I don’t have a partner, I have a friend who helps with bills

2021.12.07 18:25 duchessoftexas I don’t have a partner, I have a friend who helps with bills

My (26F) son’s 5th birthday party was this weekend, which was planned for maybe a month. There were tasks needed done on both our ends, but as I don’t work as much (he owns his own business, 6-7 workdays a week) I put a majority of the load on me, just like I do with general household tasks. My husband (28M) was lazy doing the tasks, and didn’t come close to finish them, so he hired out his worker to help the day before the party. Everything was finished that day by the worker and myself. Touch ups were needed the next day (morning of party), and I slaved away doing them alone. I found a large task to do, (shoveling pile of dirt and rocks and trash) but as I had several hours until the party, I didn’t think much of it. I do this all alone while he sleeps in. I come inside at 11:30 covered in dirt, sweat and grime from shoveling for an hour, and the bell rings (party is at 2). He jumps up and says it’s his mom and SS7. I invite them in and ask them to stay outside as I have a lot of party planning and decorating left to do still. They aren’t watching the kids, so they’re constantly coming in asking me for things, while I’m stressed planning a party alone covered in filth. Thankfully my parents come and help me do what was needed.
The next day I explain my frustration, that I’m always in charge of all the tasks, even in the house on normal days, but while I needed help that day specifically from a partner, he was not there, just making my life harder inviting people several hours early and not seeing how I wouldn’t want my HCMIL to see me like that. He just says I should always welcome his mom , even though I pretended like it was fine she was there ridiculously early and only mentioned it after airing other grievances. He seems only concerned with his mom’s feeling left out, even though she came several hours early and stayed 6 hours. He’s not concerned I planned the entire party alone and when I needed help he wasn’t there, just paid someone to do it. I feel like I’m the last priority on his list and anything I ask for can just be paid off with labor to help me, instead of doing tasks together to be part of the shared pride in completion. This isn’t a one time thing, but I realized today that he’s not a partner, just someone I enjoy talking to that helps pay for things.
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2021.12.07 18:25 Bpantner33 Best Reits to hold long-term?

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2021.12.07 18:25 ThrowRA7529 Systems down, but still have to take the calls

So I'm WFH, I clock in and get everything up. Phones ringing as soon as I log in. Can't access the systems we use to look up customers, finally get one system to kinda work...well now it's past my lunch and the systems are still not working and we still are being told to take calls and "get the saves".
My lead is new, he has been on us all day because our numbers are horrible (no shit! We can't even help answer simple questions due to systems not working) and that we "need to do better or evaluate why we are performing so badly"...sorry buddy, but if I can't even see the customers account and try to fix any issues they have of course they are just going to want to cancel...I'm actually very happy I haven't had a call in hours and I'm starting to think that even though I'm logged in the phone system might also be effected for me (many others can't even log in).
A lot of others took advantage of the unpaid time off that was available earlier so I can't even clock out if I wanted to right now.
So plus side I'm being paid to sit here and it doesn't look like any calls have come into the department since noon either 🤷
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2021.12.07 18:25 4Ground_Music Acoustic & Chill Holiday Edition (acoustic instrumental Spotify playlist for relax, study, focus. Holiday tunes included for the month of Dec, currently only 17% Holiday music)

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2021.12.07 18:25 stayncalm MY INSURANCE FUCKED ME!

So I've been working uber eats and making an insane amount of money in the Hollywood area. I quit my job because I make so much. My insurance just called and said my rates are going up because they found out I do uber!!! This is communism. Also how did they find out ?
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2021.12.07 18:25 Aeriosus My Starfinder Mechanic watching his drone at work

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2021.12.07 18:25 flannelsandjeans I tried the Zvezda helmet attachment onto the soldier helmet, and it looks even more fitting

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2021.12.07 18:25 Shinjigami A game like war thunder just pve?

