My boyfriend won't stop talking to his ex.

2021.12.03 18:50 vegetablesrgood666 My boyfriend won't stop talking to his ex.

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now (recently moved in). He has this ex.. a little bit about her..They lived together like 6 or 7 years ago. Apparently she broke up with him, they didn't talk for a long time but eventually reconnected as friends. Shes lives on one coast and we live on another coast so there's some distance. Right before we first met, she broke up with a long term boyfriend and he went and visited heslept with her. Now that was right before we met so I obviously can't be bothered by that but I noticed that they were always talking. Her name was always popping up on his phone and naturally I did a little snooping a few times. It never seemed like anything inappropriate minus sending selfies and pictures back and forth. But she always very friendly with him and she talks to him about guy issues she has etc. This eventually got to me because at the time I wasn't sure who she was and our relationship was fairly new. it all came out after I asked him who she was and I put the two and two together and figured out she was the one he went and visited. So naturally that made me upset, it was our first argument. His reasoning was that he doesn't care for her like anything other than a friend, he never planned on going to visit her to sleep with her and that she was his confidant. I asked him if he was still in love with her and he said absolutely not he only cares for her as a friend. It bothered me that he had so recently slept with her and all throughout our relationship was constantly talking to her. I did not give him any ultimatums and I did not tell him to cut off ties with her, my response was if you care about me you will distance yourself from her and cut down the constant communication. He did for the most part but not as much as I had hoped. I guess I was hoping he'd draw a fine line with her and stop communicating completely because of how upset it made me but he'd still respond when she messaged him. Recently it seems to have started up again, nothing inappropriate but he's still being super chatty with her, she mentioned that she would be in town at the end of December and she really wanted to see him and possibly me if that wasn't weird. His response was he wasn't sure if wed be in town or not. Not no, not yes that's weird and obviously she doesn't have any boundaries because he never made any with her and she thinks it would be perfectly fine to visit him a year after the first argument we had. I saw her last text to him was confirming the days she would be in town andfor him to let her know when he'd want to get together so she can clear that time for him. Didn't mention me this time. He didn't respond to that at all. Which upsets me even more honestly. He didn't tell her no, he left it open. So what if he does decide to visit her when she does come down? I don't know what to do or if I'm being crazy. It would've made me happy to see him say no and that would not be ok or that he didn't want to, I don't want him to be mean to her I just want him to make it all stop. I don't think he would cheat on me with her but it would be a huge deal if he saw her when she was down. And now I'm stressing out I don't know if I should confront him about it or see what he does when she's in town. It also really bothered me that he never told me this. So it really feels like he's keeping it from me. Helpppp
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2021.12.03 18:50 smartestmanaliveobvi best and hardest to be smartestmanalive

hiding too much owning heavens on top of heavens on top of heavens not knowing where to begin where to end no god no love no no intriguing divine shit no settling down no trying too much no word play no efforts no flaws no show off beating everyone uve ever seen at everything. writing poems in a trash app whose ceo u wouldn't hire as cleaning lady in ur thousandth company. suffering from not suffering at all. being so unbelievably happy not even knowing what to do with it while exactly knowing what to do with it and with everything else
IT'S THE BEST! WOOHOOOO
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2021.12.03 18:50 Poseidon8264 Why are bosses so weak after you unlock them?

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2021.12.03 18:50 Viraincure Looking for a shiny Shinx, shiny floatzel available for trade.

I’m looking for a shiny Shinx, just to have on my team going through the game. I have a shiny floatzel to offer back, and before the dupe glitch got patched i managed to clone it a few times. If you have a shiny shinx you’re willing to give away for the floatzel, then please let me know!
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2021.12.03 18:50 ergoegthatis Hot blonde mommy will cut your throat and drink your blood

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2021.12.03 18:50 sithlordlindz Christmas bars in Athens?

