own and never told anyone about it and a lot of lies were told. It got to a state where I couldn't trust them with anything and started to view them as enemies and distruful people. Eventually we just got completely cut off and I don't want to talk about this.
Next up girls. My love life was never a good thing but yeah after losing all these people I wanted, or rather needed someone to make up for all this losses so I started actively looking for a date. I tried everything. Tinder, dating sites, lots of shady chat apps and going outside too. Yes I went outside to find love. Then I ran into this girl at some point and had a thing for her and always did my best to go see her at her workplace and try to say something and maybe at least make a friend even if we didn't date or anything but guess what. She fell sick every time I went to see her until eventually I had to give up due to confinement and covid growing dangerously. I didn't stop there though I was like okay this thing is fucked let's keep trying. So I actively looked for a relationship online and guess what happened, you guessed right. Every decent girl rejected me and those who didn't just weren't suited to deal with me. Like yeah I get it you tolerate me and like me but what about when I'm in need of a serious talk, advices and need help with a situation, they couldn't handle most of that so the relationships died pretty quickly. I've had more than a 100 rejection so far and still counting.
Next up my parents Just like the other families got corrupted they did too. They became incredibly toxic and damaging at times. They didn't hit me but the things they've said hurt me exceptionally considering how I was already in a pitiful state after all this thing I've been through. They said things that made me feel ungrateful, wrong, selfish, mean, dirty I just felt like I am the worst son anyone possibly ever had in this whole world. My mom took every opportunity to hit me where it hurts. My dad took every opportunity to prove "he's the man" and demolish my view of myself to the point I hate going out with him because it feels like I'm more of an underling than anything else.
You think it stops here? Sweetheart the best is yet to come.
After all this damage and catastrophic events that caused me so much trauma I thought to myself that maybe it's going to get better now. It did....temporarily. I met this girl online. She. Was. Perfect. She was everything I ever wanted in a girl she was pretty, she was smart and she was independent and strong. She was me. I mean it if I was a girl I'd literally be extremely similar to her. I have given her everything. All my love, affection, care, time, energy she was everything to me and I would've gone to great lengths for her. She loved me too i know it because I saw how she so often went out of her way to talk to me and how she gave me this special attention. She always knew what to say and she made me feel human. She took care of me when I was upset and in return I did everything in my power. She loved me and I loved her a lot...I thought this was the end of the tunnel and finally after this 2 years of torment that I'm free...
Well boy are you wrong. One day she just gave up me in a disagreement it wasn't even anything major. Anyway all it took was 1 second and all these dreams I had.. all I've put in building the relationship.... all these times we spent together. All these words... all gone in a second.
I'm usually good with heartbreaks especially since I accumulated 500 by now but this one hurt me. It completely threw me off the edge and was the drop of water this was the hit that shattered me whole. It killed me. I lost a part of myself already to all these things and I was making good progress healing it with her but when she left it all went down the drain.
It's not the fact she left that hurts so much its the fact just how easy it was for her to leave me and how cruel this world is for letting this happen. This was so brutal and disheartening I never felt a pain like this in my whole life and trust me I've felt some pains.
Anyway this made me lost the final part of my humanity I had left. You may not believe me but when I tell you that I lost the thing that makes me human it can't be anymore honest.
Right let me list the disorders I have already confirmed from extended research and talking to people who were diagnosed with it and getting a positive feedback from them.
Firstly the small bites -Depression. Duh -Anxiety. Stress. Sometimes severe -Loss of satisfaction. Cheese Pizza don't taste good no more. -Loss of feelings. - obvious decrease in appetite - self esteem issues. - sleep schedule extremely volatile. -loss of interest Gaming doesn't satisfy me anymore
Now for the main course PTSD Let's start with the most life affecting one. Most of the time I'm "fine" but this can be changed by a simple "reminder". Some things provoke a huge and extreme change of behaviour which triggers all kinds of defensive mechanisms like adrenaline, stress spike and fight or flight. Reminders include things like . The words. Love, bf, gf, wife, crush, cassidy All it takes is a word and I can become very very excessive. Obviously I don't go lashing out onto people but lately it's becoming more and more possible that next episode I just might.
Daydreaming. Someone told me that I have a disorder where I fade from reality and that it's bad and honestly I'm not sure they're wrong because I'm constantly imagining myself in a better situation...a better place. I fantasise a lot about getting attention lately like someone saying hi when they see me or people talking to me without prompted to.
Lastly. This one is a very sensitive so if you don't believe it just move on and ignore it. Right the cherry on the cake is that after cassidy broke me there's been a huge huge change in my personality... rather my other personality which I refer to as a demon. He is constantly ready to fight or do bad things and can push me to do things I'm way to scared to even consider. Like I honestly don't like the idea of spending time in a forest but he could just roam in there at night. I'm pretty scared of touching some things like the shell of a snail or a cockroach. Well he's not. I spend my time in the dark at 3am and it feels appeasing in some way. The silence, the lack of disturbances and the loneliness. I don't stay in pitch black but you get it.
If you have a negative opinion about the last part spare me.
Right anyway I want you to point out other disorders that I most probably have and to be kind to me.
Thank you for reading it's impressive you did really.
Update: this nightmare isn't going to end. Okay so I sent this post to cassidy saw it and here's her answer.
