2021.12.06 01:59 throwawayugly5 Co-workers don’t like my appearance and I was pulled into HR to discuss it
Using a throwaway since this is a on going issue. I got pulled for a “random” drug test. I say “random” because I didn’t see anyone else get pulled from their work. This wasn't done on break or lunch but I do the test and am told to go to HR. I don’t do drugs so I’m not worried at all. This job has no direct customer interaction so I don’t need to plaster a smile on my face and it’s not a job like sephora or ulta where it’s required to be “done up”. There is a business casual dress code.
I sat down and was told that there have been some reports against me, my sketchy behavior, and my appearance by my coworkers. I look “exhausted, tired, sullen looking” which is a nice way of putting that I don’t wear makeup and every other co worker does, so I should too. I read the dress code and nowhere does it say I need makeup or tighter clothing.
At every job I've ever worked at, I've always kept my personal and professional life separate. Leave whatever personal issues/drama at the door. I’m not there to make friends nor do I feel like I need to explain anything about what I’m dealing with in my personal life. I shouldn't have to tell them why I wear the same two shirts because it’s all I have. I shouldn't have to say I walk two hours to and from work and that's why I'm out of breath when I get to work.
Finally she tells me there are reports for sketchy behavior because everyday at lunch I “disappear” and no one knows where I go. This is off the clock time. We aren’t allowed to loiter outside on our breaks unless we stand in the smokers area or we can go to our cars and leave. I don’t smoke and I don't have a car. I also haven't been lucky enough to bring or buy lunch so sitting in a busy lunchroom for an hour smelling all the food when I've been surviving on ramen noodles every two days is hell. So I go to the bathroom, lean my head on the tank of the toilet and I nap. Again, not on company time and I don’t see why I would need to tell everyone.
After she told me all this I just started crying and I’m so embarrassed that I did. I pointed out that I’m absolutely crushing my work performance percentages and questioned how any of this was relevant. Why was I being pulled from my work and forced to defend myself about what I’m doing off the clock? She then strongly recommends I get clothing that fits and put on a little coverup to look “alive”. I was also encouraged to be more friendly with the team despite them showing zero initiative and ignore me. I would love to get all pretty to appease my coworkers! I would love to chat with them eating overpriced pre packaged caesar salads in the lunchroom! I would love clothing that fits a bit better and more than two shirts but are they going to provide funds for me? NO.
I don't want to “ruffle HR feathers” but I can’t believe this is happening. I need this job. I’m really good at it. I had a stillbirth two months ago and it allows me to sit for my entire shift and the pay is decent enough that I can survive until I heal enough to get a second job. Do I just not return to work and find a new job? I’m rebuilding from being homeless and this job pays well. I’m already running on low energy from not eating normally/walking everywhere. I’ve been just doing the best I can because that's what adults do when there is no magic money tree or help.
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2021.12.06 01:59 xodarii Sleepy void🖤
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2021.12.06 01:59 iFilmHeroes OurStory; i Film Heroes, The Rescue Cat & Dog Filmmaker is the only non-profit that uses creative film and photography to advocate and raise awareness for rescue cats and dogs in the United States.We use story-telling in our films to educate the public on several rescue topics such as; fostering,
2021.12.06 01:59 BaselessDegenerate Spoilers: Workshop Currency Farm
Not sure if this has been discussed before but I think I have found a pretty good yellow currency farm. The Strange Harvest: Bio-Research mission has you move to 3 locations on the map to interact with a plant at each location.
Once interacted with, you move to the next plant. Do this 3 times and mission is completed and you can return to orbit netting you 100 credits.
I can complete this solo in about 10 minutes so netting about 600/c an hour.
Anyone else know of any good credit farms?
Hope this helps some people
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2021.12.06 01:59 Desecr8or 'Licorice Pizza' faces criticism for scenes involving fake Asian accent
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2021.12.06 01:59 LadybirdAZ My arbirtsging site is recommending people to use their code to sign up for Sportsbook bonuses. Wouldn't this be the LAST thing you'd ever want to do? Telling the books that you're using this arbitrage site??
2021.12.06 01:59 CerveauRecyclable « Gimpel l’imbécile » : qu’est-ce que la crédulité ?
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2021.12.06 01:59 LAGOJOE 🙏
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2021.12.06 01:59 braydahueman Who is your favorite character that you relate to the most?
