My boyfriend treats me like a child

2021.10.19 06:57 h----i My boyfriend treats me like a child

Me (17F) and my boyfriend (21M) have been together for 1 year, even though we’ve known each other all my life (literally), because he’s my bother’s best friend. He’s only 4 years older than me, but there’s the fact that I’m still underage. My family is okay with our relationship, they don’t love the fact that I’m dating someone older than me, but they’ve already known him for a long time and they absolutely love him. He’s my first boyfriend, and I’m sure my family wouldn’t be so fine with it if it was someone else, even if it was someone my age. They just don’t want me to have sex with him until I’m 18, which sucks because things wouldn’t be like that if it wasn’t for our age gap. I just turned 17, there’s still a long way until I’m 18. My boyfriend respects me a lot and we haven’t done anything yet, I’m a virgin.
What really sucks is that my boyfriend treats me like I’m a child. He’s only 4 years older than me, and he acts like he’s all grown up and as if he needs to take care of me in some way. He always wants to know where I’m at, who I’m with, what time I’m coming back home, and he says he only does that because he worries about me, but I think that’s controlling. He’s 21, he can drink alcohol, but he doesn’t let me drink around him. When I’m with him and his friends my own brother doesn’t mind me drinking, but my boyfriend makes a big deal out of it. He worries about my grades and school too much, and I really mean it, way too much. Sometimes I just want to get some rest and have some fun with him, and he’s constantly asking me if I have homework, any tests coming up, and so on. He’s smart, he’s in college, he always offers to help me, but c’mon, that’s not the type of thing you want to do around your boyfriend. And, of course, he doesn’t want to have sex with me. I really want my first time to be with him, and I’m absolutely sure I’m ready for this. He has had sex multiple times before, when he had his first time he was younger than me, and I know he misses it. He’s never even touched me sexually, and he doesn’t let me touch him in that way, and this is very upsetting for me. He watches porn and masturbates often, which is very frustrating for me. Once I tried to take my clothes off in front of him, and he was all serious telling me to get dressed, so he prefers to see naked women on the internet instead of me. Ever since I started dating him my mom has been taking me to a doctor to get birth control, so even though my parents said we can’t have sex for now, they also know this is at least expected to happen at some point. I highly doubt my parents would do anything if we have sex and they eventually find out, most likely they’ll be just disappointed at me. I’ve already told him nobody needs to know what we do, but he prefers to wait until I’m older instead. We’re planning to travel abroad together for my 18th birthday, but at this point I’m not expecting anything really, he’ll probably just get there and find something to lecture me about.
He is my best friend, he’s the person that knows me the best, I love him, but I feel like he treats me like a little sister (not even my brother treats me like that), and I hate being treated like a child. I want a boyfriend, not another brother. I’ve already told him how I feel, and he says he’ll treat me like an adult when I’m an adult, but I just don’t see that changing when I turn 18, after all, the age is just a number. How can I make him stop treating me like a child?
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Hi everyone! My family (5 adults 21+) are going to Disneyland and California Adventure from November 8-14th and have park hoppers for all of the days. We would go to Disney every couple of years so we are pros at FastPass and took advantage of it every time in order to maximize our experience.
Since there are no FastPasses anymore, and Genie + hasn’t been launched there yet, I was wondering what everyone’s standby strategies are for the day?
What order of rides do you go on first? What are the lines that are tending to go faster than others post pandemic? Or really anything to share for Disneyland right now as it exists in an only standby world.
Any help is appreciated!!
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2021.10.19 06:57 Crazy_Mix62803 [College Physics] Charge Distribution on Conductor with Cavity

Hi guys, I have this quick question here:
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2021.10.19 06:57 Independent_Passion7 Me (F) and My Girlfriend were a fantasy, but I miss it.

1 year together, nearly 3 months apart now.
It's so frustrating because I (F, Bi) really want to get back with her (them?) (NB, Lesbian, its a thing) but I feel like a big issue with us was that we were both so tied up in make believe- playing pretend around gender and sexuality, our whole relationship was sometimes elaborate roleplay. Because we're both such creative people, it really worked, and we kind of worked to make the other person's dreams and fantasies come true, as muchas we could. This went double for kinks and sex in general, both of us had fetishes the other person couldn't necessarily fulfill irl.
But thats what it was, pretend. I feel like at the heart of it, we were pretending to be who we really wanted to be, and that the other person was what we wanted, at least for me, and we were just really good at it.
I loved using masc pronouns with my partner and I absolutely validated and currently validate their identity. But I think all the skirting around we did, playing with heteronormativity, touched on the issue that I just really wanted (and still want) to experience love with a cis man.
The bodies and characters we would roleplay with weren't us. The scruffy teen boy puppy dog character I loved wasn't her. I felt like I was looking past her sometimes.
And sometimes I worry I only loved her or felt sexually attracted to her was because she could play that character so well. Better than any man I'd ever met, that's for sure.
She sold me an exact fantasy, and i feel like what she deserved has to have someone love her for her, not in spite of her physical form and presentation. She was beautiful, make no mistake, but I fele like it was wasted on me.
All I know is that I loved the game we played, and if it's okay to keep playing it, I want to. But if it was all just because I didn't think I could get what I really wanted, I want to keep looking, and find that man in real life.
Whatever, just airing my dirty laundry in public for you lovely folks.
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2021.10.19 06:57 Appropriate_Ad_4093 A Pessimistic take on the GME Report

A Pessimistic take on the GME Report I had very low expectations going into the report, and that negative sentiment hasn't changed coming out of it. In my opinion, the report doesn't really "confirm" anything for us. The two main points I want to bring up from the report is the short interest and the SEC staff's take on FTD data.

First, we get the fact that GME short interest exceeded its outstanding share, having an SI of over 100%. Let's be honest, SI of slightly over 100% is a very low number for what we should expect. It makes you wonder how they derived this number. It is really disappointing.
All they did was use publicly available/purchasable data and the CAT database. They didn't investigate SHFs, prime brokers, market makers, and other institutions for known financial instruments used to hide shorts. I am unsure exactly how CAT operates, but it doesn't seem to do much for misreporting shorts as longs, ETF stripping, swaps, foreign holdings, etc.
(If someone is willing, they could deconstruct the specifications listed on to see if it is possible.)
Additionally, they briefly mention FTDs, but do not discuss it much.
The key point of this paragraph should have been how the FTDs were cleared. However, it is (conveniently) left out.

I do like the fact that we get confirmation that GME had a greater than 100% short interest just from surface data alone, and this may attract new investors and possibly FOMO buyers. However, this report really is just 45 pages of nothingness. The methodologies to gather data for the report were laughably simple. It appears they haven't done any investigations or disclosed any data from investigations for this report. They just took a bunch of data that was already available in databases, slapped it into a report with some colorful graphs, and submitted it for public viewing.
In my opinion, FTDs should have been the crux of this report. SI does not matter. Price does not matter. Retail buy pressure does not matter. There is no market integrity as long as FTDs are common, hidden, and allowed by regulators. Abusive naked short selling is the main problem. We know, the SEC knows, financial institutions know, that there are a myriad of ways to clear, cover, hide, or just "crime" FTDs and the obligation it entails. Perhaps I should have lowered my expectations even more considering that this is a staff report, not even sanctioned by the commission (whatever the fuck that means). But it seems more than misleading to post a half-assed report with many important information omitted.
Conclusion: DRS your shares. Buy through Computershare. I am not selling until I can net hundreds of millions from a single share. Fuck this system.
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