Does a game like war thunder, where you buy and upgrade planes from WW2, yet battle against npcs rather then human players exist?
Thanks a lot!
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2021.12.07 18:25 AutoNewspaperAdmin [Local] - Neither COVID-19 omicron variant nor U.S. diplomatic boycott will stop Beijing Olympics, IOC says | Deseret

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2021.12.07 18:25 acreativeredditlogin Ramen in South/Central Austin?

Been craving ramen. Tried going to Tatusya twice and couldn’t even find parking on time and last night was a 45 minute wait.
Not interested in Michi. Any suggestions?
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2021.12.07 18:25 LSARefugee Mexican Girl, 14, Jailed for Escaping Arranged Wedding

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2021.12.07 18:25 extramozzarellasauce I have dreams about the girl who got away

Hello folks, looking for some advice or suggestions on how I’m feeling today and why...
I (27m) am dating a great girl (24f) and we have an awesome relationship. Been officially together for about 9 months. I have no plans on leaving her, and everything works great between us but...
There is this other girl(27f) I use to date, hook up with. Not an official relationship but when we were together it was electric, sex was amazing, same sense of humour and she was smart, really smart and I was dumb and young and didn’t know what I wanted. Long story short she started looking to other guys for a relationship as I told I didn’t want one with her. So now she’s gone, she’s with another man and living life, as am I.
Here’s my problem, I wished I locked her up, she liked me and was in. But I fucked it by being immature, now I’m grown up a little more I realized I literally let the girl of my dreams go... I love my girlfriend greatly, but for some reason I want this other girl more then ever. If I pursue this chase of a girl who’s in a relationship chances are she won’t leave her current boyfriend and second I will be leaving my current girlfriend and everything we have built together.
I’m not going to leave my girlfriend and try to get back this girl from the past, but man... feelings can fuck you up! Just looking to see if anyone has something they can tell me.
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2021.12.07 18:25 beesareyelloww I didn't know this was a feature

during the dragonborn quest (dlc) after you investigate the earth stone/activate it, if you sleep anywhere in solstheim you'll get teleported and find yourself at a different stone! I think this only works before you reach the Temple of Miraak, but I found it really cool.
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2021.12.07 18:25 AutoNewspaperAdmin [Local] - How will the grizzly bear fare under the Biden administration? | Deseret

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2021.12.07 18:25 Palaceboy100 Film is about to show on the site + New shop items...

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2021.12.07 18:25 Constant-Surprise-39 Mom bought me the cheap crayons bc I keep eating the good one's. I need Crayola to make tendies

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2021.12.07 18:25 Willing_Individual23 Detached pellicle

So it seems my pellicle and scoby have separated from each other. Should I toss the pellicle or keep it? I’ve never seen this before.
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2021.12.07 18:25 Hela_awkward19 I am an idiot!

Technically with a box and a screwdriver. But that's not the point.
I have missed my last 3 appointments where I get my meds. The assistant scheduled me then sent in a months worth of meds. I ran out of zoloft and risperdal and the smaller of 2 doses of lamictal last Tuesday. Still had my large dose lamictal.
Called Monday and was able to get an appointment for yesterday. My idiot ass thought, I survived for over a decade on just a large dose of lamictal and this will give me motivation to keep this appointment.
Ugh. Managed, albeit on minimal sleep with nausea and dizziness, until yesterday afternoon. Cue the depressive mini episode. I hadn't felt that shitty since, hmm, before my diagnosis.
I couldn't make myself care about anything. Lost every emotion but anger and sorrow. Went to get the meds 2 hours after I was promised they'd be ready and got to wait another half hour.
Went home to my boyfriend. Poor guy. He'd never seen me anything but Eurythmic or charmingly manic. Hugged me, offered me coffee and chips, said I was amazing and lovable. Asked what he could do to help. I had to tell him there wasn't anything to do and I was just going to bed. I couldn't make myself feel bad. Voices in my head said I'm a sociopath who can't even feel bad for being rude to him and the pharmacy tech.
I felt like I'd traveled in time back to my high school days. Aching for death, angry at the world, longing to be somewhere better than this polluted body.
I'm stable today, though not on any kind of high note.
Still wanna punch my dad for giving me this though.
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