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2021.09.23 04:29 booksabillion Did my own version of the 31 days of Halloween movie list!
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2021.09.23 04:29 McOscario Chess . Debating . Mock Trials . Study Help | Join Prodigy Today! + https://discord.gg/WgW4CXa2Gy
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2021.09.23 04:29 brothadwolf2 Azelf raid on me, adding first 5
2021.09.23 04:29 MakeYourself85 [AEW Rampage Spoilers] *Spoiler* got a noticeable pop.
2021.09.23 04:29 throwawayptsdgirl6 My daughter is having mental breakdown because of situation with my BF's children (Advice needed)
Sorry for the format. I am on my phone and english is not my first language.
I(39f) was in an abusive relationship 4 years ago where my ex-bf was also abusing my daughter (12f). She has PTSD from it and now is still having therapy for almost 2 years. I started a relationship with my boyfriend(48m) 1 year ago and he is a very strictly manner person. My daughter since the abuse sometimes are having withdrawal moments and anxiety attacks. She is also becoming a very quite person and not having a good social skills: not replying when someone say hi to her, rarely smile, doesn't want to be hug or touch, not saying thank you, or sorry, or appropriate manners like that. The therapist said that it is a kind of defense mechanism that she build because she can't trust people and wants to push them away.
My bf find it hard to deal with her manners and he complaint many times to me about it. I tried to both give understanding to my bf and force my daughter to be more social and have better manners but with no progress. My bf find the reasons of PTSD effects are unbelievable because she has already almost 2 years therapy for it.
He has 2 children, 9f and 11m. The daughter has Down Syndrome and the boy are (suspected) to have ADHD (still on going diagnose). Both of them are very social and are very different than my daughter. Since their father are very strict with them, they behave in a very good manners in front of him. But when he is not around the children are totally different. They will scream, jumping around and not listening to what I say. My daughter find them very stressful to deal with. She is even more quite when they are around. They are with us 2 whole weekends in a month.
Since I thought it might be a good social training for my daughter and since my bf wants to feel all of us as a family, I kind of force her to always be together to create the bond. But it only backfired. My daughter develop a resentment to what I did and she was having a total brakedown last week. She said she was tired, that she can't sleep properly when they are around because his daughter snores and makes alot of noises in her sleep, his son like to make passive aggressive comments on her (although he said it's only a joke) and she can't have her time alone to recharge in her room during the day.
They all sleep in the same bedroom in my bf apartment and their bedroom are next to each other in my house. She just started new school 3 weeks ago and it is a bigger school with alot of students and she is overwhelmed with the whole situations. Her therapist suggested that maybe she can sleep in the living room in my bf house and move their bedroom in my house, and that my daughter can have her own time in her room once in a while when they are around. But my bf was angry when I discussed it with him.
He commented on how my daughter is a manipulative spoiled brat that doesn't know how to socially behaved and have a very bad manners and his children are very much better than my daughter. So in anger I said back that his children are not as good as he thought. They behave differently when he is not around. And I was so disappointed that I took all the patient to deal with his children and he can't do it for mine. I sent him a cctv video from last week where it can be heard that his daughter screamed and saying rude things to me. And in the video there was moment when my daughter move to sit behind me, being very quite and it's obvious from her face how stressful she was.
Now he is more angry with me saying that it's an asshole move of me for not telling him directly that day and to hold back evidence against him to win arguments. I actually told him sometimes ago about how his children behave differently when he was not around, but seem like he brushed it off since there was no real evidence for it, only what I think happened versus what he think happened. What happened with the video was coincidence because it happened near where I put my cctv camera. In the video the daughter can't be seen but her voice are loud enough to be heard. Now I am thinking that maybe I should have show him the video that day, but somehow I just didn't want to come up with it because of her daughter condition that she didn't mean to be rude and I didn't want my bf to scold her.
Any suggestions on how to move on from this point? We were now trying to cool off but I am still very much sad and mad (also at myself for feeling of failing my daughter). I love him alot but seems that this relationship is too much hardworking mentally and seems like it reachs the breaking point.
TLDR: my daughter with PTSD having mental breakdown from being overwhelmed with my BF's children "nice" behavior, my BF was angry with my daughter not really realizing that his children behave differently when he was not around. I sent him the proof and now he is even more angry with me.
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2021.09.23 04:29 Maude2010 Product returns
2021.09.23 04:29 Swibbz Hot in Pink
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2021.09.23 04:29 prawnbiryani 💗☁🍦🌸🧁🤍🦩
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2021.09.23 04:29 zoedirt average redditor is incapable of functioning without regressing back into 12 y/o brain
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2021.09.23 04:29 abjectappearance Co-pawrenting
My SO and I got a puppy together 2 weeks ago. She's a large breed and full of joy and energy. We both had dogs when we were young but this is the first time raising a puppy with someone else.
We love her to bits but it's just obvious that she loves my SO more, right from the get go. It was devastating for me at first but I've now accepted it. She doesn't disobey me or get too sassy, she just follows him around more and sticks to him when we're together with her. The first few days were really hard but I've since gotten a bit closer to her and it's fine with me now.