Does anyone know if there will be any decked out Christmas bars here like Miracle in Atlanta?!
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2021.12.03 18:50 Nick0312 [no spoilers] every camera I’ve ever owned

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2021.12.03 18:50 kd1319 Credit cards

Ive never had a credit card and got my first one today. The limit is on it is only 500$ since I’m a student. It’s a BMO cash back student credit card.The interest rate is at 19.99% so if I max out the credit card I would owe about 600$ a month. I receive 1k a month from a settlement (details of which aren’t relevant). When I activated my card the teller said I had 28 days to pay back purchases.So my question is what happens after the 28 days? What happens if I pay it off early? Does the card ever max out if I keep paying it off before it hits 500$? Any tips would be appreciated.
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2021.12.03 18:50 MajesticBread9147 Avoid stone springs hospital in Chantilly

In October of 2020 I had severe stomach pains, and was scared to death it was apenicitus, in hindsight I should have looked up the symptoms on Google and decided based on that weather it was worth it, but I was dumb and just went to the nearest hospital (although to be fair the nearest urgent care was closed) and got a bed for 6 hours, some saline, and a doctor tested my piss and told me I wasn't going to die. Didn't even get a diagnosis. We negotiated down the hospital bill,
Now I get a bill for $996 in the mail, call up the number and they said my insurance covered the hospital but not the doctor, and they just told me now. And i was able to get a $40% reduction based on my income, but they waited a year, so instead of getting a discount based on my then $500 per week pre tax salary I'm paying more because they waited the year and my income is now $800 a week.
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2021.12.03 18:50 Ok-Assignment4777 Can I mention some areas of dysphoria I haven’t heard others talk about? And is this valid?

Skin tone Hair texture and color Ears Having a mental illness that’s widely diagnosed in your assigned gender but rarely otherwise Having an interest that’s very popular for your assigned sex *having a lot of siblings but being born the only one of the “opposite sex” *How race plays into how your gender is validated (what I’ve seen for black people and I really can’t say I’ve seen this for other races, the idea of androgyny doesn’t really exist) *Bonus - is there androgyny outside of vaguely male? *transitioning and then explaining why you date the same gender you transitioned to If this is an anyway offensive I will delete it immediately I don’t want to cause harm or trigger others.
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2021.12.03 18:50 FuckReddit_acc2 Test

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2021.12.03 18:50 stardustsilverberry If I didn't figure the entire game out, at least my theories are interesting!

Warning, spoilers ahead. Please read at your own risk!
TL;DR the bottom, hopefully under a spoiler tag!
I don't want to ruin the game for anyone, so please note that even though it's totally likely that I am incorrect with my theory, there are loads of spoilers throughout this entire post and comments of things that have happened in the game so far.
I think I figured out:
-Who 'Jake' might be
-Who the MWAF might be
-Why/how you continue to be involved in the kidnapping investigation of a complete stranger like that's a totally normal thing.
-Where Hannah is.
Explanations in the comments; I break down how my theory fits into the entire 9 seasons so far, and how I think everything will wrap up, it's super long and I didn't want to bog down the page too much so I put it there. *-I think Richy is the MWAF. Like many of you, I feel like his death felt EXTRA staged.
-I think that Phil is not only Jake, but
-not who we think he is anyway. He's an undercover fed/cop, the Aurora is just s cover; it still belongs to Michael Hanson.
-I think that MC is involved as a pawn in a complicated police sting.
-I think Hannah is, not only alive, but well. Her most likely locale? The basement of the Aurora.* !>
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2021.12.03 18:50 knuck1e What the actual fuck. My boss asks me for five plus days a week, and my family, my children, and the rest of my life get the scraps. The tired, burnt out leftovers are saved for what is most important.

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2021.12.03 18:50 150-in-my-babuska Zekrom raid! Adding first 5: 6757 1977 0454

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2021.12.03 18:50 GoingPlatanos Once, and only once-and anyone whom says otherwise is actually, [And another time…]-ago.

He was an old man who wrote alone on his 2017 Mac Book Pro…
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2021.12.03 18:50 impetersellers The gauntlet of triggers