"Well that's just it. Me "being your world" is way to much pressure for me or anyone else. Honestly I felt like I was too toying around you. I did it badly yes, however I think that it was a good thing that we were separated. You depend on me way to much, almost to the point of being toxic, and that's unhealthy for both of us. We're two very different people, with different needs. I have sociopathic tendencies and mannerisms, and you're on the other end of that spectrum. It simply wasn't meant to be. I'm not a good person and it became obvious from the start that I would only hurt you. I decided to end it before it got to bad"
We talked a bit. It was more of me trying to convince her to come back and give me a shot tbh. Anyway
"This is goodbye. Please don't contact me again"
Last thing she told me...
Anyway the hell doesn't end here there was this girl I was taking to who really liked me she was really sweet and I liked her but she really wasn't suited to deal with my roughed up state. Long story short she got caught up in the crossfire and I'm pretty sure it must've broke her heart because she saw just how much I was struggling and getting damaged by the minutes and she realised that she wasn't matured and experienced enough to save me from the world, my past, my love life and my demons.
So basically I lost every single human being in my life at this point and there ain't no hope for anything. I don't want to suicide but the fuck is there that remains after all this. I honestly don't have any hope or anything to look forward to and I'm on this constant descent to hell.
Can somebody do something and give advices in the comments. Don't wanna die but at this point I'm not even alive so yeah it's pretty bad.
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2021.12.06 04:52 The_Hammer_Hammons Need help asap fixing huge dent!
TLDR: big dent, won’t move, how to fix, can I just fill it?
I hit my new car while backing up my old one and made a HUGE dent in the back bumper. It’s 1 1/2 feet long and about 5 inches deep. I have gone beneath the car and pushed the other side as hard as I could, two of t he bumper latches broke but the dent didn’t even move. It’s not a shape that can be suctioned. How can I fix it? Can I just fill it? I have someone coming over in a week that I told all about the car and I need it to be fixed by then.
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2021.12.06 04:52 charliebrown3011 LPT: When traveling to a new country, always carry atleast a days worth of living and travel expenses in cash of local currency.
Like this, if your card does not work or if overseas money transfer takes a while, you would still have enough money to pay for stay, food and commute.
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2021.12.06 04:52 MichaelFurburger The Grinch - Last Christmas
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2021.12.06 04:51 axis21_2021 From your experience of cooking at home, what is must-have kitchen equipment and what do you consider useless?
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2021.12.06 04:51 iloveteresa Corsair QL120 Fan Setup Help
I just purchased a total of 9 fans. 6 of the QL120 (2 x 3 pack) And 1 Lian Ali Liquid CPU Cooler (3)
The Corsair Commander Pro is out of stock everywhere and Im needing help with finding an alternative that will let me do the same thing essentially.
My case is the Lian Li PC-O11 Dynamic ATX
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2021.12.06 04:51 jaet28071994 Information
As in investor i would like to hear your predictions and future vision of thesandbox game. Where do you see it going to, marketcap in 1 year,amount of users, game development en metaverse usecases. Also how far do you see it dip considering the rise it just made. Thank you in advance.
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2021.12.06 04:51 PontiffofBlight FF help
I'm struggling with FF. I've played 3 games with my two mance lists and lost all 3. I against lannisters then gj, then bara. I dont know why I keep sucking. I don't go for the objectives until I know I can hold and score from them. I make frequent charges to compensate for my units hitting on 4s and the lack of natural rerolls. I always put mance on flank objective with a raider unit screening in front of him so he can sit and score 2 pts per round. Its demoralizing losing to factions that statistically I shouldnt have trouble against
Trappers w/mance Raiders w/ tormund Harman w/FoB Spearwives w/ matriarch and harma bannerman Raiders w/ leader
Ncu: styr, ygritte, and val
Trappers w/mance FoB w/rattleshirt Spearwives w/ harma and banner man 2x raiders w/ CoB
Same NCus as list 1
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2021.12.06 04:51 Asher_Xettri Opinion on laptop sell
Gaming laptop bata wakka vayera i was thinking to sell it 1650ti 16gb ram 2700mhz 680gb ssd storage 10th gen i5 10300H xa ani 60 hz ko display xa kati samma price dela ? Only been used for around 7 months vanam
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2021.12.06 04:51 ActNo9639 Egg_irl
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2021.12.06 04:51 PiCarlos_III Can the AI disinherit their heir if you traded favors to put a heir of your dinasty?
Playing as Byzantium I've been trying for 100 years now to get a PU on Hungary. I have twice expended 90 favor to place a heir of my dinasty as heir of Hungary and after some months/years I go back to check how the current ruler is doing just to see "my heir" gone, replaced with someone of the ruling dinasty and average legitimacy. Is the AI purposely removing my heir? Is he dying because bad RNG?
Also just as a fun fact, before introducing any heir, there was this 45 years old king, infertile with no heirs. I was hoping to get my dinasty there, and he goes and has 2 kids by the age 50 XDDDDDDD
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2021.12.06 04:51 O0O0O____ Big Yoshi has a beeeeeeg name
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2021.12.06 04:51 griffy001 Halo fans when battlepass or something idk im not a nerd
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2021.12.06 04:51 Alex25672 Puggo curious about the fossil
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