Thing is, I work from home full time and my SO can't go back to work fully because of lockdown. We each have our own home offices and in order to "make things easier" for me, my SO has the puppy with him all the time in his office. While I appreciate being able to work in peace, I feel a bit out of touch with the whole pawrenting thing now.
I've told him that "easier" doesn't always mean "better" and that it's just as important that puppy has a good relationship with me and that we need to get her used to staying alone with me in my office as well. Especially when he finally gets to go back fully to work and I'll be home with puppy for hours. The prospect of this is legit making me feel very anxious and like an awful pawrent. I've tried to coax her into my office but she just ups and runs back to him because while he's around, she's going to choose to be with him.
The only time I've spent some alone time with her is when my SO is way too flat out tired and needs a nap. Then I get some alone time with her.
My SO claims that he's not hogging puppy and I also know that it's just how it is that puppy chooses to be with him but I also feel like he's not intentionally helping me bond with her and preparing a good setup for when she's home alone with me. He's likely to go back to work in a few weeks and I'm honestly dreading the day it happens. Which is awful because I love our puppy, I just don't know how I'll handle being alone with her.
And yes, we've talked about it several times and every time he agreed that she needs to spend more time alone with me, but he's not exactly doing anything to make it happen.
Co-pawrenting is hard. How can I get through this, any advice?
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2021.09.23 04:29 luverluver25 Who feels like they’ve reverted back to childhood loneliness since the pandemic began?
2021.09.23 04:29 Aquagan [Spoilers] “You never earned it!” (Moon Knight #3)
2021.09.23 04:29 hanumakirun Bheemla Nayak (2022)
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2021.09.23 04:29 pi-town First wipe, joined late. Some quests seem impossible.
I can imagine some of these quests that force you to kill PMCs with specific weapons within certain ranges are hard enough at the beginning of the wipe but, as a new player, these quests are proving impossible at this stage of the wipe. It's hard enough this late into the wipe with most opponents having access to high level traders/gear, but I doubt I'll even be able to get there. Crossing my fingers that as I level, traders will offer new missions that can help improve my rep. Looking at you Jaeger.
TL;DR: This game is not friendly to late starters
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2021.09.23 04:28 geno7 That’s one way to get a collateral
2021.09.23 04:28 firestars112 Looking for some kind words of encouragement please
Hello everyone, I’m feeling really defeated and I’m looking for some kind words of encouragement please. I’m currently in my late twenties and I finally decided to get help for my gaming addiction and to focus on living a more meaningful and happy life. I decided to go back to college to get my bachelors but I’m feeling so defeated. Most of my peers and friends seem to be living a very happy and successful life while I spent hours and hours gaming and working at a minimum wage job in order to escape reality. I hit a really low point a few years back after coming out of an abusive relationship that left me mentally and emotionally broken, and instead of seeking help, I got addicted to gaming and fell deeper and deeper into my depression. I’ve finally decided to seek help for my addiction and mental health, but some words of encouragement would be nice please. I don’t really have any friends or a strong support system and it’s been only a few days since I decided to stop gaming so I’ve been feeling even more alone on this journey. Thank you for reading.
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2021.09.23 04:28 GloveOpposite5281 Question: GF Match Thread - How toxic will it be?
I’ve started to lurk around this sub over the last year and occasionally have a peak at the match thread during games if I need a bit more entertainment.
I have noticed through the finals that the match thread has a much larger “attendance” than a H&A game with most of them being neutrals who love taking pot shots at anything and everything. (It must be noted I’m more than happy to play the bitter Swannie and fire a few people up).
So for those of you who have been on a GF match thread before; is it a step above a normal finals game? More heat? More abuse? More anger? Would my rogue conspiracy theories trying to delegitimise the Dogs 2016 premiership fit in nicely?
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2021.09.23 04:28 momaherplz [Serious] - Applying to IM residencies with extremely high Step scores (261 and 275) but literally ZERO research/volunteering/leadership/ECs.
I’m struggling to find out what programs are reasonable targets for me. I love big city life, so my “dream” program would be somewhere like Columbia or UCLA, but I know I’ll never match there (or any of the big four in NYC, really) without research. Would somewhere like USC or one of the lower-tier Ivies (i.e. Brown or Dartmouth) be within reach? I’m really at a loss here.
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2021.09.23 04:28 eggpeach02 It looks like Fez and Lexi are gonna be having a lot of interactions together in s2
2021.09.23 04:28 Ok_Illustrator5914 Need a Date For NF Concert near Indianapolis
Any single lady out there interested in going to the NF concert in Indiana tomorrow?
I just moved to the Chicago area for work and don’t really know anyone around here yet. Bought the tickets for my cheating ex but I still wanted to go. I’m driving my Cadillac from the West Chicago suburbs, will provide transportation to and from concert. No expectations, just friendly conversation.
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2021.09.23 04:28 parkavenueWHORE What would be a hilarious funeral?
2021.09.23 04:28 TreeBlazer503 Help
I have a group chat with my Co Workers where we send memes and jokes and what not and I’d like to give the group chat a funny ironic name. Please send your ideas.
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2021.09.23 04:28 forfriedrice The Absolute Hype Music
2021.09.23 04:28 rebbitpls Jmod compares being attacked in the wilderness to being sexually assaulted for wearing revealing clothing
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