How do I stop myself from falling in love with my ex... Again, while in a relationship

2021.12.03 16:33 HistoricalTransgende How do I stop myself from falling in love with my ex... Again, while in a relationship

Okay so, let's start in 2017 when I first met L, I was 15, she was 18. We became long distance friends and watched movies together and spent, literally, more than 24 hours on a single discord call. I was madly in love with her at the time, even though it was kinda of a mistake. We had a rough break up because she thought she was assexual, and if so, we wouldnt be compatible (much sex y'all are going to do living 2.000 km away), actually saying we might be misleading, I broke up with her. Now lets go 2018, almost a year had passed and I was getting over her, started dating this person named S. They were pretty insecure at that time so I mentioned L as being a past LDR gone wrong with a rough break up. The relationship with S was good, we both made mistakes and were responsible for toxic situations but tried to grow from the situation. In 2019 to 2020 New Years I got an e-mail, January 1st, from L. The e-mail talked about how she was doing, but mostly talked about how she was feeling about what we been through, she also asked about me and my family. I mentioned it with S but didn't got into details, I excused myself from the bedroom and wrote a e-mail answering her. Nothing too fancy, mostly a nostalgia filled letter with curiosity about how she was doing. A couple of days later I found out through my e-mail search box that S would have been trying to dig through inbox to find the letter L sent me, she said she was sorry and was worried I still had feelings for L. I didn't. We dated for another year and in June 2021 she broke up with, seemingly out of nowhere, we talked it through, wasn't a big fight or any scene, aside from the appropriate crying.
After the breakup I was a mess, and while scrolling through my blocked list I found L's number. Unblock. A week passed and mid binge drinking and chainsmoking I saw one stories of her's about George Orwell's 1984. I replied "ayo this book sucks". We got started to talk and catch up. The "chemistry" was still there and after a couple weeks we realized that we should but aside our feelings and know that we should be platonic. She is now my best friend, one of the few people that know me at my absolute worst. I love her, but I don't know for sure if it's platonic. By that time I realised that I should have talked to her wayyy sooner, but I didn't out of some sense of respect and fear of hurting S' s feelings. Please don't read this as they being abusive. We went on to our dating life, I was trying to get a cougar on tinder, she was taking the more adult approach of actually trying to find someone. After a couple of months I started seeing this new girl and we really connected, there is a lot of passion and is a pretty new to me to date someone who goes out more than I did and has a friend group large enough to fill a big shed, let's call her B. The thing is, while I do believe I love B and want to be with her, I don't see me marrying eventually anyone but L. The only thing that makes our relationship platonic is distance and that could be eliminated by next year if I apply for college in her state. I also don't want to hurt B, we talked about moving, but not about this. Again, I do love B, she is sweet, she is kind, she makes me wanna write poetry about her, I really like her and things could stay the way they are, because I also don't want to risk a healthy relationship because a whisper in the back of my head. Should I ignore this? It is that big of a deal, in after thought, just wanted to know some perspectives on the situation. Also I don't wanna break, if your deal is just that you might need to elaborate more. Aside from ignoring, I could apply to a university in L's state, or don't. I could also look forward to move abroad, but it would feel weird leaving this mess behind. Also, do any of you think of a way that I can maintain my LDR friendship with L and still have a healthy relationship with B?
Also, this is a burner because S uses Reddit and they might see on my original.
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2021.12.03 16:33 NollaigNogo Test method always returns value as 0

My Java code compiles but my test method just isn't working. I have the relevant code pasted below:

* Name: volumeCone
* Purpose: to calculate the volume of a cone
* Input Parameter: r = 3, h = 10
* Expected Result: 30*(PI)
System.out.println("To test the volumeCone method")
double volumeExpected = 30*Math.PI;
double volumeActual = Exam.volumeCone(3.0, 10.0);
if (volumeActual == volumeExpected)
System.out.println("Test has passed" + volumeActual);
System.out.printf("Test has failed, \nExpected Result: %.18f\n", volumeExpected);
System.out.println("VolumeActual is: " + volumeActual);

And here is the method called in the test method:

* /param a radius r
* /param b height h
* /result volume V
public static double volumeCone(double r, double h)
double V = 0.0;
V = 1/3 * (h * Math.PI * r * r);
return V;

When the test method is run, the variable volumeActual always returns as 0, no matter what values I enter into the method. I would really appreciate any help.
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Here are the specs of my PC: B550 Phantom Gaming ITX Ryzen 7 3700x 1650 Super 32GB RAM 3200mhz Samsung SSD 970 Evo plus 500GB
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Only got about a minute or two to type this before my break is over, but my roommates and friends are in a sticky situation. I bought the Dune board game because my company gave me a 50 dollar gift card to barnes and nobles for thanksgiving. Every time we play a game that has a lot of rules my friends Damion and Rell who are related struggle to remember all the rules. The second she has to explain a rule twice she blows up and get super angry at who ever asked the question. She also has gotten super angry when someone targets her in a game when she isn't the direct player winning, even though she will do that to other people constantly. She is one of my roomates and another one of my roomates girlfriend. Luckily Damion lives there as well so we can have each others back, but does anyone have any tips for dealing with people like this. It would feel mean to just not include her, but its also unfair for us to not have fun because of a person playing the game.
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Specs are Ryzen 5900X, RTX 3080 FE, 32GB RAM. Windows 10 patched up and latest Nvidia driver.
Anything else I should know?
Also, as a side question, is there a way to set boundary on the side of the computer rather than in front? My play space is to the side of my desk and the boundary setup is a bit awkward. Obviously not a problem with standing and seated play otherwise.
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