2021.11.27 06:34 MancGuyABC Officially started the Beatles diet, wish me luck.
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2021.11.27 06:34 Witchthief My Ex-Best Friend was an Entitled POS and is in Prison for his Crimes part 1
My ex-best friend was an Entitled POS
This is a Story about my ex-best friend who is currently in prison. Why he is in prison is not important to this story, but serves as the point where I finally cut contact with him. We'll just say he is in prison for something that any rational person would say "Yes, I think you should be in prison for that." And leave it there. This is also to keep this post youtube friendly. This is a long story, so there's a lot to cover.
For context I was rather depressed at the time, for reasons I won't get into. The depression made it difficult to see past some of these red flags and at the time was my sole friend. I was pretty isolated at the time.
We'll call him Rick (fake name, of course). Rick and I met when we were still in grade-school. We went to Middle School, and High School together and graduated at the same time. We were pretty close. A lot of people thought we were siblings (both redheads) a lot of the time. After High School we drifted quite a bit. He went to the military, I did not and tried my hand at working and schooling. Even so we kept in regular contact. Phone calls, skype, or what ever common ground game or something.
I don't really know exactly when the problems started but overtime his requests became more and more... extreme. Rick was like being friends with a Hurricane. Once your in his life you're just along for the ride. It was one of the reasons I was friends with him. "What will he do next?" If that makes sense. However, the first one that stands out the most was sending some random person I barely knew across the country to stay in my apartment.
In his rationale that I hate to admit I fell for was it was for my benefit. I was lonely and he was "Just trying to help me out." Well the reality of the situation was this person spent a good chunk of money to go from California to Colorado based on Ricks assurance of free rent, food, board, and integration into the city. I was so poor I was on EBT at the time. (I am no longer thankfully.) I could barely support myself, let alone essentially babysit a stranger that was ALSO depressed. Putting two people that are Majorly Depressed together, alone, is not a recipe for a healthy anything. To no-one's surprise it didn't work out well between us and they left eventually.
The only thing that ordeal managed to accomplish was giving me less trust in people (The witch threw out my toaster oven! I loved that oven!), and leave me a few thousand dollars poorer from feeding this random stranger.
A few years pass and Rick falls into this really strange relationship with the woman that would eventually be a part of his downfall. We will call her Kitty. They were both unhinged, and he was madly in love with Kitty. But their relationship was very strange. Kitty was big into the BDSM thing, and not in a healthy way (from my viewpoint at least).
Now Kitty had three children prior to her relationship. No judgment to single mothers, but when you are 30 and your eldest child is 15 it speaks a bit to the kind of person you are. What spoke louder was how little I saw them with their children. The two of them met in the military and after they got out seemed to dump their children onto whomever was convenient. Grand parents, Rick's younger brother, myself a couple of times, and anyone else that got caught up in their lives.
Meanwhile, Kitty and Rick would be binge drinking somewhere, or going to some party, or something. They lived their lives for only themselves and were always chasing excitement. If I asked Rick to make me a drink he would fill a drinking glass 3/4ths of the way full with rum, and the rest of the way with coke and give it to you. A starter drink to make the bottles upon bottles of booze these two drank daily go down easier I guess? I watched him go through two handles of Jack once. I had finished... a beer or two maybe? I'm a slow drinker and a lightweight but still... It was one night but not the only time he did this.
Now while she was dating Rick she had some, dom on the side. It started as a virtual thing and moved to physical. The way he explained it, made you believe HE thought it worked. from an outsider's perspective it was an extremely dysfunctional 3 way relationship that was more Kitty cheating on him with extra steps, than anything close to polyamory.
We'll call this dom, side dude? I don't know, we'll call him, Jim. Well Jim was pretty integrated into their relationship at one point. But I didn't like him. Gave me the bad vibes. At one point, Jim, Rick, and Kitty were staying with me. They stayed for a few days because they were in town. This was also to be the first, and last time I met Jim. While Jim was over, He and Kitty locked themselves in my bedroom for about a week (I lived in a one bedroom and at that point I was mostly sleeping on my own chair, because depression.)
Even if it was slightly on me that I consented to letting them use my bedroom (and some coercion from Rick and Kitty) I still cannot forgive the two for EATING FOOD IN MY BED!!! I Wish they had robbed me instead I mean COME ON! I even did some mild extermination after the fact just to be sure it was clean! They did it MULTIPLE TIMES I found crumbs for a fucking year!
I was pretty pissed off at Rick over this. I nearly ended our friendship over it, and honestly I wish I had looking back. Their relationship wasn't working so I told Rick and Kitty to make a choice. Kitty needed to pick who she was going to be with, and I told Rick I didn't like Kitty or Jim, and that the could all get the fuck out of my house.
Well Rick stayed with this nightmare woman and the two of them got married. Why did Rick stay with Kitty? I don't know. They just became more insufferable though. Their kids were horrid little monsters, because neither of them could be bothered to raise them. The kids weren't abused, (to my knowledge) but those two were as crap parents as they were people. One of the little monsters managed to make my big fluffy maine coon that loved everyone, Hiss, bite, and scratch her. That child was not gentle with animals. None of them were to be honest. Every animal I've ever had (3dogs, 2 cats) has hated Rick and his little pack of hellions.