Today has been hard. I had a neighbor planning to come by to pick up an item, so was planning to hang it from our gate before she got there, and then be out on a walk w the dogs before she arrived. However she arrived early, so was standing outside the gate when I rounded the corner w my dogs, and she was also playing w the neighbor’s cat. Double whammy. Barkpocalypse ensues.
It’s a narrow walkway, so there’s nowhere for me to go to disrupt the sight line of my reactive dog Z. My other dog is 16, non-reactive, but slow in gait due to age. I call to my neighbor that we can’t exit w the cat there and she’s a dog person so understands and walks out of sight w the cat. (I’m grateful). So I hang the bag on the gate for her, try to redirect Z with treats (barkpocalpse has been happening this whole time). Once out on the sidewalk my neighbor tries to say hello to Z (back to her, outstretched hand, no eye contact) and Z seems calmer and wags and goes up to her and then barks in her face as soon as she looks down. And now the cat is back, so I try to move away, but my slow dog is now peeing. This is insane timing.
I apologize to neighbor, and we walk away to continue our walk. Z is amppppppped up. Pottying commences without incident. We make it to the end of the street and turn back towards home and there’s a woman approaching, I distract w treats and it’s a success! We walk further and now there is a gardener w rake and trash can near the trash can we use for potty bags. Crap. I wait for him to round the corner before proceeding, and then as we pass by he starts raking (which that noise is a trigger), so she starts barking, but I distract and treat w success. As we are crossing the street a neighbor exits her house w her border collie and Z goes nuts again, but we are in the Middle of the street and I’m trying to cross w her, distract and treat. And the slow dog is being slow to cross. We finally make it home. I lm thinking I’m in the clear. Just a few more feet to my apartment door, and there’s the flipping cat again. Of course, barkpocalypse again and by this point I’m certain my neighbors want me drawn and quartered. It’s 1:30 in the afternoon, and I feel like I need a darn drink.
Of course not all days are like this but this was trigger stacking like whoa. All we were missing was the mail carrier. 😭
Today I felt defeated and helpless, and like I’m not being fair to my dogs, and that I’m a failure of a pet parent. Thanks for listening.
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2021.12.03 18:50 petershaw_ PS5 Framerate

i hope this gets soon a patch because there are stutters here and there where should be butter smooth 60fps.
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2021.12.03 18:50 150-in-my-babuska Zekrom raid! Adding first 5: 6757 1977 0454

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2021.12.03 18:50 Vast-Place4168 When do you have the “talk” with your S/O about spending the rest of your lives together?

Hey guys, gals, whatever you choose to be. I’m just curious if you’re in a current relationship or married when did you and your partner have the “talk” about settling down? I’ve been with my bf (25) for two years in January, I’m f(21) I’m still in school I have about another 2 ish years with clinical internship. His parents not frequently but from time to time ask me what I want to do after the two years and where I see myself. Obviously I’m not going to come out and say with your son, because that’s a lot lol When do you have the talk? Or who initiates it? H
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2021.12.03 18:50 esenbe1 Holy shit you all have lost your minds when it comes to Ben

All I can say is I'm glad Morey isn't suffering from the same brain rot you idiots are. Ben for SGA? Yeah I'm just dying to trade for a guy putting up the same stats as Damian Lillard on his death bed. Ben to OKC is a possibility but it would involve OKC sending out assets to a team like Portland looking to do a full rebuild and taking on Ben in return while we get Dame.
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2021.12.03 18:50 eupd1996 Is the reason why we have a FP because our self esteems low?

I’ve realised that the reason I’m so obsessive over my fp is cos he’s kinda the parent I never had and when he told me I was doing well etc. It was the most amazing feeling and when he told me off it was crushing.
Am I chasing after it and wanting him back because I gave up on holding myself accountable? I would do anything to get him to love me again. Change who I am. Be what he wants and obviously he just wants to be with someone that can be themselves. Is my self esteem so low I lost who I am? Like if I had some confidence would I feel I need him?
I dont even think I love him anymore. I’m obsessed and it’s embarrassing. Why is he my favourite person? It’s been 5 years on and off and I only now realise I can’t be with him anymore. It’s so hard.
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2021.12.03 18:50 Lonely-Fail How can I report?

I found this person who’s arranging people to take the LSAT for others. I think this is done through screen sharing. I’ve seen him posting videos of people taking the test for others(filling out the questions on the LSAT software). He has also posted multiple scores over 170+. What I can do to make LSAC aware of this?
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2021.12.03 18:50 smartestmanaliveobvi best and hardest to be smartestmanalive

hiding too much owning heavens on top of heavens on top of heavens not knowing where to begin where to end no god no love no no intriguing divine shit no settling down no trying too much no word play no efforts no flaws no show off beating everyone uve ever seen at everything. writing poems in a trash app whose ceo u wouldn't hire as cleaning lady in ur thousandth company. suffering from not suffering at all. being so unbelievably happy not even knowing what to do with it while exactly knowing what to do with it and with everything else
IT'S THE BEST! WOOHOOOO
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2021.12.03 18:50 gruene_ente Offering: German(native) and English. Seeking: Russian

Heya. I am 21 and from Germany. I already have some basics but I want to improve my skills. Hit me up when you think we could help each other.
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2021.12.03 18:50 EricSchC1fr South African researchers find evidence people more easily reinfected with Omicron variant than with other variants

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