2021.12.06 01:59 ilyCrxwn Is this normal? 5600x with 240mm soo gets to 83 degrees while running cinebench r23.
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2021.12.06 01:59 Ok_Detective_8446 my new kitten!
2021.12.06 01:59 Blaubeerepfannkuchen I’m thinking about getting a piercing. What should I get?
I already do pass, I have for two years. I only recently got misgendered but he quickly corrected himself because English wasn’t his first language.
What is considered a “manly” or “masculine” piercing?
Is there, like, a guide or something? idk i’m tired
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2021.12.06 01:59 Sickness81 Darce Choke from Turtle. Jiujiutsu#darcechokes#sunday#jiujitsulifestyle
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2021.12.06 01:59 ReadDailyCoin The Ultimate Fight Between Doge And Shib - Who Will Win? — DailyCoin
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2021.12.06 01:59 Administrative-Run27 Worst produced Strokes album?
In my opinion, Room On Fire, easily. The Way It Is and Between Love and Hate are very dull and way too analog in their production, which doesn’t help the fact that the songs are already the Strokes worst.
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2021.12.06 01:59 TTTechnoPro [USA-CA] [H] Oloy 32GB (2x16GB) 3600 Mhz CL18 RAM, 2x NZXT Aer P 140mm Fans, Thunderbolt 2 Accessories, 86x Boba U4T Switches, 110x TX Films 0.15mm, KPRepublic XD68 Custom Mechanical Keyboard [W] Paypal/Local Cash
sorry for long title. Local to 95111, San Jose. Willing to drive ~7-10 miles.
Oloy 32 GB RAM - $90 shipped, $85 local
2021.12.06 01:59 adorablebob Prime Gaming Code Giveaway
Giving away the following codes to whoever messages me first:
- Need For Speed: Hot Pursuit Remastered (Origin) [Claim by 3 January 2022]
- Frostpunk (GOG) [Claim by 5 January 2022]
- Journey to the Savage Planet (GOG) [Claim by 3 January 2022]
Only 1 code per person, to spread the joy around.
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2021.12.06 01:59 monstergoat77 I cried so much today and ended up breaking no contact. Maybe it was for the better this time.
My ex broke up with me 5 days ago due to her feeling overwhelmed with all her responsibility and her depression. When it happened I was in shock and I said a few hurtful things that I wish she just hated me or I was an idiot for thinking she cared for me. But I caught myself before doing more damage and told her I loved her alot and she was my best friend. I did NC for 4 days and it was hell just thinking about her all the time, what I could have said differently or done. I broke today and texted her a long text of how I loved her and I'll always have her back that she doesn't have to go through the depression alone. I also said I was proud of her for starting therapy again. She saw my message and I felt even worse when she didn't reply to me, I was checking my phone every 2 minutes waiting but it didn't come. I tried to sleep and I kept waking up every 30 min looking to see if she replied. Just 20 minutes ago I felt like a waste of space and idiot for texting her. Until I just received a reply from her. "Thank you. You are very special to me and I care for you very much. The past 2 and a half years have been amazing with you and I will always cherish those beautiful memories ❤️" I feel a bit better that I said what I felt I needed to tell her when I was not in such shock from the initial break-up. I just hope my brain doesn't trick me into false hope we are getting back together now.
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2021.12.06 01:59 Artistic-Disaster-66 quay lén váy tổng hợp
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2021.12.06 01:59 asleepunderthewillow 34M Hi new friend! Oh, wait, we haven't met yet...
I’ve recently met a few new people on here and am loving the experience. I love getting to know you all and learning more about your worlds. Sharing little fun snippets of your lives, hearing your stories, and sharing in your interests — and sharing about myself as well.
I’m a married dad of two young kiddos. I love reading, spending time with my family, and have way too many hobbies for whats good for my sleep.
In my (very little) free time I like to engaged in one of my hobbies/interests:
2021.12.06 01:59 AsrielOlidan 316 / Binary Yataghan sword
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2021.12.06 01:59 Bigtrisket Yo every time you smoke is the first time you smoked - since the last time you smoked. 🤯
2021.12.06 01:59 TheMixerTheMaster The Notwist - Consequence (2002)
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2021.12.06 01:59 rituail AMAZING OF LEAKS!!
2021.12.06 01:59 HighChairman1 Meme 11
If this happens to me in real life I'm gonna flip.
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