At some point after their wedding, I had known Rick for about 15-20 years at this point, Rick pulled another one of his "Meet this stranger" Bullcrap. This time was the last straw and where our relationship started to go down hill. We would still be friends but no where near as close after this incident.
Rick and Kitty were going to come over to my place for a short visit before they headed of, somewhere else for a job or something. They were just stopping by as they moved from one city to another essentially. Well with out notice, Out of nowhere is this random person that they tell me just flew in from the state where the two of them used to live. This new person, Kyle, is one of their best friends from the military.
I have never met Kyle in my life. I was never told about Kyle even in passing. I was never informed I would be expected to host anyone other than Rick and Kitty. And yet, there was Kyle. Kyle was, fine I guess. No weird vibes, and he seemed just as confused and uncomfortable with the whole situation, as I was. Kyle and I had a very awkward conversation while Kitty and Rick went to go to bone town in my bedroom.
Well it wasn't until 11pm that Kyle and I both learned something. Rick and Kitty were heading off to that city now. They said, "It was fun (in between MY clean sheets) but they really had to go. Oh and by the way Witchthief, Kyle needs to get to the airport tomorrow by 8am for his flight back home, ok BYEEEEEEE!" and left.
I didn't have a car, Kyle didn't have a car. Rick had a car. Rick wasn't there though. I had 40 bucks. I was hoping to save it for food, but yeah, Kyle needed to catch his flight, and Kyle had no money. I wanted Kyle out of my house, so we got him a bus pass (Hell no I'm not paying for a cab 1.5 hours away to the airport) and Kyle went home.
Our relationship was never the same after that incident. I put up some hard boundaries with Rick. I didn't talk to him as much, and sought out some different people to spend my time with. Eventually I met my wife. Well Rick and I were in the same town so we decided to meet up. I could introduce my Wife to someone that had known me for 20 years at that point, what could go wrong?
Well, it didn't start off great with Rick being amazed that I landed myself such a beautiful wife. He was sure I was going to end up with, and I quote "Some overweight trucker chick missing half her teeth." Thanks for the vote of confidence there, and openly insulting my wife (then girlfriend) in front of her in one foul swoop, dude.
He proceeded to spend the rest of the time openly ogling my wife in front of Kitty, Myself, and in full view of my wife. Like Old school creeping on her with his eyes. From that point forward, every time my wife was with him he would just creep on her. He tried to get my wife and Kitty to kiss at some point. He even tried to get me to allow him to have sex with my wife (then fiancé) at some point. Rick had no concept of boundaries. None. Everything was on the table, and though we were 30 ish at the time he had not matured since age 17. I never left him alone with my wife. We saw him less and less, and were better for it.
Finally the last Hurrah. Rick and His wife got divorced because of the incident he is currently in prison for. He knew he had screwed up royally and knew he was going to prison. He was currently under house arrest awaiting trial and sentencing. He was a broken man. This was a mistake he couldn't come back from and he did a lot of growing up in a very short amount of time.
His wife had kicked him out so as my final favor to the person that I considered my brother, and had known for 20 years I let him stay for a couple of months at my place. He understood that this was the last thing I was ever going to do for him, and accepted my conditions.
He was going to pay half the rent. I had a roommate (My now, and at the time, bestest friend), and my wife(Fiancé) at the time, and a decently big enough place. We would pay the other half. We were looking to move out and took this as a chance to save a bit of money. He would also be responsible for $100 a week for his own food, toiletries, etc. Our house, our food. (This man could eat a fridge if you let him. Infuriatingly high metabolism). If he missed a single payment, for any reason, he had to be out by the end of the month. This was a temporary fix, and he would need to find his own place ASAP.
Those were the rules. Well not two weeks after his divorce he was already dating again. Crying about how he couldn't live with out sex. We weren't putting up with his shit and told him figure it out or shut the Hell up about it. He eventually found another girlfriend. How, and why this woman agreed to be with a person SHE KNEW was going to prison in the next few months is beyond me. And Rick was still surprised that she dumped him after he went inside. Dumbass of epic proportions I swear.
Well for her birthday he spent all of his rent money on partying with her. He really showed her around town, and got her some expensive handbag. It meant he didn't have rent though. So we told him to get out. He found a small crappy place to live for the next few months before his sentencing (12 years) and that was the end of it.
OH and if you're wondering what happened to Kitty, and her hellspawn. Last I heard she had a new man to torture. 2 weeks post divorce (big surprise). I never kept in contact with her, I didn't like her anyway.
I kept mild contact with him through phone, while he was inside for a little while. Eventually, I had enough and changed my number. He is out of my life now, and that is the end of this saga. Sorry this was so long, there was a lot to get off my chest about Rick. I hope I never meet another one like him. Life was just far too interesting when he was around. Good riddance.
TL;DR By best friend was a creep with a hell-beast as a wife, and monsters for children. He imposed his guests on me multiple time with no warning, or consent. Now he is in prison for his poor life choices.
