Being misunderstood by other trans people because of AGAB

2021.12.01 04:01 adventuwe Being misunderstood by other trans people because of AGAB

Have any of you ever experienced this? You describe your transition (fem body and masc presentation) to another trans or nb person, and they completely get it the other way?
Them: Oh, so you want to dress and act more femme? Wear cute dresses and have pretty makeup. I think you’ll get there, you just need to girl it up more to pass!”
*Me (who is almost always read as female IRL despite my aesthetic): “Not exactly. Literally the opposite of that. I don’t want to dress or act super femme. .”
Them: blank stare does ... not ... compute ...
Me: sigh
It would be so much easier to explain my existence if I were just another AFAB enby. As long as I pass and keep quiet about my AGAB, that’s how I’m treated. The minute someone supportive clocks me, or I mention having been AMAB, that goes away, and I become a “pretty cute adorable transfemme 🌸🎀🛍👜👠👗!!”
I hate this binary so much, and I hate how even in the queer community you can’t escape it. And I hate how there is zero visibility for people like us.
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2021.12.01 04:01 red_herring13 Can anyone help me understand percentages and z-scores?

I'm taking a statistics class to finish up my undergrad degree. It is worth mentioning that this class is online with zero help from the professor. It's basically read the text and try and figure it out.
I saw a tutor through my school and they were very obviously reading up on definitions while talking to me and couldn't provide any real guidance or help.
I really want to understand this but my brain just does not work this way and I need someone to explain it to me. The question I'm stuck on is finding the cut-off rating in the top 10% of some data that was provided. I'm lost.
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2021.12.01 04:01 VoihanVieteri Maybe Maybe Maybe

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2021.12.01 04:01 user927310931 It violates SRP, but the scope of the variable becomes smaller. Which should be prioritized?

It violates SRP, but the scope of the variable becomes smaller. Which should be prioritized?

Case 1(It violates SRP) AnimalCondition.cs

public class AnimalCondition : MonoBehaviour { [SerializeField] bool inNest; public bool InNest { get { inNest = Distance.ClosenessCheck(animal.gameObject.transform.position, animal.Memory.NestPosition); return inNest; } private set { inNest = value; } } } 
Case 2 AnimalCondition.cs
public class AnimalCondition : MonoBehaviour { [SerializeField] bool inNest; public bool InNest { get { return inNest; } set { inNest = value; } } } 

AnimalConditionSetter .cs
public class AnimalConditionSetter : MonoBehaviour { Animal animal; private void Update() { animal.Condition.InNest = Distance.ClosenessCheck(animal.gameObject.transform.position, animal.Memory.NestPosition); } 
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2021.12.01 04:01 lilly288 how quickly does food digest with IBS?

So I feel like I've always had this problem where I can eat a meal & within 20 minutes I am running to the toilet if my IBS is triggered. Obviously I know when certain things will do that (like coffee or other natural laxatives) but it happens even with bland foods or foods I eat often. When I go to lunch at work I'll clock in but have to go poop 30 mins after ending my lunch.
I'm not on a specific diet for IBS currently as I am waiting on an apt with a gastro and just trying to eat foods that normally don't make me too sick. Tonight for dinner I had a tuna rice bowl with avocado, soy sauce, and seaweed and within 45 mins I literally had to run to the toilet. TMI but it was brutal and really uncomfortable and already my stomach is churning again.
Anyways I was just wondering if anyone else has this experience & if food can even digest that quickly.
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2021.12.01 04:01 HrvatskiNoahid Fun Fact About Porn: Happy Thanksgiving

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2021.12.01 04:01 milktan Do you think blood for transfusion is wasted on those who get them because of self harm?

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2021.12.01 04:01 Original_AiNE Christmas is all about the baby…

This is probably pretty tame for what gets posted here normally but I just need to rant a bit.
I got a phone call from my mum a couple of days ago and I was basically told that she and my sister had decided we weren’t doing presents for the adults. Only for the baby.
My little sister had the first baby in the next generation of my family back in may. She’s delightful and I adore her, as well as my sister and her fiancé.
This year our Christmas is going to be different. For one it’s not going to be hosted at my mums place, it’s going to be about an hour long, and as I’ve just found out - no presents.
I don’t want to come across as being greedy. I have more than enough money to buy myself whatever I want, so that’s not my issue. My issue is that I decided I’m not ever going to have kids. I would have a hysterectomy tomorrow I am so sure I don’t want kids. But now that’s what Christmas is all about.
For the last 8 years we have done a secret Santa, that I have organised. Two weeks ago not only was I asked to set it up, people were messaging me what they wanted. We have a $50 limit which I think is a fair amount. None of us are struggling (even privately). It’s been organised and I was waiting for today (the 1st) to send out text messages to people.
I have mental health problems. I generally enjoy the run up to Christmas but hate the actual day because I’m around more people than I would normally be. Having something to organise helps me with this. I also LOVE wrapping presents and I really lashed out this year and spent about $100 on luxury wrapping paper and ribbon which is now pointless (I will be giving it away or hopefully wrapping gifts for people)
It’s killed the entire vibe for me. I bought my first Xmas tree this year as well as a lot of very hard to get glass ornaments (which I will also be giving away)
I don’t think I will be going to Christmas this year. I am taking part in a drug trial - it’s the only week I have off for 16 weeks. I think I’ll just take the time to spend at home tidying up the place and spending time with my animals.
I had told mum that this is what I was worried was going to happen months ago. I have no interest in driving an hour and a half to spend less time than that with a baby who is going to be overwhelmed and cry the entire time and smile just to make my family happy.
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I was trying to re-link my account to my new phone, but something went wrong and did not take the link code I provided. Now I cannot get access to my account, but I am hoping if someone could take the chance to find my profile name "Nilewind" and send me the friend ID code to help me out. I just gotten so much done and I do not want to lose all the work I put in after a simple link mishap.
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2021.12.01 04:01 WannabeWeeb- How do pornstars have serious relationships and kids? Do they, do they not?