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2021.11.27 06:34 non_fingo Worm population decreasing
Hi to everyone, i'm not sure why, but my worms are dying...I still see few small worms and eggs, and i thought that the population will increase (I'm observing it two months now). I had some mytes and springtails and reduced the amount of feeding and i controlled the mytes and sprintrails. I cannot figure out what is missing now in the bin. It look preaty good to me but i definitivly must doing something wrong....
The feeding which i give to them is mainly: rests of lettuce, tomato, carots, apple, bananas, a little bit of onion (exceptional) and bunch of other vegetables and fruits. I pot papers/carton scraps insight as well.
To bury the feeding I use old soil. My idea was to recycle it...
Any ideas? The compost actually looks good...no smells no nothing.
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2021.11.27 06:34 aidan9998 If this post blows up I’ll shave my head
2021.11.27 06:34 OlyRat Advice on Selling my '94
My wife and I won't have stable housing for a while and can't really justify keeping three cars while we find a new place. The time has come to send Tugboat Tanya to greener pastures. She's a 4.0l V6 automatic 4X4 with the original aggressively '90s turquoise and purple paint. Trailer hitch, original Ranger mudflaps and bedliner.
The transmission is also slipping (wasn't that bad, but my wife says it took a serious turn for the worse last time she drove it), and she occasionally won't start. The inside is beat to shit, and the body has some dings and is missing the front fender flares. There's a chance I could bullshit a buyer about the mechanical issues, but I'm not about to lie to make a little more money.
So my question is, is the Ranger market crazy enough I could actually get something for her? I'd be happy to get $1,000, and I'm expecting more like $400-800 since I need to sell quick. Also wondering if you guys have some advice fur how to make a fast sale without basically just giving your vehicle away. I was hoping to either fix her up or make a Craigslist sale to someone who wants to turn her into a rock crawler or something, but I don't have the time to do either unfortunately.
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2021.11.27 06:34 reireiastrology The Eternal Now — Reinvent Yourself with Rei Rei
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2021.11.27 06:34 Briewheel Question about Manon Des Sources (1986)
Why did Delphine, the old blind lady, not tell Cesar that Florette wrote to him and had his baby earlier? She only told Cesar when Delphine and Cesar where very old so Cesar lived most of his life without knowing. I assume Delphine would have been able to contact Cesar earlier because they lived in two cities close together.
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2021.11.27 06:34 Insa87 Removed from the bottom of a cliff near a beach in Cyprus.
I was at my usual cliffed coast area in August and I noticed that some of the rocks started falling apart probably because of the previous winter waves. So, I noticed these beautiful shiny pieces that were easily removable from the bottom of that cliff and I removed one. Can someone identify the name please? :) First photo shows the area and the other photos the mineral. It is the same size as a tooth pick in length
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2021.11.27 06:34 Usual_Course5868 Anybody else notice the little green men in homes on fh5?
2021.11.27 06:34 YT-CardCorner Can we complete the week 1 set (trade in 10 collectibles) more than once? And can we do the week 2 set more than once too?
2021.11.27 06:34 ThexEternal Deepika Padukone has the most inviting navel ever. She is carved in such a unique way. Bless that body and that navel. 🙌🏼
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2021.11.27 06:34 Axe_Murderers_Unite Please forgive me
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2021.11.27 06:34 trueworldnews Sawa military base hit with barrage of rockets today, reports from family in Eritrea say large troop movement in cities across the country. Marshal law has been declared and a curfew put into effect, violators will be shot on sight. [/u/coyote32]
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2021.11.27 06:34 newt-15 Will a release hour and not taking Calc BC or Physics C screw me for ivies??
Disclaimer: I know that they’re all basically crapshoots and that it depends on WAY more than just courses for these schools, but I’m getting pre-application jitters and am wondering what to think. TIA
I’ve literally been afraid to post here bc I don’t want to offend anyone or get yelled at lmao but I am a bit stressed abt this and want honesty/clarity before I apply.
For brief context, I have a 34 act (35 Superscore) and 3.98 UW GPA (Ranked #1 in a large public high school). Distinct writing style (I think), spiked ECs in science w one international award, community service, w/ good LORs (once again, I think). All honors/AP, you get the gist
So basically I’m a little worried bc of my courseload. I am ending hs with AP Calc AB and AP Physics I. My school offers up to AP Calc AB and AP Physics C. If I apply to ivies, am I gonna be screwed bc I didn’t take the “highest available courses” at my school? Also, this year I have a release hour. It doesn’t show up on my transcript but it does show only 5 classes instead of 6. Am I double screwed? I also had to drop AP Stats last year after one semester bc my highschool didn’t offer it for online students anymore.
TL;DR, chance me for Ivy League schools given the fact that I have a release hour this year and didn’t take Calc bc or physics c. Does this matter that much?
Thanks and sorry if this post upsets anyone or is annoying, I’d hate to be “that kid” but I’m genuinely curious and want to know if it’s worth spending the time applying to the ivies with all this considered. Peace out and hope everyone is hanging in there with applications 💕 :)
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2021.11.27 06:34 ShoelaceAglet We can rebuild.
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