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2021.12.01 04:01 Monsieur_Bananabread Don't ask how I've ended up with this, because I don't have the slightest idea. Just know that I love it though.

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2021.12.01 04:01 Apprehensive-Ghost19 My therapist says that I've been emotionally abused by my family but I don't think that's true

TW : s*icide attempt and child abuse
I(22F) have been seeing a therapist since September. I basically felt like I had been depressed my entire life, and I've finally been diagnosed with an anxio-depresdive disorder. This therapist is really empathetic with me, so it was a relief since I previously had bad experiences.
Long story short, I am currently studying far away from my house. I was incredibly anxious at the idea of coming back to my family for Christmas holiday, because I'd have to pretend I am alright (my parents don't believe therapy is a good thing and think I'm just trying to make myself interesting, or that I'm just overly sensitive but have nothing to worry about). My therapist was worried about me, because it came to the point where I had several plans on how to end my life. She told me that I didn't have to go, and that I should cut off any contact I have with my family. That me hurting them that way was better than me hurting them because I died and they never knew why.
The problem is that 1) I still think that just dying and letting them forget about me would be better than me disappointing them. 2) I'm feeling extremely guilty and ungrateful for being depressed as my mother was abused and abandoned as a child and tried her hardest to make my life good, yet I'm unable to be happy with myself and even made her a "bad guy" even though she's not. 3) I don't think I've been emotionally abused, as I know my parents wanted me to be happy.
So far, I just said that I didn't want to come for Christmas, and I explained to my sister (16F) why as we are very close together and I don't want to cut contact with her. I also plan on cutting contact with my father's parents as, in a moment of weakness, I told them how I was feeling and they basically told me to suck it up and be happy, as I never lived anything worth making me depressed. I also planned on moving as they made a copy of my apartment's keys and I don't want them barging in asking why I don't talk to them anymore.
So here I am, asking for advice. Should I do as my therapist said and do all the things I've planned ? I'm feeling really guilty in doing so, as they always gave me money and I feel like I owe them everything. I know they never wanted to hurt me. But I also know I can't tell them what I'm going through right now. I just think that maybe my therapist overreacted a bit, as I probably make things sound worse than they truly are. I can't really be in emotional distress due to emotional abuse, can I ?
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2021.12.01 04:01 tecnikstr0be Do you ever regret putting yourself out there for people start knowing who you are after you've been an introvert and then all of a sudden you get anxiety because you can't seem to catch up with your privacy. No more?

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2021.12.01 04:01 autotldr Taiwan seeks to work with new Honduras government as China looms

This is the best tl;dr I could make, original reduced by 52%. (I'm a bot)

Register now for FREE unlimited access to reuters.comTAIPEI, Dec 1 - Taiwan will work with the Honduran president-elect Xiomara Castro to deepen relations on the basis of their long-standing friendship with the country, the government said on Wednesday, though she has floated the idea of ditching Taipei for Beijing.
Taiwan, which had held off offering congratulations until formal results were in, said its ambassador in Tegucigalpa, Diego Wen, had "At the first moment" congratulated Castro on behalf of Taiwan President Tsai Ing-wen.
"On the basis of the long-term friendship established with Honduras, our country will deepen cooperation between the two countries with the new government team led by president-elect Castro, and jointly enhance the well-being of the two peoples," the ministry said in a statement.
The two have a relationship dating back to 1941, before the Republic of China government fled to Taiwan after losing the Chinese civil war to the Communists who established the People's Republic of China.
Taiwan warned Honduras in the run up to the election not to be taken in by China's "Flashy and false" promises.
Pacific island nations Kiribati and the Solomon Islands were the last countries to cut ties with Taipei in September 2019.China views democratically-ruled Taiwan as one of its provinces with no right to the trappings of a state, a view Taiwan's government strongly disputes.
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2021.12.01 04:01 MaesHughes2003 Calli has announced all of Myth are getting new outfits this month!

It's themed and it's going to have unarchived karaoke themed after it for her.
ITS NOT MUSICAL THEMED. So don't expect it this week.
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